How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne

[oc16]

I've said it before and I'll say it again, read this guys book.

Most of the stuff is relatable to what we go through. In short, when a woman likes you, she will help you and chase you. She will INITIATE most of texts, Bumble chats or Facebook Messengers

Just in the past two weeks.

1.) I was going back and forth with an older (late 40s) Hispanic woman on "Facebook Dating" for a couple weeks. I didn't hear from her in a little while, so I figured I'll write her again on FB messenger. She didn't have much to say and her IL is now low.

2.) Another girl I actually met ten years ago (in person) and we hooked up 2x during that time. I am Facebook friends and we matched on Bumble. We were writing each other last month and I mentioned drinks. She said, sounds good, but I'm working through July 2nd. Never heard from her , so I figured. "It's the man's job to pursue, maybe she's waiting for me to write her again"

Wrong!

Just reached out to her again, I mentioned drinks and she responds "Maybe, I'm busy with work until early August" . I responded, "just reach out to me when your available or down the shore (she lives 1.5 hours from me, but visits 45 mins from me in beach town here and there). I won't reach out to her again.

Moral of story: Interested women will not give you the run around and they will almost ALWAYS put themselves in a position for you to escalate. Don't fall for the "women like to be pursued " and play hard to get non-sense.

These two recent situations and the many others I have had prove Corey Wayne is mostly right.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

Both examples were polite rejections that you didn't pick up on, regardless of what happened years previous.

 

[oc16]

Both examples were polite rejections that you didn't pick up on, regardless of what happened years previous.

Perhaps, but when we matched on Bumble she said after we exchanged hellos " Want to go out on a date, I'm fun as hell!"

 

[Sgthaytham]

Just reached out to her again, I mentioned drinks and she responds "Maybe, I'm busy with work until early August" . I responded, "just reach out to me when your available or down the shore (she lives 1.5 hours from me, but visits 45 mins from me in beach town here and there). I won't reach out to her again.

She'll either backtrack and offer alternatives or agree to the night you propose, she may take a few days or a couple days and reach out (she expects you as the man to understand she wants to see you: set a date), or she'll say "Yeah, I'll let you know" and you won't ever hear from her again.

This is what he calls the 'Takeaway', and it works. It tells you what most men want to know, if she's interested and values you and your time.

 

[EyeBRollin]

It’s a watered down plagiarized version of Doc Love’s The System. Spend the extra money and get that one instead.

 

[Robert28]

Both examples were polite rejections that you didn't pick up on, regardless of what happened years previous.

There’s nothing polite about not being up front with someone and acting passive aggressive which women do. How would they like it if where they worked stopped paying them all of a sudden but they kept coming to work. “Oh sorry we were trying to send you a hint you were fired when you stopped receiving your checks. Learn to read signals lady! Gah!”

 

[SirBigBell]

Remember, the woman who tells you she is busy until August, is the very same woman who blowing up another man’s phone complaining that he doesnt make enough time to see her, and will drop everything in a flash to see him if he drops her a few crumbs of attention.

So you need to figure out why you and the other guy are on opposite ends of the plank.
- Do you need to up your value and presentation as a man?
- Do you need to work on your charisma?
- Do you need to learn to reign back your displays of interest and excitability?
- Are you pursuing women who think you’re in a lower league than them?

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

There’s nothing polite about not being up front with someone and acting passive aggressive which women do. How would they like it if where they worked stopped paying them all of a sudden but they kept coming to work. “Oh sorry we were trying to send you a hint you were fired when you stopped receiving your checks. Learn to read signals lady! Gah!”

Robert, you have to get over the bitterness man. It radiates in every post of yours.

Look... most people, especially women, are non-confrontational. They're not going to come out and say "I'm not attracted to you, and don't want to date you." So they go the route of a soft rejection to not hurt your feelings.

That's just the way it is.

 

[Robert28]

Robert, you have to get over the bitterness man. It radiates in every post of yours.

Look... most people, especially women, are non-confrontational. They're not going to come out and say "I'm not attracted to you, and don't want to date you." So they go the route of a soft rejection to not hurt your feelings.

That's just the way it is.

Sorry you think I’m being bitter instead of bending over and accepting sh!tty behavior. If they act that way in their personal lives then I can only imagine how screwed up the rest of their life is. It’s so easy to say “I’m not interested” ESPECIALLY on a fvcking dating app! Or just unmatch the person. But no they NEED to play these weird games because that’s what’s narcissist do. I sit back and enjoy watching these same women cry and complain when a player Chad comes along and gives them a dose of their medicine.

 

[GreatHornedOwl]

So from their behavior of being nice and trying to avoid hurting someone's feelings, you can only imagine how screwed up the rest of their life is? Now she's a narcissist and needs a dose of her own medicine? That makes absolutely no sense.

Are you okay, dude?

 

[oc16]

Remember, the woman who tells you she is busy until August, is the very same woman who blowing up another man’s phone complaining that he doesnt make enough time to see her, and will drop everything in a flash to see him if he drops her a few crumbs of attention.

So you need to figure out why you and the other guy are on opposite ends of the plank.
- Do you need to up your value and presentation as a man?
- Do you need to work on your charisma?
- Do you need to learn to reign back your displays of interest and excitability?
- Are you pursuing women who think you’re in a lower league than them?

Who knows , I don't think her IL was that high to begin with.

 

[Robert28]

So from their behavior of being nice and trying to avoid hurting someone's feelings, you can only imagine how screwed up the rest of their life is? Now she's a narcissist and needs a dose of her own medicine? That makes absolutely no sense.

Are you okay, dude?

So you would say ghosting is ok and doesn’t hurt anyones feelings?

 

[manfrombelow]

You don't need to read any book just to know that women would make time for you, no matter how busy they really are, if they really like you. But if they don't like you, they'd make up excuses to not give you their time.

But Corey Wayne is legit. He saved me years ago so I'm still looking up to him as a mentor. If you can, buy his book.

 

[jjflash]

The real question is why you're chasing 50 year old hispanic grandmas.

 

[oc16]

The real question is why you're chasing 50 year old hispanic grandmas.

Milfs baby!

 

[RickTheToad]

I've said it before and I'll say it again, read this guys book.

Most of the stuff is relatable to what we go through. In short, when a woman likes you, she will help you and chase you. She will INITIATE most of texts, Bumble chats or Facebook Messengers

Just in the past two weeks.

1.) I was going back and forth with an older (late 40s) Hispanic woman on "Facebook Dating" for a couple weeks. I didn't hear from her in a little while, so I figured I'll write her again on FB messenger. She didn't have much to say and her IL is now low.

2.) Another girl I actually met ten years ago (in person) and we hooked up 2x during that time. I am Facebook friends and we matched on Bumble. We were writing each other last month and I mentioned drinks. She said, sounds good, but I'm working through July 2nd. Never heard from her , so I figured. "It's the man's job to pursue, maybe she's waiting for me to write her again"

Wrong!

Just reached out to her again, I mentioned drinks and she responds "Maybe, I'm busy with work until early August" . I responded, "just reach out to me when your available or down the shore (she lives 1.5 hours from me, but visits 45 mins from me in beach town here and there). I won't reach out to her again.

Moral of story: Interested women will not give you the run around and they will almost ALWAYS put themselves in a position for you to escalate. Don't fall for the "women like to be pursued " and play hard to get non-sense.

These two recent situations and the many others I have had prove Corey Wayne is mostly right.

1) If you are going to do Facebook Dating, everyone knows you should create a new profile from scratch, with only the best pics of yourself and no friends listed.

2) You may had peaked the Bumble's female at first, but you some how changed her mind.

3) You shouldn't be going after dumpster diving single moms; unless for practice. Even then, not one's who are in their mid 40s. Adding to this, they are hella easy to meet up with and lay. You need to figure out what you fvcked up and busted your shot.

4) You obviously didn't read the book correctly. Read it again. Coach John Wayne says to read the book at least 3 times. So, by my measures, you have at least 2 more times to read the book. Check here for other reading recommendations. It's all good, just remember, we as people learn more from our failures than our successes.

 

[RangerMIke]

It’s a watered down plagiarized version of Doc Love’s The System. Spend the extra money and get that one instead.

Exactly. Wayne is just Doc Love with Tony Robbins self-help stuff mixed in with sex talk. Doc Love just sees sex as a byproduct of doing things correctly, so if you want advice on sex... go find a book about sex.... or better yet, get practice on your own.

I don't have a problem with Wayne except his book is boring as hell. Filled with anecdotes of his life which in all honesty is really not that compelling. My advice would be read Doc Love, do your own self-exploration, figure out what you did wrong and change your behavior. Both Doc Love and Wayne say you have to read their books 10 times.... Trust me, you can easily read "The System" 10 times. After reading Wayne's book once, I don't think I could suffer through that again. Wayne just does not get to the fvcking point... he rambles on like a chick.

Wayne just took Doc Love... filled it with irrelevance to make a bigger book... and he really isn't that great a writer. There was a part of Wayne's book that honestly just made me cringe.... where he challenges the reader to make a list of all the traits you are looking for in a chick... that's right out of a Tony Robbin's self-help seminar on visualization to actuation.

Like I said, nothing wrong with Wayne... there is some good stuff in it, but all the good stuff is Doc Love.

The ONLY things I do not like about Doc Love is that he puts EVERY thing on interest level. He says you need to be at al least 50% to have a shot.... well that's fine, but I like to categorize by attraction, then interest. Attraction is a function of her perception that you are going to meet her needs in terms of looks, money, and status... if you are not there, you don't have a shot. I prefer to see things as you ether have a passing grade D,C,B or A... with "A" meaning love at first site. Otherwise you are an "F" and you don't have a shot. The higher your grade the easier time you will have a go of it. With Doc Love you you are not at 50% you are an "F" so it's really just semantics. If you are at least a D, you can increase your grade with behavior. Wayne actually does the same thing.

In fact ALL dating and relationship coaches will never tell you that looks, money, and status is that important... Why? Because they make money convincing guys that action they take will yield results and no one wants to tell you that things you can't control will hurt you. If you are bald, or short, or old, or just have a regular job making decent money... MOST chicks are not going to be attracted to you... and there isn't a fvcking thing you can do about it except just be the best version of yourself he can be.

Wayne gives you advice that you can turn things around with a chick where things have gone sideways... IMO that is BS... but again, there are lots of dudes willing to throw money at him telling them there are behavior changes that will work. In reality... if you have lost a chick you are DONE... all you can do is move on to another, learn from the experience, and don't make mistakes the next time... and keep working on yourself.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Moral of story: Interested women will not give you the run around and they will almost ALWAYS put themselves in a position for you to escalate. Don't fall for the "women like to be pursued " and play hard to get non-sense.

I agree problem is women are mostly trained from very young to give it up easy for top tier men ( celebrities , athletes ) and in some cases 6ft + chads but make it difficult for pretty much everyone else

Social media has compounded this dynamic by increasing the value of average women and decreasing the value of average men

So an average guy these days is finding himself an average girl that firmly believes she is now above average

She believes that he needs to "work for it" and he thinks " wtf this girl is nothing special why would i chase her"

Becomes a Mexican stand off

It's a very strange social dynamic

 

[Atom Smasher]

The problem I have with Wayne is that he’s too forgiving with women. He accepts their behavior and says to always leave the door open. I prefer to correct them and change their behavior by delivering consequences (rejection and removal of attention).

There are so many fish in the sea yet we men tend to think in terms of scarcity. We assign far too much importance to individual targets.

 

[B80]

I have it OP. Solid material. Guy gets a lot of hate from guys. I dont get why.
Equally important to note is its called 3% man for a reason. You are surrounded by plugged in betas serving their wives/gf's as slaves.
Equally important is Heartiste on Game. It more refines how to became the lovable azzhole to women. My .02

have you read doc loves - the system? notice you can buy it from his site on audio or electronic for $99 - is it worth the premium over waynes book?

as mentioned the other day, already reading Heartistes book.