I believe the big piece is not acting needy or jealous. For example if you know the girl you are seeing is hanging around other guys or has male orbiters (which most attractive women do); the minute you start asking "Who is that"? Where are you going? she will start to lose interest.
He also says in the beginning It is all about having fun and hooking up; let her bring the relationship stuff up.
Agree , i've done those mistakes when i was with my ex. I gotta say , it was her fault for keeping those guys from the past around , and they calling her to make me insecure. What a ****ed up **** this has been , i hate relationships now.
My recent breakup was textbook Coach Corey Wayne.
"The power of the takeaway"
"No to lunch dates"
"The power of no"
"You must be willing to walk away and never look back"
"Studies show that women are most attracted to men whose feelings are unclear" (because men with options will feel unclear about dealing with their BS)
(and even she said)
"If you change your mind, let me know"
People like my narcissistic ex , who got all in her hypergamous nature , does bull**** all the time to me , before i even met her in person, after that , even when we were together , even after we seperated. Her testing and bull**** mechanisms always work , it doesn't just go away , maybe its the type of guy i am and how i look at things and how i despise the disrespect and all those crappy behaviors towards me , all the complaining and being her emotional tampon and male orbiter/girlfriend. Instead of she putting me as a lover or etc option , she just puts me in a place of friendzone and tries hardly for me to stay there , no matter how hard i try telling her and moving away , so my only option was to left after making it clear to her stupid head im not gonna be the ***** orbiter like her male girlfriend best friend , who she uses for favors , money and listening to all her problems. They are just users people like her.
Actually, I was pointing out the unimaginative, one note drone that most PUA advice is made up of.
But if you read my post in your Bitter End thread, you probably realize that now.
Women will chase you if they have a high interest in you. Unfortunately, guys who seek help in this are probably not very high value to begin with. Their next question would likely be "How do you get them to be high interest in you?".
Man , what do you really expect "unfortunately guys who seek help in this are probably not very high value to begin with" , like really , cause we all didn't know that man , cmon , if we were all born HVM it would been way easier for us to be succesful and like the women , we get everything so easy like that. So yeah , it's really easy - who seeks help here is either a man with value/or boy with value, who yet doesnt realised its own value and belief system about women (im the second , clearly , even though im 24)
we clearly aren't all born alphas , but the social conditioning and our parents/enviroments makes us beta , thats why some people say "Oh world is full of needy guys , see they are all the same , what a bunch of stupids" , while they have no clue of the struggles and things the people are going through , myself included. Not that rich or that educated in the women or job area , which made me struggle to even make friends and keep them around , so yeah , i guess we are not high value. If we were , we were'nt going to be here asking for brutal honesty and directions/solutions , life is harder for some people , even though i wanted to be a natural extrovert alpha , it didnt magically appeared , it went as a process , and last year ive felt like one , at least for some time , not been happier since long time ago . But because of missing experience and game/knowledge and keeping my cool/backbone/masculine frame/confidence , she betaized me and i lost my job and everything else followed. So yeah , for us men is way harder in every single area.
