drift king
Master Don Juan
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ok i've had this happened to me twice now and have no idea how to avoid it.
i make plans to go to a bar with a girl for her to suddenly announce to do something different i.e. to go eat somewhere.
i read a tip before about how you acknowledge her request if she wants to go somewhere she has seen while shes out with you but you're not suppose to succumb to her demands but take her there in future on your terms when you want to and are ready to.
i basically get stuck because i say we're going to a bar and she'll respond with 'i don't want to go to a bar'
what/how are you suppose to tackle this situation?
i dont want to seem difficult or laid back yet i ended up wasting money tonight taking this girl out to eat for me to just be friend zoned by the end of the night.
are you suppose to just tell her that she can go eat and that you're going to the bar anyway with or without her?
i make plans to go to a bar with a girl for her to suddenly announce to do something different i.e. to go eat somewhere.
i read a tip before about how you acknowledge her request if she wants to go somewhere she has seen while shes out with you but you're not suppose to succumb to her demands but take her there in future on your terms when you want to and are ready to.
i basically get stuck because i say we're going to a bar and she'll respond with 'i don't want to go to a bar'
what/how are you suppose to tackle this situation?
i dont want to seem difficult or laid back yet i ended up wasting money tonight taking this girl out to eat for me to just be friend zoned by the end of the night.
are you suppose to just tell her that she can go eat and that you're going to the bar anyway with or without her?