I was reading from a site, I;m pretty sure it was howtobeaplayer.com. ANd i stumbled across something extremely interesting that I am most definetly going to try. WHen you want to ask out a girl temm her you are going to ask her out before u actually do. IE. I;m going to ask you out, but now right now...I:m not in the mood. Makes the girl think of u and wonder when its going down. Interest level rises. Try it out.