How to Approach College Girls?

[Maverick_92]

Hey everyone,
I am in my last year of college. I have picked up girls through Facebook but now I want to improve my game by approaching girls on campus ?

I could not decode the interest signals of girls easily. Once a girl stares me multiple times with blank face so I approached her which she rejected. I got nervous and didnt approach any girl face to face after that time.

Girls who I picked through Facebook are demanding and bitchy so what to do to improve my game?
How to approach girls on campus without being labelled as creepy ?

Thanks

 

[C00lAF]

I could not decode the interest signals of girls easily.

Thanks

Decode?????!!! Come on man its not numirical 01010101 pc launguage signs of intrest are clear nothing to decode you just gotta see them.

 

[Maverick_92]

Decode?????!!! Come on man its not numirical 01010101 pc launguage signs of intrest are clear nothing to decode you just gotta see them.

I mean some girls stare and if I go talk to her, they all get indifferent like why are you talking to me

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

You don't, it's that easy. College game is all about status, the hottest girls are going for athletes or frat bros with status. Your best bet might be to try and get a job at a campus bar but other than that, just pass your time in college and get ready for the real world.

Plus, decode? LOL! Man you sound like an awkward nerd, sorry bro, give up.

 

[bb47]

Your fear will go away when you realize women don't really provide much to you, and you can live a happy life without them. They'll also then have no power and control over you.

without being labelled as creepy

What's wrong with being "creepy"? Imagine you're already creepy as ****. Will there be any difference in you? NO, you'll still be the same person with the same parents you already have

OR, you can just own it. If they call you creepy and you just accept it and joke about it, they'll actually be more attracted to you than if you react and get defensive. They'll be like "how come this guy didn't get upset when I called him creepy?"

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

Your fear will go away when you realize women don't really provide much to you, and you can live a happy life without them. They'll also then have no power and control over you.



What's wrong with being "creepy"? Imagine you're already creepy as ****. Will there be any difference in you? NO, you'll still be the same person with the same parents you already have

OR, you can just own it. If they call you creepy and you just accept it and joke about it, they'll actually be more attracted to you than if you react and get defensive. They'll be like "how come this guy didn't get upset when I called him creepy?"

Shut the **** up, stop giving advice, read the forum, and quit spreading generic hippie feel good nonsense on here you ****ing ****.

 

[RangerMIke]

I don't mean to be insulting, but I laughed at the title of this thread. Approaching women is never easier than in college. You have built in rapport just go up and talk to her. Truth is if you have trouble approaching women while in college it only gets harder.

 

[3agle 3yes]

Hey everyone,
I am in my last year of college. I have picked up girls through Facebook but now I want to improve my game by approaching girls on campus ?

I could not decode the interest signals of girls easily. Once a girl stares me multiple times with blank face so I approached her which she rejected. I got nervous and didnt approach any girl face to face after that time.

Girls who I picked through Facebook are demanding and bitchy so what to do to improve my game?
How to approach girls on campus without being labelled as creepy ?

Thanks

Op don't listen to the bs advice that guys should only approach women who show "interest signals", approach women you find attractive and pay no attention to whether they are interested and ALWAYS assume that they are.

The biggest problem guys have when cold approaching is the first few seconds.

The reality is even if a women ALREADY finds you attractive most likely she will STILL act indifferent in the first few minutes.

Whenever you meet someone new, they were thinking about or doing something else before you started talking to them.

When you start the new conversation, it often takes a little while for the woman that you've just met to relax and start opening up.

She has to "shift gears", so to speak.

Most guys make the mistake of thinking that a woman isn't interested if she doesn't start smiling and laughing immediately. They give up if a woman looks even a little bit shy or uncomfortable.

Don't do that, keep talking. One of the best things to do at that moment is to make a funny comment on the way she's behaving or what's going on around you.

 

[Jetleg]

be careful not to end up in jail... best advice i can give you with all this feminism sh!t on campus now.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

Listen_Tlly, you should shut up, you feel toxic as fvck.
Maverick, rejection feels like sh't, we know it, and it's completely normal that you didn't feel like approaching again after it. But it gets better, so so much better, right now I only feel paralized by rejection for a couple of minutes, then I keep going as usual. Your first approaches are all about not freezing at the beginning, you should not care too much about actually banging the girl. Just approach, follow some model (krauser is gold) and have a nice chat with the girl. Go for the number nonetheless, you want to feel natural asking for the number. In due time you will actually be relaxed whilst talking to a new girl you just cold-approached and you will start getting the plates you are searching for.
Don't listen to toxic fvcks bro, keep asking questions here if you need it, we will always help a bro!

 

[RangerMIke]

If I ever had anything close to a hard time was when I first got out of college, because when you enter the work force the girls you were able to get in college are chasing after the 30 and 40 something dudes with money. This is why the divorce rate is so high with young women who married their college sweet-hearts, unless you keep her at home, if she is in the workforce she is going to be exposed to men with looks and money, and if she is halfway good looking you will have a hard time keeping her happy in your entry level management job where you have to work your @ss off to get noticed and get ahead.

Girls in college know this.... most are not looking for anything serious until they graduate.... they know the world is filled with guys with status and moneyand that is what they want. All you need to get women in college is a little spending money and a penis.

 

[Trainwreck]

Gaming girls in college is quite similar to a feudalistic economy. You either put in too much effort for little or ****ty results or you inherit status from hs/sports/decent fraternity and you have girls come to you/network. In summary, if you are having to approach women than it's not worth it imho

 

[Trainwreck]

Ranger is right, I'm 23 and I'm struggling so much that I've accepted the fact I'm gonna have to be in a temporary ldr with my ex. It's not just me but even guys that killed it in college are having a hard time.

 

[Maverick_92]

Well I am currently reading DJ Bible and it has some valuable things. Secondly I am focusing on myself and going through social media pick up route but I am realizing that it is slow and uncertain, you dont know what you get until you meet them. So I have decided to move to approach phase and approach those girls who shows reciprocate interest or show interest. Even if they reject or start acting rudely. I move to on another one.