How should you treat girls with boyfriends?

[Kal0051]

I'm wondering 'cause I ended up asking out a girl who has a boyfriend. She said yes so now I have a problem. I like this girl and all but dealing with her when she has a boyfriend is a pain.

When I go out with her should I just treat her like a single girl or maybe not escalate all that much?

What would you guys do in my situation?

 

[R19]

There is an extensive thread under The Archive which seems to always get clipped by the anti masta beta's.

 

[Kal0051]

There is an extensive thread under The Archive which seems to always get clipped by the anti masta beta's.

what's the thread called?

 

[R19]

The Archive "I have a boyfriend"

 

[Kal0051]

The Archive "I have a boyfriend"

That thread has nothing to do with me. She said yes when I asked her out, not "I have a boyfriend".

What I wanted to know is how you guys would handle this situation.

 

[R19]

That thread has nothing to do with me. She said yes when I asked her out, not "I have a boyfriend".

What I wanted to know is how you guys would handle this situation.

I was trying to add a different splitter topic within that thread as opposed to the 1,000,001st one. I repeatedly have had situations / boyfriends not disclosed or hidden from me. So much so that I now expect I am only one of several guys in play. I view the responsibility to be on those in the relationship.

Yeah, you'll go out with her and never run into him - ever... Hopefully he's a 'nice guy'.

 

[Ollie]

Who cares if she has a boyfriend Did you make that commitment to the guy or did she? What are you all of a sudden in charge of making she she sticks to traditional morals? Treat her like any other girl. You may get rejected because of the boyfriend but at least then you'll know where you stand. Just escalate as normal.