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How should women open you? - What will make you interested?

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She has bobs & vag. She could talk about the rate of paint peeling under different atmospheric pressures for all I care.
I have to admit that might interest me just because it's so different.
 

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I think there are quite a bit of guys who would love to talk about stuff they like.
Imagine a Star Trek fan or a gaming fan. If she likes that stuff that gives extra points.
 

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I remember when I was younger I was generally clueless as to when women were hitting on me. I find most women tend to try to be pretty pleasant in their everyday interactions, so it's hard to tell sometimes. I guess if they throw in a little kino, that's a clue. Although some girls are just touchy, so again it's hard to tell. You kind of have to make some sort of move or initiate something to find out. Women are generally subtle in their flirtations.
 

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Maybe I should make a different situation. You are going to have a new female colleague. You have no sexual interest in her. Would you not want to be able to talk about stuff you like rather than other annoying stuff?
 

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I have to admit that might interest me just because it's so different.
It would certainly be a more interesting topic than "what's your favourite travel destination", "what's your favourite food" and other mind-dumbing sh!t women usually talk about on dates.
 

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It would certainly be a more interesting topic than "what's your favourite travel destination", "what's your favourite food" and other mind-dumbing sh!t women usually talk about on dates.
I don't mind those topics either.

Imagine she opens with 'Is Captain Kirk better or Captain Picard?
I vote Kirk.
 

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As a MGTOW I like spending time with the person who means to me the most. That person is me. So when women come to my life I can tell from experience what they talk about probably does not interest me. Though that is the case with men too but to a lesser degree.

So for now if a women wants to open me I would like two things the most. First self improvement and second mild science like astronomy.

What topics do you hate the least where you would give her a chance?
They shouldn’t. Go read my thread.
 

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Talking about communication. That is not bad:

 

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I'm not into being cold approached, I would rather her signal being open to be approached then decide myself.

I noticed especially after my 30s that all women that "cold approach" or show interest basically fish for information regarding my work/status and I find it very unpleasant especially since none of that happened in my 20s when attraction was raw and genuine.
 

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By looking in my eyes and genuinely meaning that she likes them or anything related that Im aware of fake People
 
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