how should i deal with this little immature girl?

NativeNorth

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My perspective on women has changed since i found this site, i'm a sophomore in high school and i'm more confident and sexual . . i use a lot of kino on many women, and i generally get a good response . . .

there this one girl i've been kinoing, her name's Jen (she's about an 8 with a nice ass). i went to homecoming (stag) and i was wearing a tight outfit and feelin pretty confident, i was jus going up to hot freshmen and sophomores and jus grindin with em, i didnt give a **** who, i was just havin a good time. I started grindin/freakin with Jen and we're gettin really into it, we dance three songs in a row together and neither of us minded it, we were having fun.

one of her friends was dancing near us and Jen whispers something in her friends ear, her friend responds by sayin "really?" and Jen giggles. . i stop dancing, hold her sides and ask "what did you just say?" and she says nothing, and i say "bull ****! what did you jus say?"

she wouldnt tell me, so i jus split and started dancing with another chick, no biggie . . .

later, a slow dance came on and i started dancing with Jen's friend, the one who she whispered somehting to. Her friend says "Jen said she like you." and i jus keep dancing . . .

a few days later, at school, another of Jen's friends, (Tiffany) comes up to me and says "do you like Jen?" and i say "Why?" and she says "cuz Jen wants to know."

immediately i think "Jen, you immature little girl, you send a messenger to come and talk to me? this isnt 5th grade anymore."

but i kept that thought to myself and jus walked away . . .

how should i deal with this girl now? her friend probably told her that i didnt say whether i liked her or not . . and i am "interested"
so i dont want Jen to be all shy around me or start ignoring me like the immature little girl she is.

but my high school is still in the phase where you have to "ask" to be someone's girl friend, and that's just plain stupid to me . . so how do i deal with a girl who probably expects me to "ask" her to be my girlfriend when i wanna just flirt and "do things" with her so we naturally jus become boyfriend/girlfriend . . .

has anyone else dealt with this kind of problem? if so, how did you handle it?
 
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BryLee

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jeez.. its not that hard man. strike up a conversation with her and then let things lead from the first to the next. ask her what she does for fun, be like oh really? im goin to that place this weekend too, blah blah agree to go see each other ... cake
 

NativeNorth

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what are you talking about? that doesnt solve my problem at all . . . i ALREADY KNOW THE GIRL . . why would i "strike up a conversation"? i do taht everytime i see her . . wow, you are taking advice from this site and using it to solve the wrong problems . . . i'm askin if anyone else has experienced an immature girl in high school taht believes taht in order to be a "couple," the guy must "ask" to be her boyfriend . . .

i'm trying to handle the little "politics" of it and remain a mystery/challenge but i'm not sure how to go about it when this girl expects me to "proclaim my feelings" and make us an "official couple"
 

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Damn native, a hot chick with a nice ass digs you, what should you do? I'd go make some friggin plans before she loses interest, but whatever creams your twinkie. if you wanna see some other dude with the b*tch next week feel free.
 

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is anyone even reading my post? is anyone actually gonna answer my question? or are you just planning on making more stupid comments and giving out-of-place advice?
 

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Hmm I'd say to go approach Jen and do your DJ routine. Get her to warm up to you. Then slyly mention to her about the incident with Tiffany
 
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