How should I ask this girl out after we've had a few dates/kissed?

[Teh_Wolf]

lol but then what would you say.

my friend was like yeah "we were at this concert with a big group of people and i just put my arm around her and smiled at her and said 'you wanna make it official' and she said yes"

 

[SmellyOrc]

you're funny

but im still 100% correct here

I'd beg to differ.

your life will be ruined because you dont know how to handle a relationship, so its better that you stay single....

That's bull****. What one doesn't know, can be learned. No one can really know what being in a relationship is like and how to act in it, before he actually is in a relationship, or has had several relationships. One would only be able to imagine what it will be like, but never really know, because he has never been in a relationship.

On-topic: David DeAngelo says that when you spend a lot of time with her, dates or whatever, after a time she will automatically (or is that automagically ? ) get those 'we're in a relationship'-feelings. Now, I don't know if that's true or not, but it's worth a shot.

 

[positivity_injection]

since some of you dont know how to read between the lines, my advice was for Vice to change his mindset and attitude first so he thinks like a man and not like a *****, and THEN think about getting into a relationship

 

[Wodan]

So there's a girl who I went to prom with, kissed a few times, went on a few dates, all of that.

I've decided to get into a relationship with her, and I need help figuring out a way to ask her to be my girlfriend.

I checked the DJ Bible and it doesn't say anything about this.

The reason I've been postponing asking her out is because I never realized how interested I was until my 'friend' started talking to her and suggesting that they hang out, which she agreed. Then I started feeling like I could lose her and all of that BS.

I'm planning on doing it today if we meet up, because I told her that I had something to tell her and that it was important (to pique her interest and make her wonder what I want to tell her). We'll be in person and I'll ask her out right there. I just don't quite know what to say. I want to go through the trouble of seeing her in person because asking her out over the phone/myspace/text/IM is really lame.

A quick, helpful response would be a good one. Thank you

Ask 'will you go out with me?' its subtle they understand what it means and it isnt as terrifying as saying will you be my gf.