How quickly can walking away work?

[pikachu_69]

If i've lost the frame, she controls everything, calls the shots won't give me a specific time to meet up cos i'm easy and not top priority and i've generally given her way too much attention and chased her, if i sudddenly remove all that attention by walking away how long does it take for her to try to reconnect with me?

I know what 1 point she had really high interest in me, but now her IL keeps dropping that it's so low. I know walking away is the only thing I have now, her offer of next week for dinner without a firm time is p1ssing me off cos I can't get her to commmit and she wants to see what else is on 1st before seeing me. I'm stupid enough that I know if i'm out with her even with low IL i can raise it on a date by being intimate with her.

If i take my attention away suddenly then would she be contacting me soon or not care? I'm very impatient.

 

[Taste]

Sometimes walking away doesn't work and you have to be cool with that. That's ultimately what walking away means, to not be attached to anything happening. If you are walking away as a tactic, that's something that will shoot you in the foot because girls can sense when you use it as a tactic and when you ultimately don't care.

 

[pikachu69]

If walking away is not an option (i walked away before and came back twice now) so she knows i'll come back again or think i will even if i dont this time round so it would be months before she realises im not coming back which doesn't do me any good cos im impatient and will crack before she does, is my only option to try 1 last stab at it somewhat trying to get her to commit to a time to meet up rather than a flakey answer of 'i dont know what im doing'?

I'm not a convenience in her life and my mistake yesterday was backing down when she got angry about a time, next week is not a good enough answer for me, if i pressed for a time she'd get angry again.

I'm being pushy but at the same time i realise its pushing her away and her IL is plummeting I know walking away will ultimately be what i have to do cos i have no other choice and that wont bring her back BUT can I be really assertive my last stab at it and if she still gives me a flakey answer I cannot do anything to change her mind then.

Even yesterday she offered sunday but when i pressed for a time she wouldn't give me it.. it's terrible. I was all good last Saturday and since then her IL has plummeted again. It's over and I can't accept it, it feels so devastating thinking it's over and that if i could only get her out 1 time i could make it all good.

 

[Doc Freezy]

The idea of being a DJ is not to have oneitis. Major AFC action going on here bru, how about try actually not caring. It's pretty easy.