How often you personally reach out to new plates?

spiegel549

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Men hope you all are having a good night. Wanted to throw this out there and get some feedback.

I have been meeting a lot more potential plates more frequently recently and been tweaking how often I reach out to them. Trying to measure what is considered to much / to not enough ratio.

You meet a new plate. Fool around a bit, have a good time then a "date" is set up to get together.

Managing multiple plates get tricky so what do you personally consider reaching out to much vs just enough to keep them chasing/interested?
 

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Not quite sure I understand the question. If you get a new number and you are interested in hanging out with the girl, then it is in your best interest to follow up. If you do not feel as compelled to hang out after getting the number, then they probably aren't as high quality as the other plates you are juggling. I'd set my dates up during the week if I had a low/average level of attraction.
 

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Why do people continue to think a plate is any woman you are talking to? It's a term for a girl you are banging on the regular.
 

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I'm saying you meet a new girl, you hook up, now you want to make her a plate. How frequently do you reach out to initiate contact to keep her interested in wanting to see you/fuk you.
 

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in general no more than once a week
 

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The dj bible taught me that having fun has a higher priority than
women . If there is an opportunity to get a new chick then I will use it as long as she provides me fun. If not I'm moving forward and following the same principle.
That's the answer.
 

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I don't.

It'd benefit you to start training your girls to initiate 99.5% of the time.

If I do initiate it will be:

"Hey, lmk what days you're free to meet"

Since you're only seeing her once a week, if you're constantly initiating then that'll also be once a week.
 

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To me, women are a big priority in life. I know I don't want to live on a planet that's inhabited without women.

It's one thing to be overly obsessed, but it's just as ridiculous in my opinion to act like they're no big deal and that other things are more important.

In my life, there are very few things more significant than commanding the attention of an attractive woman.
I find it amazing that a person like yourself , a ss veteran to have such a belief.
I agree and disagree with your statement.

I agree in the part that a planet without women is a pain in the a*s.
But the rest you said is just afc thinking.
 

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Reach out to her as much as YOU want. There are no rules in the "game," other than the rules YOU deem fit. Once you adopt others' rule, you are just a product of the "game," not the "game."
 
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