Do you still feel a strong attraction to her after what she shared with you? To be honest that would kill any sense of attraction I had for her. Argue that it's not her fault all you like, I even agree but I wouldn't want to deal with that baggage.
How often do you meet a woman you are REALLY attracted to? Just met the latest.....
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That doesn't sound like the type of attraction I thought you were talking about. There are many girls/women whom I would love to just have sex with. But what I thought you were talking about was the type of attraction that could lead to one-itis if you weren't careful.
Well, my attraction was formulated from a brief social interaction followed by watching her grind on another chick the rest of the night, so it isn't as if I was ready to sell my car to buy her a ringcomote said:
Nah, it's a physical thing. I'm sure most men would fukk her in about a second, but she isn't a "10" or anything. There's just something about her look that does it for me. And thats a surprise since she isn't a brunette.
Now I just have to figure out a way to hit it that won't involve me having to take out a restraining order :nervous:
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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NOTE: ever see someone again, find them attractive and think, wow, why havent i noticed them before.. That is because while your in your honeymoon state you have tunnel vision..
well thats one theory... i seem to be also on a 1.5 to 2 year as well... I used to think its because im picky and it takes that long for me to find someone (i.e. numbers).... but the bio stuff really seams to make ence
I dont remember if it was on the discovery chanel or one of my bio classes. But I remember them saying there is a natural mating cycle, which takes about 1.5 years... and explains why after this mark a lot of relationships go sour.. Evolutionary speaking you need to be with women long enough to help her through her pregnancy and early baby development.. i.e. during breast feeding when she has hard time getting food on own and needs to attend to babys. so babys survived when father there to help, and genetics which such traits got passed on... it is why if you and other mate dont have much in common, after 1.5 years honeymoon is over..STR8UP said:
NOTE: ever see someone again, find them attractive and think, wow, why havent i noticed them before.. That is because while your in your honeymoon state you have tunnel vision..
well thats one theory... i seem to be also on a 1.5 to 2 year as well... I used to think its because im picky and it takes that long for me to find someone (i.e. numbers).... but the bio stuff really seams to make ence