I basically I gained popularity really quickly in the blink of an eye. I was pretty much a nobody and now almost everyone knows me at my school every since a couple months ago. This girl that I have been trying to get with blatantly told me she wants to f**k me. She assumes I'm not a virgin since I have a lot of social proof from girls around my school and thinks I'm probably decent in bed. If I suck a lot of people would probably find out and my social proof would go way down. Any tips on how to last longer and general advice.
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How not to suck the first time?
- Thread starter Eklipse
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Social proof has it draw backs, everyone wants to test your popularity. Attaining it is easier then keeping it.
No amount of verbal advice given here will make you a master in the bed, or porn star in the making.
It only comes with experience.
If you are virgin, better wait for the right girl to do it with!
You want to sell your virginity just for popularity? Now thats pathetic.
No amount of verbal advice given here will make you a master in the bed, or porn star in the making.
It only comes with experience.
If you are virgin, better wait for the right girl to do it with!
You want to sell your virginity just for popularity? Now thats pathetic.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
Last longer.. get a condom made for that.
Sucking your first time.. theres no way around that. You will suck your first time. Its that way for everyone.. how are you supposed to do something good if you've never done it before?
If you're real worried about being a bad lay, make sure she orgasms and you will be ahead of atleast 50% of your schools non-virgin males. Being worried is a bad way to go in.. chance's are she'll be able to tell that it's your first time, but if she cums then it probably wont matter at all.
Ok.. starters.
If you want her to even come close to orgasm, a good 15 minutes atleast of foreplay is essential. Fingering her and/or eating her out will do the trick. You can tell when shes fully aroused because her g-spot (located about 4 inches up on the front vaginal wall, feels kinda spongy) will grow from about the size of a pea at the start to the size of a quarter. If you're not gonna eat her out, stay away from the **** because it can be tricky to operate.
If you've never eaten a girl out and want to try, disregard any techniques you've seen in porn. A good basic one is pretend you're writing the alphabet with your tongue. Not your whole tongue, just the tip. The **** is very sensitive, and sometimes the lighter you do it, the better. You could also try flicking the tip of your tongue on it if you wanna mix it up here and there.
As to intercourse, just take it slow as it is your first time. Make sure to maintain a steady rhythym and depth unless you're changing your technique. Changing speed and depth when shes close to cumming could set you back a few steps which you don't want. If you feel like you're gonna bust soon, you can pull out and regain control, and start back at it. Also, sometimes keeping eye contact when shes gonna orgasm can make it more intense for her.
When you do bust, make sure to pull out quickly, as most condom slips happen when you've already come and you're going flaccid. Tie a knot off in your condom, and in the garbage it goes.
All in all, just be aware of what you're doing and how she reacts to it. She'll start taking lighter quicker breathes when shes getting close. If you think you got it in you, males can be ready to have sex again in as little as 20 mins. Take your mind off of stessing to get up again, and focus on pleasing her for that time. Foreplay works as a good time filler.. just be careful with her **** because they get super sensitive after an orgasm.
Go in thinking you're a sex machine, and you're gonna rock her world. If it is bad, shes not gonna go around telling people that you're not cool and a bad lay.. so don't worry about that. Just enjoy it, because sex is a pleasureable and enjoyable thing.
Hope that helped put you in the right direction.
Sucking your first time.. theres no way around that. You will suck your first time. Its that way for everyone.. how are you supposed to do something good if you've never done it before?
If you're real worried about being a bad lay, make sure she orgasms and you will be ahead of atleast 50% of your schools non-virgin males. Being worried is a bad way to go in.. chance's are she'll be able to tell that it's your first time, but if she cums then it probably wont matter at all.
Ok.. starters.
If you want her to even come close to orgasm, a good 15 minutes atleast of foreplay is essential. Fingering her and/or eating her out will do the trick. You can tell when shes fully aroused because her g-spot (located about 4 inches up on the front vaginal wall, feels kinda spongy) will grow from about the size of a pea at the start to the size of a quarter. If you're not gonna eat her out, stay away from the **** because it can be tricky to operate.
If you've never eaten a girl out and want to try, disregard any techniques you've seen in porn. A good basic one is pretend you're writing the alphabet with your tongue. Not your whole tongue, just the tip. The **** is very sensitive, and sometimes the lighter you do it, the better. You could also try flicking the tip of your tongue on it if you wanna mix it up here and there.
As to intercourse, just take it slow as it is your first time. Make sure to maintain a steady rhythym and depth unless you're changing your technique. Changing speed and depth when shes close to cumming could set you back a few steps which you don't want. If you feel like you're gonna bust soon, you can pull out and regain control, and start back at it. Also, sometimes keeping eye contact when shes gonna orgasm can make it more intense for her.
When you do bust, make sure to pull out quickly, as most condom slips happen when you've already come and you're going flaccid. Tie a knot off in your condom, and in the garbage it goes.
All in all, just be aware of what you're doing and how she reacts to it. She'll start taking lighter quicker breathes when shes getting close. If you think you got it in you, males can be ready to have sex again in as little as 20 mins. Take your mind off of stessing to get up again, and focus on pleasing her for that time. Foreplay works as a good time filler.. just be careful with her **** because they get super sensitive after an orgasm.
Go in thinking you're a sex machine, and you're gonna rock her world. If it is bad, shes not gonna go around telling people that you're not cool and a bad lay.. so don't worry about that. Just enjoy it, because sex is a pleasureable and enjoyable thing.
Hope that helped put you in the right direction.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Most of the girls in HS are not experienced at all .And they cant tell if your bad because im sure that most of them never had a good one . They dont know whats good yet . They just wanna experiment .
And if she runs her mouth you can only tell that it was she who sucked on bed not you . Is your word against hers and since you have enough social proof i think they are gonna believe you ..
Also read some of articles on bible about sex . They may help you .
And if she runs her mouth you can only tell that it was she who sucked on bed not you . Is your word against hers and since you have enough social proof i think they are gonna believe you ..
Also read some of articles on bible about sex . They may help you .
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
One last thing... Anxiety is the most common cause of premature ejaculation (either from day to day stress or worrying about your performance in bed).
You can practice masturbating until you almost blow, and then stop and cool down.. then start back up and repeat. This will give you a lot more control over when you are getting close. Also focusing on other things can help prolong when you bust because you won't think about it.. Try maintaining your focus on her the entire time rather than yourself.
You can practice masturbating until you almost blow, and then stop and cool down.. then start back up and repeat. This will give you a lot more control over when you are getting close. Also focusing on other things can help prolong when you bust because you won't think about it.. Try maintaining your focus on her the entire time rather than yourself.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
I don't think its possible to have sex and not enjoy it.SinJester said:
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I agree with what splinter said.
I always approach being good at something by looking at how most people do it incorrectly and avoiding the common mistakes. Most guys are in a giant hurry in bed, like they are worried about getting interrupted or something. The best sex tip is simple: take your time. Go slowly. Make her want to go farther before you do. Tease. Before you even touch her t!ts & pvssy, make sure you have touched her everywhere else first.
Whatever happens, it is what you make of it. If you feel like you made some mistake, just ignore it, and she will, too. Afterward, don't tell her 'thank you,' and just act like the sex was no big deal.
I always approach being good at something by looking at how most people do it incorrectly and avoiding the common mistakes. Most guys are in a giant hurry in bed, like they are worried about getting interrupted or something. The best sex tip is simple: take your time. Go slowly. Make her want to go farther before you do. Tease. Before you even touch her t!ts & pvssy, make sure you have touched her everywhere else first.
Whatever happens, it is what you make of it. If you feel like you made some mistake, just ignore it, and she will, too. Afterward, don't tell her 'thank you,' and just act like the sex was no big deal.
antidonjuan
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what!? having sex is a social prof?? wow!!
simple
the simple advice is **** the girl more than once. first time-a min second and third if your like me
you can last bout 30-1:00 but its three factors.
1)condom without it you *** faster,with it little more duration in sex.
2)the woman puss/genital-if its really good,(wet) then you *** faster,dry youll 'be in it all day(but thats bad and boring).
3)your natural stamina (hope you workout)
a little vulgarity but i got to be honest
the simple advice is **** the girl more than once. first time-a min second and third if your like me
you can last bout 30-1:00 but its three factors.1)condom without it you *** faster,with it little more duration in sex.
2)the woman puss/genital-if its really good,(wet) then you *** faster,dry youll 'be in it all day(but thats bad and boring).
3)your natural stamina (hope you workout)
a little vulgarity but i got to be honest
UltimateScoundrel
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Hey man, Just get ready to have fun, and don't worry about sucking at it. Everyone's first time they feel like they need a road map and an instruction manual to figure out what the hell they're doing, and it'll only last a few minutes, tops.
One thing you could try is not having sex with this girl. Just eat her out and get her off that way, and see if she tells anyone about it. Keep your mouth shut and see if things get back to you. If they don't, you don't have to worry about being bad at sex.
Or, you could admit you're a virgin. Honesty is usually the best policy as they say.
Either way, even though it seems so important now, you'll look back on it and laugh later. Have fun and learn a thing or two through experience. See if you can dig up Sir-Chancelot's Sexual Techniques post. It helped me more than anything else on this board.
One thing you could try is not having sex with this girl. Just eat her out and get her off that way, and see if she tells anyone about it. Keep your mouth shut and see if things get back to you. If they don't, you don't have to worry about being bad at sex.
Or, you could admit you're a virgin. Honesty is usually the best policy as they say.
Either way, even though it seems so important now, you'll look back on it and laugh later. Have fun and learn a thing or two through experience. See if you can dig up Sir-Chancelot's Sexual Techniques post. It helped me more than anything else on this board.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
Ah.....the good old DJ Forums.....Aint been here in nearly 2 years according to my last sign in......
Anyway.....im back to help all.
I was looking threw posts around at the mo.
Eklipse here is abit worried about sex.
It may be a 2 year old thread but read this mate.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102593
In that post is everything you need to know. There is another thread in there too. Check that out and you will find what you need to help guide you.
Tomatoes
Sarge On!
Anyway.....im back to help all.
I was looking threw posts around at the mo.
Eklipse here is abit worried about sex.
It may be a 2 year old thread but read this mate.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102593
In that post is everything you need to know. There is another thread in there too. Check that out and you will find what you need to help guide you.
Tomatoes
Sarge On!