Hey guys,
I wanted to help you out a little.
I know that as a rule you don't believe what women have to say, but sometimes we can give a few hints.
I'm a petite, English blonde, you guys tell me that you think I'm beautiful (thanks for the compliments!). I'm highly educated, happy, sane. I jog every day and have an exciting life. I'm married, but still get approached by men frequently (don't ever do that by the way - ask a married woman for an affair - you look like a creep).
Listen, it's so easy to be a Don Juan!
Everything they say on this site is true, but I wanted to add some very specific things that you guys should do, every time you interact with a woman, that will ensure that you NEVER screw up.
Okay:
1. Love yourself.
You are who you are. It doesn't matter if you're no hotty, just be confident for heaven's sake! There is something about every man that is hot. Even Donald Trump (fat, old, baldie) has a gorgeous wife. Even Woody Allen gets to sleep with a woman 40 years younger than himself. What is it about these men? NOT the money, it is the scent of the Alpha male.
2. Don't EVER make a fool of yourself for a woman who isn't into you.
We don't need the flowers and the telephone calls if we're not open to dating you. DON'T humiliate yourself. Flowers won't change our minds.
3. Act with integrity.
This is very important.
Actually, it is critical.
I have met many players in my time, but the men who get and KEEP real woman, the type of woman you'd want to make love to for the rest of your life, are the men who behave with moral integrity. Treat others with respect and behave in a trustworthy manner.
If you can't seem to find that confidence and personal integrity, spend some time doing something worthwhile, something that helps people less fortunate than yourself, like helping out in a homeless shelter.
4. Display your education.
Don't write emails with spelling errors, do talk in proper sentences, do use good table manners, don't belch in front of us, don't be lazy, don't curse, don't mention that you watch 'Survivor', don't mention your drug habits.
5. Take an interest in the woman.
It seems to me that a lot of men on this site want to have quantity, but not quality, when it comes to their women.
So you have lots of girlfriends? So what.
Girls that come to you easily, and that you don't value, will leave you easily. You are as worthless to them as they are to you.
Place your values higher than that and spend time looking for someone better suited to you. Your high standards will set you apart as a MAN. A patient, wise, self-controlled MAN.
Don't let me down guys. It's so easy!
Cutesusie
I wanted to help you out a little.
I know that as a rule you don't believe what women have to say, but sometimes we can give a few hints.
I'm a petite, English blonde, you guys tell me that you think I'm beautiful (thanks for the compliments!). I'm highly educated, happy, sane. I jog every day and have an exciting life. I'm married, but still get approached by men frequently (don't ever do that by the way - ask a married woman for an affair - you look like a creep).
Listen, it's so easy to be a Don Juan!
Everything they say on this site is true, but I wanted to add some very specific things that you guys should do, every time you interact with a woman, that will ensure that you NEVER screw up.
Okay:
1. Love yourself.
You are who you are. It doesn't matter if you're no hotty, just be confident for heaven's sake! There is something about every man that is hot. Even Donald Trump (fat, old, baldie) has a gorgeous wife. Even Woody Allen gets to sleep with a woman 40 years younger than himself. What is it about these men? NOT the money, it is the scent of the Alpha male.
2. Don't EVER make a fool of yourself for a woman who isn't into you.
We don't need the flowers and the telephone calls if we're not open to dating you. DON'T humiliate yourself. Flowers won't change our minds.
3. Act with integrity.
This is very important.
Actually, it is critical.
I have met many players in my time, but the men who get and KEEP real woman, the type of woman you'd want to make love to for the rest of your life, are the men who behave with moral integrity. Treat others with respect and behave in a trustworthy manner.
If you can't seem to find that confidence and personal integrity, spend some time doing something worthwhile, something that helps people less fortunate than yourself, like helping out in a homeless shelter.
4. Display your education.
Don't write emails with spelling errors, do talk in proper sentences, do use good table manners, don't belch in front of us, don't be lazy, don't curse, don't mention that you watch 'Survivor', don't mention your drug habits.
5. Take an interest in the woman.
It seems to me that a lot of men on this site want to have quantity, but not quality, when it comes to their women.
So you have lots of girlfriends? So what.
Girls that come to you easily, and that you don't value, will leave you easily. You are as worthless to them as they are to you.
Place your values higher than that and spend time looking for someone better suited to you. Your high standards will set you apart as a MAN. A patient, wise, self-controlled MAN.
Don't let me down guys. It's so easy!
Cutesusie
