Women often act out , start talking to other men or are b!tchy because they want you to punish them and with that comes you positioning ownership of the relationship.
You fail the "**** test" when you react to her behavior. A mature man knows not to engage with her provocations.
Imagine you're in a 5 year LTR with a woman. If she goes to a Pilates class while you're at work and returns home an hour late for the third time, you might ask, "Is Pilates just an excuse to see someone else while I'm at work?" How do you think she will perceive you? As someone establishing boundaries?
This approach can lead you into a controlling mindset, which is counterproductive. You want her to understand that crossing your boundaries could jeopardize the relationship, but in reality, this is challenging. We are all human, and boundary violations will occur.
Many "stable" LTR fall into a cycle where men feel compelled to reprimand their partners for crossing boundaries. Over time, this can lead to a reactive man. Interestingly, some women seem to thrive on this dynamic; they may feel more secure when their partner reacts strongly.
Is this healthy? No, it isn't. However, very few women have had ideal relationships with their fathers, which can influence their expectations in adult relationships. Some women may cross boundaries frequently, while others may do so only occasionally.
These boundary violations can be subtle. If you respond in a way that differs from what she experienced with her father, it could lead to separation, either now or later. She doesn't see you as "congruent" to her beliefs.
The key is to develop an understanding of how to recognize and predict how the woman you're dating wants you to react to her "**** tests," such as this boundary crossing, especially when you still don't know her relationship with her father.
This is really a key point.
I would ask how do you know this!
There are many good LTR out there of women who stays with a calm and gentle man, and don't do this ****.
If you don't have a natural knack of rugged meanness, you must develop one to take your game to another level.
If you're a good (not nice) guy, with good heart, this will hurt you. You need to practice the right versin of this "rugged meanness", which is not the aggressive thing we see many often
It's so rare to find someone with this right quality which you can emulate
Noticed this to the fullest with a recent chick I’m messing with. Fvck and dominate her and she's sweet and docile for a day. Then she starts acting out and being a little b!tch. Fvck her that night and she's back to being a princess. Go a week without fvcking her and she's insufferable. Fvck the life out of her and she's a sweetheart again and even cooks for me while I slap her buttcheeks black and blue.
As the fvcking gets harder and demonic, it's crystal clear to see how it eventually leads to dungeons and whips and collars and large cucumbers and chains and sh!t.
Yes! But have you ever considered this behaviour could be related to damaged woman, and not healthy ones?
