how morally wrong is this?

Borknagar

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Yeah I wouldn't expect it to be a long term thing, women change a lot from say 18-25, she will change, and want someone her own age, just make sure you hit it.

I was in the same situation a year ago, cept she was a bit younger, 18 and not 19 for several months, and I was turning 31. I wasn't about to date her though, but I ****ed her, of course. ****ed a 20 year old about a month later and a 21 year old earlier this year.
 

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Ha! The "shame conditioning" society has been implanted with is what's "morally wrong" here! You are both consenting adults so knock yourself (and her) out. I met my current GF when she was 19 and I was 36.

She's the happiest she's ever been. :D
 

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Older men have been boinking young women since the dawn of time, get in dat azz bro.(& this is coming from a 21 yr old):D
 

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well i'm going out with her tonight, i'll make sure to give a full FR later tonight or tomorrow. funny thing happened to me today, i had ANOTHER young girl hit on me today. i was getting my haircut, and the girl that usually does it wasn't working, so this other girl overheard me and said "ill cut your hair if you want me to!". i said fine with me. so as i'm sitting there she's asking me the 20 questions...stuff like "so you got a g/f?" "where do you work?", "you got any kids?"...etc. i wasn't trying to flirt with her at all, just answering her questions. i mean she was hot, but i figured she was just making conversation. well as i went to go pay she tells me she gave me a discount and not tell anyone.lol then she writes her name and number down on the card and says "call me when you need another haircut or wanna go have a beer sometime". i asked her how old she was and she told me 20.lol so i go "guess i'll be bringing the beer huh?" and she laughed and said "yep". i swear it's true, when you have a hot girl interested in you(the 19yr old), girls can smell it a mile away, like you give off some sort of odor, and they make the game so easy. now, had i not had a date tonight, i bet this other girl wouldnt have given me the time of day, much less given me her number without me asking and mentioning us going out sometime.
 

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Robert28 said:
well i think women around my age hold two strikes against me right off the bat...A) i'm 30 going on 31 and have never been married. many reasons led to this, i wanted to go to college and play football, graduate, get my MBA, start my own business and get it rolling along, i saw all my friends get married young and live paycheck to paycheck only to be miserable and get divorced and REALLY get screwed, i didn't want kids at a young age and i'm not 100% positive that i want them now. B) i don't have any kids and that to them is a red flag, but in my opinion it's a plus because it shows that my train knows what time to pull out of the station, i don't mind a $.75 investment, and i'm responsible when it comes to sex.
Wait a second... I'm 30 going on 31... never married and no kids, and you think I give a flying BLUE HELL what women my age think about that?

You're not the one with two strikes... to me, they're already OUT.
 

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Robert28 said:
how morally wrong is it for a 30 year old guy who will be turning 31 in 2 weeks(me) to go out with a 19 year old girl(she just turned 19 two weeks ago)? she asked me out and has been pursuing me btw. this girl is BEAUTIFUL, and i'm not looking for anything serious and neither is she. her words were "i just want to go out with a mature guy for a change and have fun with someone who treats me right". she sent me a text earlier asking me to come over Wednesday night. you don't see many 19 year old girls going after 30 year old guys, especially really hot ones, so i wanted to get ya'lls take on this.
All I can say is: good job.
 

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there is nothing morally wrong with it. but imo guys who date girls so much younger than them are lacking a certain maturity. its like the senior in high school who dates teh freshman.

its not WRONG but hes not exactly seen as the coolest guy either.

EDIT: this is relevant up to certain age. because i think women peak at around mid to late 20s. and afterwards i can understand why a 40 year old would date a 27 y/o simply because 40 y/o chicks are not hot.
 

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garruk said:
there is nothing morally wrong with it. but imo guys who date girls so much younger than them are lacking a certain maturity. its like the senior in high school who dates teh freshman.

its not WRONG but hes not exactly seen as the coolest guy either.

EDIT: this is relevant up to certain age. because i think women peak at around mid to late 20s. and afterwards i can understand why a 40 year old would date a 27 y/o simply because 40 y/o chicks are not hot.

true. but on the flip side of what you said, i just don't get a rush from dating someone's ex wife, taking care of someone elses kids, having THEM lecture ME on why i should "find the right woman and settle down". why? why do i need to stop going to the lake every weekend and seeing hot @$$ girls in bathing suits, drink beer with my buddies, and have fun? i think i've aged very weel due to the fact that i think young, therefore my body looks younger then 30 going on 31. do you know how tired i am of going out with girls my age and listen to them talk about their job, talk about their kids, talk about how evil their ex is, talk about everything that's wrong with men these days. not to mention these broads don't have the sexual drive to keep up with me but younger women do. younger women don't give a rats ass how your day at work was, they don't wanna hear about your ex and they aren't going to tell you about theirs. they want to do kinky $h!t in bed that the women my age don't want to do. the guys that look down on me and want to call me immature or "not as cool" are just jealous because their wife got fat and they made a stupid choice to get married and are stuck while i'm out living the life they wish they could be living. i have bills too, i own my own house, i just bought a new truck, but i don't have anyone to pay alimony to, i don't have any kids to pay for, i dont have any drama in my life and it's great!
 

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