How Many People Have You Had Sex With?

[Infern0]

10.

Although it was only 3 prior to breaking up with my bpd ex and pre red pill so that was 3 in 27 years. The other 7 are post red pill and in 1 year, and itll be number 11 tomorrow night as ive convinced a tinder hottie to let me **** her while shes dressed up as harley quinn, so from Blue pill afc to that, I think I've made good gains.

 

[Infern0]

It'd be surprising if I even get 10 in my lifetime to be honest. That seems like a lot to me, I can't even believe some guys have gone through like 50. I'm 22 and been with 0, never even kissed a girl either, can barely even get a date. It took me nearly two years of trying old dating just to meet up with a girl and she ghosted me afterwards. And then I see people who go on dates left and right, have sex, be succesful with women like it's nothing. Although I will admit i'm not really much of a casual sex kind of guy, I don't look at a hot woman on the street and think man I just want to **** her! To me she's just another girl.

Once you get the first one out of the way you will be surprised.

The "I'm not a casual sex kind of guy " comment struck me though and I have one question, how much porn do you watch?

 

[Dark Horse]

Once you get the first one out of the way you will be surprised.

The "I'm not a casual sex kind of guy " comment struck me though and I have one question, how much porn do you watch?

I mean yeah I watch a lot of porn. I didn't start watching porn and masturbating till I was 18 and prior to that, I didn't really have much of a sex drive.

I don't really know, it's just hard for me to see real life women as someone I just want to ****. I don't look at a random girl I don't know and think man I want to **** her. I'm just not used to seeing women that way. It doesn't mean I don't have a sex drive, it's just that i'm not interested in just sex. I want the emotional attachment, the feeling of love, the feeling of companionship. Plus I think that once I actually have sex, then my sex drive will go up. But since iv'e never had sex before, it's hard for me to see women that way.

So i'll probably never be a one night stand kind of guy. But then again, I can't speak for my future self.

 

[Infern0]

I mean yeah I watch a lot of porn. I didn't start watching porn and masturbating till I was 18 and prior to that, I didn't really have much of a sex drive.

I don't really know, it's just hard for me to see real life women as someone I just want to ****. I don't look at a random girl I don't know and think man I want to **** her. I'm just not used to seeing women that way. It doesn't mean I don't have a sex drive, it's just that i'm not interested in just sex. I want the emotional attachment, the feeling of love, the feeling of companionship. Plus I think that once I actually have sex, then my sex drive will go up. But since iv'e never had sex before, it's hard for me to see women that way.

So i'll probably never be a one night stand kind of guy. But then again, I can't speak for my future self.

Don't you not see the conflict between "I'm not a casual sex kind of guy" and "yeah I watch a lot of porn"

You are wasting all your sexual energy on porn.

BTW I used to say things like that too.

Quit watching any porn for 60 days and see what happens.

 

[Mr. Kalikoat]

Biggest cliché in the modern dating era.

My number(s) are a pretty honest representation. Just because some guys get hung up on one unicorn as teenagers, doesn't mean we all did.

I had 2 by age 18, about 10 or 15 by age 20, then hit a purple patch in my early 20s. By 25 I was at about 50 when I stopped counting. And I maybe only regret one or three. Maybe half a dozen at the most.

So now, in the 16 odd years I've been active, a total of (approx) 75 is only an average of about 4 per year. Don't see how that is so unrealistic.

Just because some people don't get laid doesnt mean noone does.

Fair point. 4 a year isn't much at all. So I can see people having 75 or more notch counts if they have been active as long as you have been.

But when I hear a teenager or 20-something say he has a notch count in the triple digits I'm gonna have to raise an eyebrow.

I remember this same thread being created on the Roosh V Forum and I saw the numbers being posted increase with every consecutive post. It started with people claiming they had 100+ and soon I saw 300+ and higher numbers being posted. It was obvious these guys were just trying to one-up each other. Pathetic. Luckily this place seems to be more down to earth.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

For me I never really kept count. But is easily over 100. Probably closer to but under 200 however.

This is very good for a 26 year old. Not to mention that since I been 18 I've been in a relationship for longer then I've been single.

 

[Tenacity]

If you are counting NON-PAID, I would say at least 100

If you are counting PAID as well as NON-PAID, I would at least 200

I say at least because quite honestly, it might be well over 200 at this point because quite frankly, I'm a gawd damn wh0re lol.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Don't you not see the conflict between "I'm not a casual sex kind of guy" and "yeah I watch a lot of porn"

You are wasting all your sexual energy on porn.

BTW I used to say things like that too.

Quit watching any porn for 60 days and see what happens.

I was only on week no fap and was rewarded with my largest erection I remember in a very long while. So I'm guessing we re-wire our brains with excessive fapping. What if it's coupled with a bad relationship where you work extra hard for sex or it gets dangled like a carrot and pulled away, your masculine response kinda gets dimmed, how to retrain from that?

Also what was your over all no fap results? Mentally? Physically? Penis wise?

 

[btownbuck2012]

how many people? So men and women?

 

[btownbuck2012]

If you are counting NON-PAID, I would say at least 100

If you are counting PAID as well as NON-PAID, I would at least 200

I say at least because quite honestly, it might be well over 200 at this point because quite frankly, I'm a gawd damn wh0re lol.

I admire the f*ck out of your honesty.

 

[Infern0]

I was only on week no fap and was rewarded with my largest erection I remember in a very long while. So I'm guessing we re-wire our brains with excessive fapping. What if it's coupled with a bad relationship where you work extra hard for sex or it gets dangled like a carrot and pulled away, your masculine response kinda gets dimmed, how to retrain from that?

Also what was your over all no fap results? Mentally? Physically? Penis wise?

I'm actually on nofap right now aiming to do the full 90 days as my previous record was 77 days.

But as for the benefits, crazy stuff.

Around day 25 was when I seen drastic changes begin, but here's a list

WAY more energy, from needing 9-10 hours sleep and still being kind of tired to running fine on 5 hours

Way more horny and sociable

More aggressive (in a measured sense)

More dominant, strong eye contact, just felt more powerful

Motivation to quit dead end job and go back to finish my degree

Got over my oneitis

Skin cleared up

Mildly better gym gains

Morning wood every day, erections like rock

Sex felt more natural, like just animalistic, don't even really think when it's happening

Women more attracted to you (they just sense the vibe)

Low level depression I've had for 8-9 years gone

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm actually on nofap right now aiming to do the full 90 days as my previous record was 77 days.

But as for the benefits, crazy stuff.

Around day 25 was when I seen drastic changes begin, but here's a list

WAY more energy, from needing 9-10 hours sleep and still being kind of tired to running fine on 5 hours

Way more horny and sociable

More aggressive (in a measured sense)

More dominant, strong eye contact, just felt more powerful

Motivation to quit dead end job and go back to finish my degree

Got over my oneitis

Skin cleared up

Mildly better gym gains

Morning wood every day, erections like rock

Sex felt more natural, like just animalistic, don't even really think when it's happening

Women more attracted to you (they just sense the vibe)

Low level depression I've had for 8-9 years gone

So masterbatiom and sub par to no sex screwed you up. No fap reset you to a base animalistic response.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

So masterbatiom and sub par to no sex screwed you up. No fap reset you to a base animalistic response.

This is why I'm preaching if your sex life is stalled to non existent fapping is just about the worst thing you can do. Man needs to focus on being able to get *****.

 

[GT40]

Think I'm at 20. Honest truth
No bs as I'm not like that.

 

[TheGambino]

Probably around 100+ different girls including ONS and on vacation in Morocco the last couple of years for 2 weeks straight everyday another girl.

F8cked lazy boring chicks, f8cked real dimes (Kim K types of girls), f8cked beautiful girls, f8cked crazy girls who would eat and gagg and deepthroat, f8cked fling girls everything. even *****s

 

[Infern0]

So masterbatiom and sub par to no sex screwed you up. No fap reset you to a base animalistic response.

Yup.

I think a big part of it was that I started with porn before I had any sexual activities.

So when I was like 15-16 it's like "I can do all this dating stuff and maybe have average sex with some average girls or I've got all these hottie online doing crazy stuff"

It takes the hunger away imo and you aren't really "a man" without that hunger

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yup.

I think a big part of it was that I started with porn before I had any sexual activities.

So when I was like 15-16 it's like "I can do all this dating stuff and maybe have average sex with some average girls or I've got all these hottie online doing crazy stuff"

It takes the hunger away imo and you aren't really "a man" without that hunger

I know this is part of Me that needs to be fixed. My gf been rationing me for years and I been masterbating way more than I need to be. Going to renew a commitment of at least 3 months. Then build a sex life where this will no longer ever be an issue.

 

[Infern0]

I know this is part of Me that needs to be fixed. My gf been rationing me for years and I been masterbating way more than I need to be. Going to renew a commitment of at least 3 months. Then build a sex life where this will no longer ever be an issue.

It's an absolute ***** in the early going

My best advice is to get a good training plan and hit the gym HARD. Like push yourself to the limit. It gives you something else to focus on and enhances/speeds up the benefits

Also take a zma suppliment

 

[EyeBRollin]

Last year I bedded 19 women. This year (2017), 3 already.

 

[Eternal_water]

1, whom I am currently in a LTR with.