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Guess I haven't read the past few posts to see if this has been posted or not, but...

Let's forget the whole "power" issue or whatever some people are quoting...That's pretty marginal anyway.

For anyone who - neglecting the "power struggle" I already mentioned - would be willing to do this (or even consider it), or those who are calling some of us narrow-minded who think this is slightly gay, picture this:

A girl is planning to strap on a plastic c0ck and put it in your ass. The only difference between that scenario and an actual guy taking the five-hole on you are a pair of nuts and some plastic. Narrow-minded? No, sorry. Homophobic? Not really...I'd prefer the term "straight."

This is purely pointing out a few differences in what is biologically normal, and what's marginally homosexual. Take it at face value.

I'm not a person who delves in on the whole power struggle between men and women. I am, however, someone who's going to point out when something is a little "off base," to say the least. This particular question is one of those things that are - how should I say this - biologically wrong.

So: Whereas I'm not on a crusade against gay/bi people, I'm saying that you do fall into one of those catagories if you persue this. Then again, as long as that isn't a problem for you, then why bother even asking this question?
 
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didnt realise there were so many insecure people on this sight


****ING HELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey i think me and chalk are comfortable with our sexuality;)

i certainly dont have a problem,

with regard to being on the wrong site, i dont think so,

after all there are guys on here who see a female with a bit of plastic as a threat,

maybe they need to have a rethink.
 
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Originally posted by CableLight
A girl is planning to strap on a plastic c0ck and put it in your ass. The only difference between that scenario and an actual guy taking the five-hole on you are a pair of nuts and some plastic. Narrow-minded? No, sorry. Homophobic? Not really...I'd prefer the term "straight."
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Maybe I misunderstand the quote, but by that logic, the only difference between a woman sucking your d!ck and a man sucking your d!ick is the person sucking the d!ick. I don't think guys that get oral from their girlfriends are gay, if that's what you're trying to say.

I do see some problems though. The power equation is very important in female sexuality. Moreso than for men. The other thing is that women don't keep their sex lives private, they talk with their friends. So the two problems are 1) you won't be attractive to your girl anymore if you let her dominate you. She'll lose interest because she'll see you as feminine. and 2), She'll tell all her friends about what she did and you'll have to deal with strange looks, snickers and lost pvssy from then on.

So I wouldn't do it unless you had an ongoing LTR and were pretty tight with the woman. There's a lot to lose.
 
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When it comes to sex, if both parties have no problem, and it feels good, why not do it? Just because some social dogma frowns on it? Who the hell cares what "they" say? It's not like they're going to be in your bedroom judging you.

-Al
 
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Originally posted by Albion4
When it comes to sex, if both parties have no problem, and it feels good, why not do it? Just because some social dogma frowns on it? Who the hell cares what "they" say? It's not like they're going to be in your bedroom judging you.
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Actually, sodomy is illegal in many states. In fact, there are several instances in which the police have entered a persons bedroom and arrested all parties involved. Though I wonder if a plastic penis counts. I'd be curious to see that fought in the courts...
 
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hey i think me and chalk are comfortable with our sexuality
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Do you believe you can fukk a man in the ass and still be comfortable with your heterosexuality too?
 
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^^ maybe dunno not planning on it, but then chalk isnt a chick with a bit of plastic, is he?
 
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Originally posted by MackJr
Maybe I misunderstand the quote
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You did.
 
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Originally posted by Finlay
NArrow minded insecure ****! ^^^
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It's called having a closed mind so **** like this doesn't get in.

I think I'm quoting someone from this board.
 
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Some interesting posts and some more of the "Your gay if you even let anything near you ass" type posts.

And for the record, AGAIN, nobodys (well not me anyway) saying your narrowminded for not wanting to be f*cked up the ass with a strap on. I've had time to think about how far i'd go in this area and that idea is definatley to far for me, and im not narrowminded when it comes to trying new things....

Some of the reasons i have for not feeling comfortable with the idea taken from an above post.....

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"The power equation is very important in female sexuality. Moreso than for men. The other thing is that women don't keep their sex lives private, they talk with their friends. So the two problems are 1) you won't be attractive to your girl anymore if you let her dominate you. She'll lose interest because she'll see you as feminine. and 2), She'll tell all her friends about what she did and you'll have to deal with strange looks, snickers and lost pvssy from then on."
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However, i'm secure enough to try a bit of ass play and not want to go f*cking blokes or sucking co*k, maybe a finger up there as im getting sucked off as ive heard that gives you a huge orgasm, and if you think that i'm gay for giving it a go then thats you problem.

As for the "Try the whole multiple orgasm thing first" - My sex life is great and thats been done, i can almost have multiples myself since ive been training the muscles and my GF's have all been mor e than happy with my lust for trying new things.

And for the record again, the thought of getting sexual with a bloke disgusts me. So in my mind if you can separate the 2 things ie: ass/gay gay/like being ****ed by blokes - then your probably mentally evolving as a human being.

Stop taking life so seriously.......
 
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sorry for the narrowminded/insecure comments.

but i still think that its no big deal.
 
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just imagine....

1. picture your girl with a strap on and a dildo hanging from her
2. her telling you to bend over
3. her sticking it in
4 you moaning and screaming
5. her yelling "yea whose your *****?!?!"

It seems wrong, perverted and just ****ing gay.
 
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Originally posted by undesputable
just imagine....

1. picture your girl with a strap on and a dildo hanging from her
2. her telling you to bend over
3. her sticking it in
4 you moaning and screaming
5. her yelling "yea whose your *****?!?!"

It seems wrong, perverted and just ****ing gay.
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I don't get... past #1 even. My current would not do that.

And that's considering that I've seen a lot of fvcked up porn.
 
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^^^^^ I have imagined it, which is why i know i wouldn't do it. And even if i did want to do it my GF is just to passive and im just to used to being dominant for it to work.

And who you calling a retard Ice Cold?
 
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this debate still going?

at this stage in my life, no chick is ****ing me up the ass with a strap on. but as i said in an earlier post, i've had a finger up there and a vibrator a little bit in but i couldn't help but reject it..

although i wouldn't take a strap on in the ass, and probably never will, i simply want you to understand that it would not make you gay if you did.

i've had a 4some with only 1 girl involved, there was no male/male action. is that gayer, or less gay then the strap on? maybe there is just no help for me.
 
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LMAO this is funnier than that pigeon guy!

Reminds me of a broad my dad once dated. She told him the story of an ex- who would do her anally and how she would then screw him in the azz with a strap-on. That crazy biatch was dumped fast.

Later on I found out she was dating the older brother of a friend. He called me up wanting to know a bit about her. I told him the story to which he replied,

"That B*tch! She told me I was the first one to f*ck her up the azz." :p
 
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