How many of you read Cosmo?

[ketostix]

Believe what you want.

And an easy woman will always pull more men than a woman who is more of a challenge. Just not in the way she wants. You dig?

Easy women get the men who get the pvssy which is all the easy woman had to offer so he hits and runs and the easy woman feels more empty than she did before so she goes and finds another man who gets the pvssy which is all the easy woman had to offer.... its a cycle.

Poor easy girl.

I'll be Waiting To Exhale while them other h0's be Dumb and DUMBER.

It's not because the girl's "easy" and didn't play hard to get games long enough that the guy is hitting and running. It's because the girl picks the wrong guy (or right guy from a DJ's viewpoint) and she has nothing else to offer but her pvss. You're not even really looking for a LTR anyway iqqi. But keep believing what you want since you know every thing.

 

[ILikeGirls<3]

Yeah the one thing that turns me off to a woman is when she acts disinterested. I love to see the smile returned, and to be encouraged that she likes me back.

 

[Obsidian]

Games are for manipulative hors/hormongers

Quit pretending to be a man, iqqi. You're not one. A woman who plays games will get nowhere with a man who understands his value.

If a woman doesn't return my calls on the same day ---> I generally recognize that she's toying with me (thus getting on my nerves), or that she's EXTREMELY disconnected from her cell phone (which is quite unusual for girls)

If a woman doesn't return my calls at all ---> I probably won't call back.

If a woman chats up another guy in my presence, I will begin consideration of whether to NEXT. If she's out with me, she shouldn't be wasting our time together flirting with other guys. As before, I recognize that either 1) she's not very interested, 2) she's toying with me, thereby pissing me off, or 3) both.

If a woman chats up another guy whom I haven't asked out yet, I'll consider her a flirt and be less likely to ask her out.


The parts about not relating embarrassing details early on and staying busy are both good, but I wouldn't call those games at all. That's just part of being a mature, lively human being. And as far as being "busy" is concerned, I think an interested party should be willing to adjust their schedule somewhat to accomodate a potential romantic match. Or if you seriously can't get out of your activity during the time when I ask you out, you'll be best off suggesting an alternate time.

 

[iqqi]

You sound uptight. ^^^^

 

[SinJester]

Wow this is interesting, and funny, quite funny.

." When he calls, "let your voice mail pick up now and then," says Sherry Argov, author of Why Men Love *****es

Lol! Pook - The Secret of the Jerk sound familiar. Damn we have ourselves some wannabe female DJs. Maybe some of them have been reading some David D and thinks it applies both ways.

The think is an ugly chick could do this all she wants and she will never, ever get laid... apart from by some very insecure, desperate and needy AFCs. An average chick could do that and most guys will still want the hot girl. The good thing is that it doesn't work that way for us.

Sure, most of us experianced DJs will just NEXT a girl that doesn't seem interested. Unless we are just gaming her for a challenge. Think about an AFC (average guy these days?) though. This could very well make him want her more. Everyone wants what they can't have.

Still, thinking about it, a girl showing interest in me would create much more interest than a girl playing hard to get. The smiles, the touching etc. works better than chatting to another guy. Althoguh this would make an AFC jealous, if he is interested in her, whch would depend on her...

Looks!

It all comes back to looks for women I'm afraid. Initally in any case. Sorry girls, put the game away and bring out the makeup

Thats my 38 cents. Can't wait to read more of you guys' replies.

 

[Obsidian]

yeah, I'm the uptight one because I'm making 8-page threads whining about my lovelife and melodrama

 

[iqqi]

yeah, I'm the uptight one because I'm making 8-page threads whining about my lovelife and melodrama

I made a POST, I didn't make an 8 page thread. It is a COMMUNITY EFFORT, BEEEEyOTCH. :kick:

And I wasn't whining about my love life.

Aaaaand WOMEN invented "game", get over it.

 

[Obsidian]

I don't believe in game. And you've probably made about 45% of the posts in that thread because you're too stubborn to take advice.

 

[Pimp101]

It takes 2 to play the game, all of you who think that girls treat this any differently to us are naive. And why shouldn't they play? Because your little ego can't handle it? Drop the contradictions.

I'll be Waiting To Exhale while them other h0's be Dumb and DUMBER.

Hell yeah, an Outkast fan Aquemini was better.

 

[MikeYikes122]

I'll be Waiting To Exhale while them other h0's be Dumb and DUMBER.

That is an obscure movie reference that just went over the heads of every SoSuaver under the age of 21.

 

[Obsidian]

And why shouldn't they play? Because your little ego can't handle it? Drop the contradictions.

They shouldn't play because it doesn't work. Try reading before you post.

And ideally, I don't think men should do it either -- even though it sometimes DOES work.

 

[SinJester]

Aint anyone going to back me up that game is NO match for looks where a girl is concerened?

 

[swifTy]

Aint anyone going to back me up that game is NO match for looks where a girl is concerened?

i know what your sayin. its right. and the same for women going after men too. but there is definately a place for game. game adds spice. game furthers attraction. it may seem counter-intuitive but anyone whose ever been gamed knows how effective it is at making things happen. it can really spur you to action. whether good or bad, meh, the emotions crank. the ball gets rolling.

Game (in my mind) is a bit like hitting the ON button. the machine is there, and the product is attractive (boy is it attractive!) but without flipping that ON switch, and seeing those flashing lights, how do you know its ON?

game counts. but we all know its the product that we are really after. not the game.

the only time game works on its own is perhaps when your young and inexperienced and its your first time dealing with it. once past that.. everyone sees right through it anyway. what counts is a mature level of game. being mature. just enough to get the lights flashin. past that and your a wank.

EDIT: I read a bit of that site and holy sh!t cosmo got game. on the game front its perhaps even more advanced than sosuave but on the whole i like sosuave better as it aims more at improving mens lives and makeing men MEN and giving men drive and purpose and knowledge. cosmo's just snag your man while you can. its extreme.

FURTHER EDIT: actually.. can game and mature be put in the same sentence? i dont think so. if your mature, your mature, which would mean no need for stupid game.

 

[LeComteDeMonteCristo]

They shouldn't play because it doesn't work. Try reading before you post.

Yes, it does work. As someone else pointed out, the art of seduction was invented by women. They have been playing this game successfully for hundreds of years. It won't just suddenly stop working on the say so of some 22 year old kid.

I think many people get the wrong impression of games because they assume they necessarily have to be antagonistic. They don't. Games played successfully are for the benefit of relationship, for the benefit of the sex.

With the exception of the flirting with other guys thing, I think the Cosmo article was pretty much spot on and something I would expect from an interesting woman. Many of you kids have to grow up and drop your egos. Let go of your bitterness towards women and learn to appreciate seduction as an art form. Chill out and enjoy.

 

[Obsidian]

Games are for people who have time to waste: "Nah, let's not ask the chick out right now. Instead, let's flirt with her and try subtly to give her the impression that I'm high value, go away from her and make her miss me, flirt with someone else in her presence, and then ask her out a couple months from now."

And girls do the same thing. The difference is that it generally doesn't work, except on really wussy guys.

Or how about this for a game: "Umm, she seems like a stuck-up b1tch so I'd better play games on her to make her like me. I'll start out with a couple negs...." Whereas, a manly guy might ask why the hell he would want to get involved with a b1tch, or with someone who is NOT inherently interested in him.

Too many chumps, metrosexuals, and feminists are giving out advice on this forum.

 

[The Deacon]

I was just reading an article called "Pleasure-Maxing Positions." This is undeniable proof that maybe Cosmopolitan isn't as full of sh*t as I thought it was.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/sex/pleasure-maxing-positions

Hey, women can be smart too!

 

[MooseGod]

I meant what I said...You guys need to put down the Cosmos and grow a beard, scratch your balls, and drink some beer. Seriously.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Aaaaand WOMEN invented "game", get over it.

Wrong.

The changing male-female dynamic did.

Its women's fault why men need "game" in the first place in modern times.

Women don't have "game," they just know how to play with and manipulate men enough to create an external "test" of sorts which honestly doesn't help them out any...it just narrows down their choices.

We call this the sh1t test, although I use the word sh1t because the test is sh1tty.

Obsidians posts in this thread are gold. There really should be no need for game, yet we still gotta do it.

 

[Last Man Standing]

LMS!!!! I WAS WORRIED ABOUT YOU!!!

Were you in jail??

Thanks for your concern...but why is it that when a Latino is absent for a few weeks that he must be in jail? Just kidding with you

I was in the jungle for a while to see if I can find a virgin - but only found branch monkeys instead!! I have returned to the cement jungles of Babylon The Great!