How many of you actually practice men going their own way philosophy :)

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I thought those were the Men's Rights Activists (MRA). MRAs are usually the divorced guys who are pisssed.

I don't know. No avi. Rant about women. See similar things from married red pill. Half century ago, a boomer had a bad date. Still bitching about it. Has anyone been infield in 2021? It's never been worse.

 

[RBK]

Women should never be the focus of your life, merely a byproduct of it.

 

[eli77]

Never been one to defend group-think. However, some of my views do run a parallel with MGTOW.

Unlike the MGTOW group, I have no bitterness or sour-grapes toward women.
Admittedly, I do have some bitterness toward myself (as any person capable of self-objectivity should).
Think about it:

At some point in our lives (those with any experience, that is) have made concessions for a woman; that we'd not make for our fellow man.
Due to our libido, we've all likely lowered our standards a time or two.
At some point, we've also allowed ourselves to be an emotional hostage to some ex (which we later reflected didn't deserve it).

Don't get me wrong. I still love women, find them very attractive and actively pursue.
However (unlike some forum members) I've also taken ownership for some previous stupid mistakes/decisions.

Nowadays, I no longer accept every decent female opportunity. I think to myself... I'll probably have to spend a couple of hours socially warming her up, and if we end up having continual secks, I'll have to take time out of my day for her and also for her texts/phone calls too. And what about the potential drama that she'll bring?
Half the time, I'll follow through and the other half, I believe that taking 5 minutes to jack-off will be better choice.

please dm me lol

 

[biggoal]

Women should never be the focus of your life, merely a byproduct of it.

Yea. I noticed it affecting me spending hours on dating apps, going on dead end dates from them and wasting money on dinner. I've been busy with my business the last several months and I simply don't have the time for dating much. When I spend less time thinking about women I get more sh*t done.

 

[eli77]

nice response guys