Oxide said:
I heard this before..from a woman actually:
It is strange if a guy hasn't slept with at least 10 girls before he is married. And if a girl slept with more than 10.
I don't freaking get this.
Let's hypothesise like this:
- she fvcked 2 throughout highschool
- about 4 in college
- she went on summer vacations and that adds 2 more
- 2 more at parties, clubs or some other dudes who she met in various places and had brief relationships with
There are your 10 men between aprox. 17 and 25! And I was thinking about what you'd consider to be a really good girl.
Really, if a girl told you "I only had two boyfriends in highschool", would that seem ridiculously high? Nope.. perfectly normal.
If she told you "Oh, it was once at the seaside when I met a really cool guy and throughout the week I spent there we hanged together". Would you believe she was a hor? Nope...
If she told you "I had a 2 year relationship in the first two years of college, then we split up as it wasn't working out and I met another guy who I was with for 6 months. He proved to be a jackass so we split up. That was two months ago and now I met YOU! I really like you!"
And then you two split up and she'll find the guy who she will get married with.
It seems perfectly reasonable, doesn't it?
Look at the numbers adding up!!
Add the fact that, if she wasn't a really shy girl, she went to parties, events, parks etcetera where she'll prolly hook up a few times throughout the 10-15 years of sexual activity before she got married.
If she was a hotness that was constantly being hit on and wasn't very uptight about getting sexed then the number of partners would be much higher: consider she was/is very outgoing and she was/is clubbing and stuff like that; consider that she fvcked/s (on average) 2 men/year (it's really not that much. think about it.)
2 men * 13 years = 26 men
Funny how numbers work!
Maybe my perception of reality is totally messed up, I don't know.
That was to prove the first point.
And the second point:
why care how many she's been with? Is it the jealousy that she might have been with more partners than you (and consequently had more experiences and fun than you)?
She is a human just like you and could have had just as high of a libido as you did!
But instead you are having fantasies and expectations of exciting, innocent and almost virgin girls to be with! **
Regarding the numbers of chicks you've been with: why care about the number and not care about the overall satisfaction?
eg: Isn't it more exciting to know that you've fvcked all kinds of girls that you desired: milfs, college girls, teens, blondes, brunettes, glamour types etc.?
Isn't the number of girls you've been with a wrong gauge of sexual gratification you've had?
I can see how that number can be exciting, but only as a rough estimation.
** I'm not personal with anyone here