How many cold approachers are liars?

[apache]

I think you'll find that very few people do 100 appraches a week, that's a very large number, baring in mind that the aim of the approach should be to get a venue change before you get the number, thus making the final number close much more solid.

I think you'll find that anyone who does do high amounts of approaches a week is still practising, and those that are extemely good at it, are probably just doing it for fun.

 

[Jariel]

Are you seriously asking questions like this? Did you read the bible?

This is exactly my point. Who says the DJ Bible is true? Many of you guys come here, having read seduction manuals, other sites or the Bible and just assume it's all true. Then you blindly do what you're told.

What makes me more sceptical is that I've seen quite a lot of approach videos now and haven't seen a successful pick up on any of them (I'm looking for 007-JC + Animal Crackers to be the first).

All I'm saying is take nothing you read for gospel and don't be afraid to ask questions or express doubts.

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by Bradshaw
-Go to this site:
http://www.puamedia.com/

Go download some of the videos. Look at how quickly and efficiently they move from set to set. Do you think that this is all a hoax? Was it done in a studio? For what purpose? To trick those guys over at sosuave into thinking that they are actually approach a lot of girls?

Come on, you were being sarcastic, right? I checked all their videos and they were absolutely pathetic and made me cringe with embarrassment. The guys are total geeks, they hit on lots of ugly girls, they impose on people, and worst of all, they are completely deluded!

Judging by the comments in the videos they actually believe the women are interested or that they've just "Amoged" someone when no such thing happened at all.

Maybe the cold approachers here aren't so much liars, but delusional, like these guys.

You have to sign up, but I strongly advise everyone to check them out because these videos back up everything I'm saying.

(*the classic Cortez comedy clip is also available there too)

 

[quest]

Originally posted by Jariel
This is exactly my point. Who says the DJ Bible is true? Many of you guys come here, having read seduction manuals, other sites or the Bible and just assume it's all true. Then you blindly do what you're told.

You can take as much or as little from the bible as you choose.

Is it true? most parts are.

But if you beleive it to be true, and you go out and approach, you'll still score girls.

If you don't beleive it to be true, you won't approach, you won't score girls.

-I have barely read any of the bible, and barely any tips, but I've completely changed my mindset from "wow i wish i could have that girl" to "i can have that girl"

 

[apache]

So what your saying is you don't believe cold approaches work?

I suggest you sign up to your local lair and hang out with some of the good guys in it and you will see how well they work and how easy they are when you learn how.

Just because you saw a few videos where the guys ****ed up does not mean that it's impossible.

My personal opinion is that you are too scared to leave your comfort zone which is only interacting with girls in your social circle. If that's what you want to do then fine, but you really should stop disagreeing with parts of this game until you've tried them.

Edit: I just watched a few, and they do get indicators of interest, if you actually got into the field you would realise this.

 

[Sexual]

Many of you guys come here, having read seduction manuals, other sites or the Bible and just assume it's all true. Then you blindly do what you're told.

Um... yeah, sure, that's me.... Buddy that never gets laid just studies the material. Dude just shut up and actually use the knowledge that has been given to you or sit around like a lot of these guys on the forum that wonder if this girl across the class that has been giving him signals maybe wants him to ask her out.

 

[Jariel]

My personal opinion is that you are too scared to leave your comfort zone which is only interacting with girls in your social circle. If that's what you want to do then fine, but you really should stop disagreeing with parts of this game until you've tried them.

Not at all. I'm very comfortable and outgoing with people, even strangers. I have done cold approaches before, though women usually asked "What are you selling?" or similar. I picked up a couple of girls from cold approaches (in bars) and they turned out to be attention wh0res and slvts, and I regretted it.

The fact is I HAVE tried them. I take pride in my failures from first hand experience in cold approaching, self-affirmations, NLP, speed seduction, DYD, playing the jerk – I tried it all out in the real world on real people.

I have had low periods and failures and bombarded the forums with pitiful questions that did my “reputation” no good, yet I got the answers I needed and learned from them. This is why I’m more successful now than I was 6 months ago, and this is why I expect to be even more successful in 6 months time. Meanwhile, the losers and delusional braggarts will still be trapped in their rut, still lying, still trying to look like gods to all the forum newbies.

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I doubt it's even possible to approach 100 girls in a day, unless you're an unemployed bum or something.

100 girls, at say 2 minutes each for a decent approach, is 400 minutes, or 6.5 hours. The only time I spend that much time approaching is at a party (which isn't actually a "cold approach").


(HOWEVER, if you did approach 100 girls, you've got to get at least 5-10 dates. 90% of guys spend months waiting for a girl to talk to them - you've got 10 girls in a few hours. Works if you're unemployed or have lots of time)