How many chicks have you slept with?

[BaronOfHair]

In the past week? One. My roofie dealer ended up in a dumpster with an entire clip in his chest, and I haven't yet found a new supplier

 

[FlirtLife]

The issue is that no one gets to say what’s attractive to a man except the man himself.

As I have said many times in the hot babe threads with pictures, what most men think are nines and tens I do not agree with. Not because my aesthetic standards are better, but because they are my aesthetic standards.

I've seen that myself, with a girl who was called below average in that thread. Owing to cosmetic surgery, she might look like one of two races. People can date or not date whatever race they like, so I decided not to put anyone on the spot. There are different standards of beauty, but also different perceptions of the exact same image.

 

[dsmith04]

Is 10 a bad number?

 

[BaronOfHair]

Is 10 a bad number?

Depends upon whether or not these broads were themselves 10s, or at least close to

 

[CornbreadFed]

Is 10 a bad number?

Depends...Are these 10 one night stands or does it include some girls you actually managed to retain for more than a year.

 

[Murk]

Too many and it’s not something to brag about. Yeah experience is good but you can lose yourself. I’m now 60+ but I wish it were lower. You don’t gain anything the higher it gets. You think it’s good, an accomplishment, but ultimately it highlights your own shortcomings. If I could erase the last 30 I’d do it in a heartbeat. The feeling of self worth, to be loved and admired, doesn’t come with bodycount. It’s internal, it starts with the mind, I wish I’d learned that sooner. At one point I wanted to hit 100, now that disgusts me. We like to pretend running through chicks doesn’t affect us, but it does. Tread carefully guys.

 

[alvinkels]

Since we are already discussing the elephant in the room I have a paradox I want to understand. I recently had S3x with a girl and her p*ssy was relatively drier short and too tight as compared to the soft and wet I usually feel with other women. She was a virgin though. Could that be the reason because I am considering LTR because she has been a "good" and she is from a decent home. I am used to that soft and wet feeling and I don't want to cheat on her even though she might not find out.

 

[alvinkels]

Are you sure it was bio-organic?


A post-op trans who hasn't had intercourse is also a virgin...

I know her she has been a woman from the womb I knew since childhood.

 

[Salvation]

Yeah no. I don't get this. If fatties and ugly girls can fluff your numbers then notch count is meaningless.

Well well.. how much women one ****s is mainly a function of 1. your Looks, 2. your sex drive i guess, and game (=not being a complete *****) is only third.
For male model on tinder (see tinder experiments) even hot girls basically just message him first and invite themselves into his bedroom, no game needed. On the other hand you have a guy that's short, or fat, or ugly - then i guess even 3's can take effort and 'game'..

I guess to measure 'game' you would have to count only girls that are hotter than you. But guys i guess would also fail here, estimating own looks vs hers.

I ****ed 130. I am 5' 6'' (5'6.5'' to be exact). I count 29 of them (= 22%) as hot. Not supermodel hot, but attractive (i would say 7; definately not fat, not old).
Additional to that around 34 from philippines (2x monthly trip), around 15 from swinger parties, around 15 prostitutes

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

The issue is that no one gets to say what’s attractive to a man except the man himself.

As I have said many times in the hot babe threads with pictures, what most men think are nines and tens I do not agree with. Not because my aesthetic standards are better, but because they are my aesthetic standards.

There are many black pill leaning men here that discount any man’s claims of getting laid more than they do, because they lead otherwise unremarkable lives when it comes to women and frankly aren’t getting late as much as they’d like to.

They’re not getting laid mostly because they have ridiculous standards that they will never be able to attain. So instead they become more bitter by the day and act like the proverbial crabs in a bucket.

“I cried for I had lost an FWB and only have 4 left, until I met a man who had NO FWBs.” -Pierce

On your first point, I think most men can agree what attractive women look like since there are evolutionary signs all men want (fit/healthy, good facial aesthetics, nice hair, good hip to waist ratio) but they just differ on the higher ends, ie some might think 7s are 10s or vice versa, but i sincerely doubt many men would say one woman is a 5 when another thinks she's a 10.

Personally I don't discount mens notch numbers, unless we're talking 100+ I'd be very very curious to see a collage of all of them... I do think their goals, motivations, and libido is a big factor though because many men have the explicit goal to get as much strange pvssy as they can... so I will stand by my point that a man's ability to keep a woman is more important for gauging SMV.

Last point, but I don't know if I buy your claim that the blackpill types have high standards, if anything I suspect most of them will take whatever they can get. The idea that "incels" are such because they are demanding a tradwife virgin with victoria's secret looks doesn't seem like the case to me.

 

[BaronOfHair]

In the past week? One. My roofie dealer ended up in a dumpster with an entire clip in his chest, and I haven't yet found a new supplier

Forgot that I even wrote this. For those who don't recognize, I was kidding

 

[BaronOfHair]

Nobody is saying you clipped that roofie dealer.

One of his baby mamas did the honors, before I got the chance

 

[jhonny9546]

Nine

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Is 10 a bad number?

Depends on your age and the quality of the women...but I think 30-60 is a good range for any man 30+. Even 50 isn't that high nowadays, i'm sure lots of women have 20-40 if not 40+...they want a man with more #s than her...... but it actually doesn't matter, if she's super into you she'll just assume it's way higher than 10.

I sincerely doubt there's much of a correlation between notch count and SMV, once it's 10, 20+.

Either she had vaginismus, or you don't know how to excite women, or you have an enormous schlong.

Being dry is obviously bad, but I heard that a women's vagina actually contracts the more she's turned on. I'm not packing any heat, but I've been with women who were soaking wet but they bled after fvcking for just 10 min...some are probably just tight.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Actually, what happens is that the vagina gets a suffusion of blood similar to the rush of blood that fills the spongy tissues of the penis (and create an erection). The spongy walls of the vagina thicken with blood and form a velvet-cushioned glove for your erection.


The wetness of the vulva isn't always related to arousal. It's merely the female genitalia preparing for penetration.

In order to explain the difference:
One of the things that mentally trip up a lot of female rape victims is that the mindless body has no morals and just prepares for penetration by lubricating the vulva, so for rape victims that experienced wetness they feel tremendous guilt that their body 'betrayed' them, because they think that wetness has to come from arousal. However, doctors can 'easily' determine that the intercourse was 'rough/forced', since pretty much all rape victims suffer abrasions and bleeding because the inner walls of the vagina were not aroused to cushion the penetrating penis/object from damaging the 'lining' of the vagina.
Whether the injuries were caused by consensual 'rough' sex or non-consensual 'forced' intercourse will depend on the context of the situation. If a man is considerate enough to wait with rough sex until the vagina walls are fully engorged, chances on injuries/bleeding are minimal. On the other hand, a woman can be willing but nervous or anxious and her tension will cause her to clench her vaginal muscles to the point where she's difficult/impossible to penetrate (often called vaginismus).

Oh I know that wetness doesn't automatically mean arousal (though some might argue grape victims are still in fact aroused even though they don't want to be) I was suggesting it's probably not a good sign if she's not wet AND tight at the same time, seems odd.

 

[coherence]

As an older millennial; triple digits. in my 30s in a smaller SF Bay Area city I could pull most weeks 1-3. once you understand plate theory and start having success it snowballs. Women seem to smell it on you that you **** a lot.

banks want to lend money to the rich guy that doesn't need it. girls will **** the guys already getting laid. ****ed up world, brothers.

I had one treatable std that a girl had so i took the pill without testing to confirm.

I am not proud or ashamed of any lays, and have ****ed fatties and models (back when that meant something).

and I'm a 5'9" white guy. lol. but was lucky in the looks department otherwise.

if you want to get laid a lot, which is a personal choice, not for me to tell you, my advice is

-do not judge a woman on her sexual past nor preferences (outwardly judge at least). -

mindset: -sex is no big deal and I won't judge her in any way if she comes home with me. it's a perfectly normal outcome and there will be no fallback or moral judgement.-

slut shaming is the biggest turn off and ****block.

also, plate theory is golden and every girl is using it on you.

 

[GoodMan32]

If we only count the ones I didn't pay for sex, 9.

 

[SW15]

older millennial; triple digits. I'm a 5'9" white guy.

This is very good.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

As an older millennial; triple digits. in my 30s in a smaller SF Bay Area city I could pull most weeks 1-3. once you understand plate theory and start having success it snowballs. Women seem to smell it on you that you **** a lot.

banks want to lend money to the rich guy that doesn't need it. girls will **** the guys already getting laid. ****ed up world, brothers.

I had one treatable std that a girl had so i took the pill without testing to confirm.

I am not proud or ashamed of any lays, and have ****ed fatties and models (back when that meant something).

and I'm a 5'9" white guy. lol. but was lucky in the looks department otherwise.

if you want to get laid a lot, which is a personal choice, not for me to tell you, my advice is

-do not judge a woman on her sexual past nor preferences (outwardly judge at least). -

mindset: -sex is no big deal and I won't judge her in any way if she comes home with me. it's a perfectly normal outcome and there will be no fallback or moral judgement.-

slut shaming is the biggest turn off and ****block.

also, plate theory is golden and every girl is using it on you.

I don't think any guy thinks it's a good idea to judge hoes for being hoes if they want to sleep with them lol. Men will say whatever they need to get laid and that's why women have become so delusional, because no men call her out.

But yes women do spin plates by default and I'm not sure they even realize consciously what they're doing.

If a women ever says she's "single AF" that she means she's in rare form: she has no plates. At any other given time, any single woman probably has tons of plates/options. I assume any girl I'm dating has a roster of men she's either fvcking in a rotation, or at the very talking to.