How many approaches?

[Tomatoes]

General Poll on the site becasue there is not enough.

Basically how many approaches have you made on girls in the last 7 days.

 

[Climax]

hmm...

I think you should have said "1 day" as appose to "7 days" .... I approach women daily, everywhere. After you pass the stage where you are "scared" to approach women, you will actually see it as something fun, and exciting at times because every approach is a new/different experience... You are at the mall and see a chick looking at shoes, approach her and give her YOUR opinion on what she looks better in etc.. Approaching is over-rated in my opinion and really isn’t a big deal... The big deal is not making an ass of yourself.... So as long as your conversational skills are sufficient, you wont really have much to worry about


Laterz...

 

[Tomatoes]

Re: hmm...

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
I think you should have said "1 day" as appose to "7 days" .... I approach women daily, everywhere. After you pass the stage where you are "scared" to approach women, you will actually see it as something fun, and exciting at times because every approach is a new/different experience... You are at the mall and see a chick looking at shoes, approach her and give her YOUR opinion on what she looks better in etc.. Approaching is over-rated in my opinion and really isn’t a big deal... The big deal is not making an ass of yourself.... So as long as your conversational skills are sufficient, you wont really have much to worry about


Laterz...

Im trying to gauge where everyone is with there confidence. I have kept it low due to the amount of people on this site that appear to have low confiedence or self of steam.

 

[Climax]

well...............

Well my confidence came with practice. The more you do it, the easier and more enjoyable it becomes. If you just walk around and say "Hello" to random people that you walk past you will already feel a boost in your confidence. Practice practice practice.

I haven’t been on this site much lately because life is hectic at the moment.... filled with partying, women, friends, chilling, working now, gyming, and generally just NOT being at home that much, besides for sleeping.

Anyways, it really isn’t a big mission like people think it is to be able to walk up to a chick and start a conversation with her. Just do it more and more, and you will find that it will become easier and easier


Laterz...

 

[DJDanny]

What the hell counts as a approach? How many chicks have i gone out of my way to approach? 0(that i can remember ). How many chicks did i meet over the last week through friends etc. that i didn't know a week before? 16+

 

[diplomatic_lies]

2 billion.

 

[Abbott]

I'd have to say zero, because I rarely see/meet any suitable young women in my day-to-day life.


Ben

 

[mattathensga]

Abbot... that is a sad, sad, pathetic excuse. I talk to every girl I see, whether or not that guages as an approach, or not, you measure. IF you aren't averaging at least three a day, you are simply not trying... it can happen anywhere... I never let a girl that I'd rank as a 7 or higher pass me by without saying somthing ( YES, its polite!) to her... for every girl that is a 7-10, she has at LEAST 5 friends that are in that same range!

mine is somewhere between 5-10 a day... so for 7 days, I'd guess at least 50-60. Now, do they all pay off? hell no, but that doesn't keep me from trying!

 

[Abbott]

Originally posted by mattathensga
Abbot... that is a sad, sad, pathetic excuse. I talk to every girl I see, whether or not that guages as an approach, or not, you measure. IF you aren't averaging at least three a day, you are simply not trying... it can happen anywhere... I never let a girl that I'd rank as a 7 or higher pass me by without saying somthing ( YES, its polite!) to her... for every girl that is a 7-10, she has at LEAST 5 friends that are in that same range!

What do you suggest I do? Go to the local shopping mall every day, since women like to shop? No one needs that many shirts and trousers.

I've sometimes tried running my errands at different times of the day to see if there's any difference, but there doesn't seem to be.

There's a Starbucks(tm) café that I go to every day before an evening class (so I can get some coffee), and plenty of pretty young women work there. But I'd only be able to choose one of them, because they all know one another and getting a reputation as a womanizer is something I don't need. Otherwise, I don't see many women.

Originally posted by mattathensga
mine is somewhere between 5-10 a day... so for 7 days, I'd guess at least 50-60. Now, do they all pay off? hell no, but that doesn't keep me from trying!

What's your day-to-day life like that allows you to see so many different women?

I want to see how yours is different from mine, since in mine I really don't see many pretty young women at all. The great majority of women I might see are not suitable for one reason or another (the most common reason is age).


Ben

P.S. Please please type my screen name correctly, if you're going to type it at all.

 

[I_Only_Live_Once]

I really doubt the results of that poll. It says that 60% of guys on here do atleast 1 cold approach per week. Judging by the KBJs on here, I think people just put down what they want, not what they did. It's like a survey asking how your driving skills are and 99% of people say they're good.

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
I really doubt the results of that poll. It says that 60% of guys on here do atleast 1 cold approach per week. Judging by the KBJs on here, I think people just put down what they want, not what they did. It's like a survey asking how your driving skills are and 99% of people say they're good.

While I too think that your statement is mostly true, we have to give people the benefit of the doubt, because there really is NO WAY to find out the truth... But those that lie do get caught out sooner or later.... And at the end of the day its their loss because they are the people that are in denial and THEY are the people that arent getting any women.... more for me and you ey?

P.s.: A lot of people also clicked "0" which means that at least there ARE still those that are willing to admit that they are not Don Juans yet and still strive to get to the stage where they can be successful with women.


Laterz...