well i used to really suffer from approach anxiety but overtime i managed to reduce it to some extent (although i still feel it) and approach girls. i have approached many girls this week probably 5 or something but got nothing from them. they might have been interested because they smiled,giggled and also looked back but directly they didn't accept anything. i have said "you are cute" to many unknown girls and i guess they were intelligent enough to understand my intention so they rejected. i wonder how many approaches did you have to do till you got a gf or sex?
how many approaches till you get a gf?
CornbreadFed
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5 is not a lot of girls judging on the success rate of cold approaching women.
BackInTheGame78
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No such thing. Firstly you shouldn't be looking to get a girlfriend. Relationships aren't your domain, you should be looking to get them out on dates and create opportunities to have sex. Once you do this enough they will want to define the relationship.
But to your original point, there is no set number. Could be the first woman you talk to, could be the 100th.
Your job is simply to take advantage of the opportunities when they come your way.
But to your original point, there is no set number. Could be the first woman you talk to, could be the 100th.
Your job is simply to take advantage of the opportunities when they come your way.
Bingo-Player
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I think what pickup gurus and YouTubers don't tell you is that there's a hell of a difference between cold approaching a woman and confidently. approaching a woman and having a direction on where the conversation is going to go
Look the most attractive women aren't going to tolerate generic " hey you look cute " openers they just aren't
they hear variations of this 100,000's a week , she knows she is cute .....AND WHAT
BE MORE ORIGINAL , look for something unique about her and build the conversation out from there
Tease her , flirt with her , challenge her
this is what turns a bad approach into a good one
If you don't have the confidence to this then you need to be approaching girls below your value and doing it with them
and yes that is going to mean approaching fat and unnatractive women
Look the most attractive women aren't going to tolerate generic " hey you look cute " openers they just aren't
they hear variations of this 100,000's a week , she knows she is cute .....AND WHAT
BE MORE ORIGINAL , look for something unique about her and build the conversation out from there
Tease her , flirt with her , challenge her
this is what turns a bad approach into a good one
If you don't have the confidence to this then you need to be approaching girls below your value and doing it with them
and yes that is going to mean approaching fat and unnatractive women
what is the good estimation as to when i can get a gf?
the only way i meet women is by approaching unknown girls but they just understand my intentions really quickly. btw i have seen high schoolers date college girls
tell me your experienceBook of Pook my friend. You have a long and exciting journey ahead of you
I think many of us have been in your shoes
Improve your SMV as much as possible
Bangladesh is a Muslim country if I remember correctly so things will not be as straightforward as it is in the western culture . Depends on how much restrictive it is
The types of guys that you made the post for would benefit from you giving examples of each.
improve my sexual market value? how?
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I turn down most of the women who approach me.