how many approaches till you get a gf?

[Pro Gamer]

well i used to really suffer from approach anxiety but overtime i managed to reduce it to some extent (although i still feel it) and approach girls. i have approached many girls this week probably 5 or something but got nothing from them. they might have been interested because they smiled,giggled and also looked back but directly they didn't accept anything. i have said "you are cute" to many unknown girls and i guess they were intelligent enough to understand my intention so they rejected. i wonder how many approaches did you have to do till you got a gf or sex?

 

[CornbreadFed]

5 is not a lot of girls judging on the success rate of cold approaching women.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No such thing. Firstly you shouldn't be looking to get a girlfriend. Relationships aren't your domain, you should be looking to get them out on dates and create opportunities to have sex. Once you do this enough they will want to define the relationship.

But to your original point, there is no set number. Could be the first woman you talk to, could be the 100th.

Your job is simply to take advantage of the opportunities when they come your way.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I think what pickup gurus and YouTubers don't tell you is that there's a hell of a difference between cold approaching a woman and confidently. approaching a woman and having a direction on where the conversation is going to go

Look the most attractive women aren't going to tolerate generic " hey you look cute " openers they just aren't

they hear variations of this 100,000's a week , she knows she is cute .....AND WHAT

BE MORE ORIGINAL , look for something unique about her and build the conversation out from there

Tease her , flirt with her , challenge her

this is what turns a bad approach into a good one

If you don't have the confidence to this then you need to be approaching girls below your value and doing it with them

and yes that is going to mean approaching fat and unnatractive women

 

[Pro Gamer]

5 is not a lot of girls judging on the success rate of cold approaching women.

what is the good estimation as to when i can get a gf?

 

[Pro Gamer]

The only way for a successful relationship is to meet as many women as possible. You will understand their personality and see if it will work out. You can’t properly filter for a longer term potential when your d!ck is horny.

Women that are interested in developing a relationship with you will be quite upfront about it. Meaning they will text you, call you, try to make the communication effortless. No games. The ones that don’t do that, drop them. They are not worth the hassle.

It takes years of personal development to not be fazed by an unanswered text and move on. We are humans with emotions and self-esteem. Frankly, I believe the only emotion men can show is ‘love’ and that is why we are so affected by rejection. It takes brutal experiences to know that you’ll recover eventually and everything will be okay. I’ve seen a lot of communication between chicks in their 20’s with their dating prospects, it’s freaking cringe af on what the guys say. There’s a reason why you get women prefer older, mature men. To keep their emotions in check and lead. Sorry I’m off on a tangent here

the only way i meet women is by approaching unknown girls but they just understand my intentions really quickly. btw i have seen high schoolers date college girls

 

[Pro Gamer]

Book of Pook my friend. You have a long and exciting journey ahead of you

I think many of us have been in your shoes

tell me your experience

 

[Pro Gamer]

i am from bangladesh btw. culture here is different from what you are used to

 

[Bigpapa]

i am from bangladesh btw. culture here is different from what you are used to

Improve your SMV as much as possible

Bangladesh is a Muslim country if I remember correctly so things will not be as straightforward as it is in the western culture . Depends on how much restrictive it is

 

[DonJuanjr]

Tease her , flirt with her , challenge her

The types of guys that you made the post for would benefit from you giving examples of each.

 

[Pro Gamer]

Improve your SMV as much as possible

Bangladesh is a Muslim country if I remember correctly so things will not be as straightforward as it is in the western culture . Depends on how much restrictive it is

improve my sexual market value? how?

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

i wonder how many approaches did you have to do till you got a gf or sex?

I turn down most of the women who approach me.