When your doing natural game...attract phase and rapport phase it's like a gray area. It's weird because when your used to gaming routine based or using all those techniques and stuff it's like your constantly doing something to keep them there.
When I go natural there are a few things I realized
- The woman gets sucked into your reality so everything she is giving you is a reflection of how you feel
- If you purposely hold silence and ride with it, it creates tension and she will kino you and laugh. I've yet to see a chick not laugh and kino me
- She is trying to find out how she can win you over, she will start qualifying herself a lot.
- When you open attraction tends to happen within seconds
I tend to notice while in set I'm not talking about much, but when she does hit some of my values then it sort of naturally gets my attention. It's like you and her can feel that spike and she knows your screening her, but it's not a tactic or anything like qualification it's real.
Something I had posted about in my journal was...going up to chicks and interacting with them with the purpose of seeing if they have any of your values.
For me I approached her for two or more of these reasons...
A. Female Beauty - She is physically attractive, because I value women who are pretty and keep themselves pretty
B. Female Sexuality - Her movements and dress code is so graceful, there is just sexual energy swirling around her
C. Interesting/Intriguing - There is something interesting or intriguing about them, whether it's there clothing, something they have, something there doing, etc.
D. Are they fun? - If I'm bored I go in because I want to see if there fun
I really value those things so when I go up, it's not only because she was a girl, she's hot and I was going around sarging. All these little subtle things women can sense them.
ESPECIALLY if you have an outcome in mind, even the most subtle outcome they can feel. I remember the week after my peak moment in my game, I started trying to revalidate myself and got blown out all week.