How long is too long

[jtb123]

If this is in the bible then sorry (ive read most of it and cant seem to find it). How long is too long when not calling or making contact with a girl? As this girl who im pretty sure likes me is going away for a couple of days and by the time she gets back it would have been around 9 days since we have spoken? (she has msg'ed me but I have no credit to reply)

Is 9 days too long or is the longer the better so when she returns she'll want to see me even more?

 

[Wyldfire]

If she attempted to contact you and you didn't answer she's liable to think you aren't interested. Waiting to call is really only something you need to do if you have a tendency to get really clingy. If you have that under control then call whenever you want.

 

[Tomatoes]

9 days would be too long in my opinion. Plus like the above post it doesnt sound like you are being clingy.

 

[MightyMate]

More than a week is too long

 

[jtb123]

hmm well I didnt ring her as I did something else that night with my mates lol. She's on holiday atm and i feel like I should ring her but I dont know....Will it seem abit needy (ringing her to see how her holiday is going) as we arnt really going out or anything were just sort of friends who hook up lol. I was just thinking about ringing her the day she gets back (2 days) and then askin her out to dinner which would probably be better as then she can just tell me all about her trip in person rather than on the phone.

What do you guys think?

 

[Docs]

Everyone has a different view on when to call. Some like the next day, some abide by the 3-day rule, some like more. It's all in what works.

So test out on 5 girls each, 1 day, 2 days, 3 days...

Find the number of days to call that works best for you. Then you will know.

 

[flexion_]

Having no credits to reply (whatever that means) is a lame excuse. Get credits and reply.