how long do you guys have sex for?

LoneWolf

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now i'm not bragging or anything but i find that i never get off until maybe an hour or more into it. often it's an hour and a bit that it happens. then i go for round 2 and last 30 minutes with that.

today was a little strange, i found that the second time i came, i was still hard and kept going. i wasn't sure if i had finished already .. i felt i did but had to double check lol. usually i can't keep going after i ejaculate but that second time i kept going. weird. i am soooo stuffed.

the longest i have went for was about 3/4 hours (my first time) cause i couldn't ejaculate for so long (nerves) - guess that don't really count.

so anyway, how long do you guys go for?
 

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Foreplay not included probably around 20 minutes. All you need to get your girl off multiples times and get yourself off.
 

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I'd like to have actual sex longer, but when my girlfriend get's off (with 10-15 minutes usually) she says 'do what ever you want to me' and I just rail her at light speed until I *** which takes about 5 minutes. My girlfriend said she doesn't enjoy sex much after she finishes.

Foreplay is around 30 minutes or less. Giving her a weak orgasm at the g-spot can be fun sometimes.

I get bored of both foreplay and sex after awhile.
 

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When I was with a woman who really reved my engines, I could cvm and keep going. when it was just someone to have sex with, not so much.
 

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Seriously the only time I can get the girl to cvm is when I drink enough so that I can't feel anything but still not enough so that I can't get it up. Usually I last like 30 minutes in that case.

Other than that I last like 5 minutes tops...

I know I'm young but I consider this premature ejac. and it's annoying as hell. It's really hard to control. Even when I masturbate I jizz so fast.
 

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What bothers me is how inconsistent I can be. I can go 4 minutes one day, and 25 another day with the same girl, and all other outside factors relatively equal.

And I'm not going to lie, it's been a while since my last time, so I'm nervous how it's gonna be next time.

I've heard/read from multiple sources that the far majority of women do not want sex to last more than 20-25 minutes. I know my ex would get so sore the times I would get above 30 minutes that she didn't want sex for a couple days after. I sometimes wonder if her sensitivity ended up reducing my stamina somehow. If it was one of those days I could tell I was gonna last a while, I concentrated on cvmming sooner so that I didn't ruin the rest of my week.

To me, lasting an hour sounds absolutely ridiculous. I'm kinda glad it isn't that way for me. I just wish I could consistently get to around 20 minutes.
 

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Depending on how aroused I am and her level of participation. Sometimes I like 5 minute quickies, other times I can go for an hour or two.
 

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Actual sex lasts for me about 10-20 minutes. I consider my self good at foreplay so I get really into that. If you warm a girl up right she will *** in the first 5 minutes of sex. I have been with my girl for over a year so I know her body well and usually I get her off 1-3 times in that 10-20 minute period. If you want to last longer have her go on top. Grab her hips and move her back and forth so her **** is rubbin against your stomach (helps if you flex your abs at the same time). This is the position that I have foudnd girls get off the quickest, and the one that takes the longest for a guy to finish. So for the basics I go me on top or from behind or some variation, then when I feel that if I go any longer i'm gonna finish, I stop, throw her on top, let her get off, then I go back on top so I can finish. I don't know about going for hours (excpept for my first few times), but what I've been told by my girl is she likes to have sex for 20-30 minutes, that's ideal, and anything longer it starts to get sore.
 

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If I am just there to **** then probably about 20-30 minutes on average, after foreplay. I love to lick *****. I know, weird. I want to make sure my partner cums multiple times before I get mine. At that point, she is more receptive to me busting it on her face/eyeballs/chest/etc.

If I actually like the girl, then I will try to make a night out of it and **** for 4 or 5 hours. And by **** Im talking about getting in touch with your inner zen, letting the tao out. Im talking kama sutra. I love those nights. When I finally ***, its awesome.
 

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powpow said:
If I am just there to **** then probably about 20-30 minutes on average, after foreplay. I love to lick *****. I know, weird. I want to make sure my partner cums multiple times before I get mine. At that point, she is more receptive to me busting it on her face/eyeballs/chest/etc.

If I actually like the girl, then I will try to make a night out of it and **** for 4 or 5 hours. And by **** Im talking about getting in touch with your inner zen, letting the tao out. Im talking kama sutra. I love those nights. When I finally ***, its awesome.
this **** is real?? lol

i always thought it was a bunch of bull****
 

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****s real bro.

Its like a soul eruption.

try it.

Its like, when you cvm, your soul connects with your partner, and then both your souls connect with the universe. Its like your soul is envoloped in a light. I cant think of a good way to describe it except for that its like you are wrapped in light, and then your own soul radiates its own strong light.

check out resources on kama sutra, tantric sex, and yoga. Yeah I said it. Yoga.
 

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The last time I fvcked it lasted for like more than 2 hours! haha I didn't even know it was that long til I checked the time!
 

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I am a giver and am the type of guy who wants the girl to remember who she had awesome sex with. So, the length I go is how long it takes her to tap out which means anywhere from 15 mins to a couple hours depending on how aroused she was to start with, etc.

My mentality is go at it like it'll be your last time you ever have sex in your life. This results in an awesome session and leaves the girl wanting more. And they do come back for more. :D
 

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there's another thing. when i was about to grab a second condom for round 2, i could of sworn i heard her softly say "you're so fuking sexy" and she never talks like that.

at least i know she's satisfied in the sex department so i don't have to worry about that.
 

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For me, the main factors seem to be:

- How long since I last "relieved the pressure"

- Whether I use a condom or not.

- Position selection

If I have gotten off 2 days or less before and I'm wearing a condom, it's not unusual to last an hour or more, and normally the girl will get worn out before I do.

Whereas, if I had gone any length of time and wasn't wearing a condom, I would definitely come a lot quicker.

Of course, some positions make you come quicker than others, as well.

Quality not quantity is the key. If you last too long, the girl can actually start to wonder if she is turning you on enough.
 

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Should I be jacking off less? I usually do it every day out of habit/need but I find when I have sex I last too long. If it's been a couple days since I've gotten off then that's a different story altogether.
 

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green69 said:
Should I be jacking off less? I usually do it every day out of habit/need but I find when I have sex I last too long. If it's been a couple days since I've gotten off then that's a different story altogether.
yes, thats the problem i'm having. sometimes i know i'm going to see her the next day or two but i can't help myself and whack off .. then it takes me longer when we finally do it. i'm gonna try to not touch myself all week... im betting i won't go for an hour this time.
 

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Depends how well I know the girl and how much I like her. If I'm just getting to know someone and I really like her, we can spend hours getting to know each other's bodies (with many orgasms). But once I know better exactly what they like, we can satisfy each other much quicker (20-30 mins sometimes even less). In a LTR sessions any longer than that can actually get boring or choresome. If it's a ONS I just enjoy myself for as long as I feel like, usually around 30 mins. A big factor for me is that I'm usually ready to go again within 10 or so minutes and I have a huge sex drive. I can happily go 5+ times in a day/night. If I have trouble reaching orgasm I'm not shy to ask for a little help!
 

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I can go for Hours with the right girl (wider pvssy). If she's tight, I'm at her mercy, if she's bucking really hard & tight, I'm fvcked cause I'd have to shove her off of me to stop my cvm which ain't nice. So it varies. I can go a Long time or If she's sooo hot and tight, I'll lose it pretty quick cause it's just pretty much unavoidable. The longest I've ever bang bang banged was roughly 3 hours. I remember going to the bathroom twice, her black cat in there looking at me as I was pissing, this was late at night like until 2 am we just kept fvcking and fvcking non-stop.
 

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