You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Poon King again.
Newby you know what your problem is? Your problem is the same that most men have when it comes to women, you are so programmed into thinking that there's this PRINCESS out there or that women are these ultimate queens in some sorts, or that women can "fulfill you" in some ways....that deprogramming you with another notion is almost like destroying your entire operating system because "the virus" has spread everywhere. In other words, you have so many damn viruses in your system it's best to just GET a new computer than to sit here trying to restore your sanity.
That's how most men are. No matter how well, detailed, and laid out you make the argument that marriage MAKES NO SENSE, dealing with the Family Court MAKES NO SENSE, believing that there's a "The One" MAKES NO SENSE....you guys still talk about this notion of "not all women are like that" and "the one is out there just keep looking".
It's insane at best and naive at worse. But like I said, I will never wake you up, Poon King will never wake you up, men like you can't be saved. The only thing we can do is allow the "virus" to continue eating you alive to the point where it destroys you and wipes you off the planet. It's best that we put our efforts towards men who are not yet infected by the virus.
And for the life of me, Newby I wish guys like you would hop off this "Real Man" bandwagon. WTF is a Real Man? A Real Man is a guy that defines his OWN life for what he wants it to be, not what Society tells him a "Real Man" is supposed to be..