How long before you get bored with sex in LTR?

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Hey guys, just wanted to ask how long it takes you to get bored with sex in LTR? I had 3 relationship 2.5, 2.5 and 4.5 years long, but within the year I lose appetite for sex with the same women. In all relationships women kept fit and took care of them self ( fit wise). Is this normal?
 

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Dear TinZ,
Must say I have a principal Plate who I have Shvagged three-four times a week for six years,I never tire of her....But,but,but I would never move in with her...As Mother would say familiarity breedeth contempt...Stay apart and spin Plates,that way a Relationship stays fresh and vibrant!
 

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No offense scaramouch, but thinking that way all the way to your current age.... Must be quite a lonely venture to go back home by yourself every night
 

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Dear Pipe,
look I go home after a night with who ever.....Open a bottle of wine,defrost a Steak...Cook a hearty meal...Go upstairs,watch a little British TV,then to bed...Read a good book for half an hour,then off to dream land...Like the Miller of Dee,"I care for nobody no not me,where nobody cares for me"...And so dear Pipe what would you have me do?
 

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My opinion is that it all depends on how attracted you are to her.

You're never going to stop wanting other women. May as well make peace with that.
 

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^^^ this and how good the sex is and how much she makes you feel she likes it.

But ... you have to like the chick too. If you can no longer stand the way she chews her food, you'll start to want to retract the seed every time.

SH
 

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speed dawg said:
My opinion is that it all depends on how attracted you are to her.

You're never going to stop wanting other women. May as well make peace with that.

I concur. I've never gotten "bored" with the sex per se, but I have grown bored with a girl's body.

It goes back to the whole variety thing. That desire never really goes away.
 

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TinZ said:
Hey guys, just wanted to ask how long it takes you to get bored with sex in LTR? I had 3 relationship 2.5, 2.5 and 4.5 years long, but within the year I lose appetite for sex with the same women. In all relationships women kept fit and took care of them self ( fit wise). Is this normal?
Never got board. Keep doing different things. Suggest what to do. Try what she wants. If all you ever do is missonary, 69, blow job then bust a nut and then fall asleep. Of course you are going to get board.

Change things up. Go get some toys.

The damned internet is full of suggestions on what you can, should do, try to do.

If you don't like it, tell her. If she doesn't like something, she should tell you.

Faldero456
 

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I'm not sure if bored is the right word for it, but after a few months that initial new p#ssy excitement (aka The Honeymoon Phase) is usually gone for me.
 

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my ex bpd let me fake rape her. kept things a bit exciting. then again she was one crazy slvt that would do anything and everything i wanted
 

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MikeOck said:
I'm not sure if bored is the right word for it, but after a few months that initial new p#ssy excitement (aka The Honeymoon Phase) is usually gone for me.
Thanks for replies guys.
I do always try new things, toys, positions, "rape" stuff, all sorts of but it just gets boring after a while just like MikeOck said above. Sex just gets less and less interesting for me. It made me think that if in the future I decide to marry or what ever and sex is boring for me with same woman it can create only trouble .
 

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TinZ said:
Thanks for replies guys.
I do always try new things, toys, positions, "rape" stuff, all sorts of but it just gets boring after a while just like MikeOck said above. Sex just gets less and less interesting for me. It made me think that if in the future I decide to marry or what ever and sex is boring for me with same woman it can create only trouble .
bro tie her up to the sofa or bed. fvck at the beach, woods, dressing room at macys. let her blow you at the movies..
 

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pipe007 said:
No offense scaramouch, but thinking that way all the way to your current age.... Must be quite a lonely venture to go back home by yourself every night
In one way I wish to disagree with Scaramouch but in hindsight, I do not. Mouch is probably getting more poon at his age than the rest of us combined. You should all listen to experience when it presents itself.

Some of you just don't get it. I'm getting more now than I ever did and I'm in my 50's and I tore it up in my earlier years. Gotta make it interesting for a woman. Pin her ears back and give her the unexpected.

Works every time and will keep her coming back again and again because she has no idea what's next.

Keeps the hamster fvcked up.
 

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I don't (personally) think you get bored of sex. I think you get bored of the woman you're having sex with. How soo that happens is usually a question of your own criteria and succesful filtering.

All of my LTR's(the few I had thus far) broke down when I got bored of sex WITH the chick I was with. Sex is damn fun. As long as you enjoy it, making her enjoy it is enjoyable. I don't mean catering to her every need, but making her moan, shake and sweat while enjoying the whole process yourself. As long as I am interested in ****ing HER, I don't get bored of it. If I do, I made a bad choice and I need to make a new one.
 

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I was living with my LTR for 3 years, one night she passes out early. I was very drunk and high, so I watched porn for the first time in years. I had one of the best jizzes of my life and passed out.

"Honey, what are still you doing up?"

Porn browser on my computer, jizz all over my shorts and barely waking up from a coma.
 

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Yes, I have a tendency to get bored. It doesn't matter how hot the girl is...eventually I get bored.

The only way for me to stay invested in a relationship is if I truly enjoy being around the girl for other activities besides sex.
 

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pipe007 said:
No offense scaramouch, but thinking that way all the way to your current age.... Must be quite a lonely venture to go back home by yourself every night
Only a woman would say this.
 

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I had a bomb ass Colombian chick with the smallest waist and juiciest ass. The sex was great but she never gave BJ's. I actually got bored of sex after only 3-4 months with her.
 

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MikeOck said:
I'm not sure if bored is the right word for it, but after a few months that initial new p#ssy excitement (aka The Honeymoon Phase) is usually gone for me.
This. I don't think there is a way to avoid it. We are just naturally programmed to want to fvck as many chicks as possible.
 
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