How long b4 second date?

Kineti[C]harm

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Differs from situation to situation.... How much she's into you, how good feel you have, how the first date went, how she has reacted, if she contacted you etc etc.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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If she's really into you, wouldn't she be asking you for a date?
 

DJ_Dork

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If you both are feeling each other out.. then um.. setup a date on another weeknight whenever. If she's REALLY into you.. then do it on the same week. if it's "so so" try next week.
 

Genghis Juan

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Go with DJ Dork, good advice.

90% of the time, you will have to pursue. Unless she is looking for an ONS or a fling.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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