How is this forum still around?

eli77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2013
Messages
2,214
Reaction score
440
Location
Miami fl
Just wanted to know how is this forum still around this day and age saying good morning to the lovely girl get you in trouble lol
 

Dr.Suave

Moderator
Joined
Mar 6, 2017
Messages
3,823
Reaction score
4,140
You only get in trouble if she is not attracted to you.
 

Billtx49

Moderator
Joined
May 23, 2013
Messages
6,078
Reaction score
5,482
Location
DFW
This Forum still exists because of the information gap some men have concerning women.
 

devilkingx2

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 9, 2013
Messages
4,544
Reaction score
2,238
Location
NYC
The wrong people don't know about this forum and it's too obscure to attract much attention.

I actually wonder how 4chan still exists, but I thank God that it does.

this day and age saying good morning to the lovely girl get you in trouble lol
That's not something most normal people have to worry about, the kind of crazies who would be most likely to do that barely go outside.
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
14,579
Reaction score
15,689
It exists because of posts like this that make getting laid seem like it's some unconquerable mountain to climb when it's never been easier.

We have the guys crying they can't get laid and the guys who use these tips and tools to get laid more than ever. Pick what side you want to be on.

And yes, 95% of the time it's a choice.

Even if you are not great looking, you can still get laid. You'll just have to accept it will be with someone likely in your "looks range". Women do have much lower thresholds on looks than most guys believe but let not be delusional and think a guy who is a 2 is going to get a woman who is an 8. Likely not happening. If a guy is saying he can't get laid because he is unwilling to bang 4s and 5s then there isn't much we can do to help. People have to be realistic, game can only help poor looks so much.
 
Last edited:

Jesse Pinkman

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2022
Messages
2,145
Reaction score
2,107
I wonder that myself as someone who used to browse this place back in the day. I mean the RSD Forums are gone and most other forums have gone by the wayside. Here is my reasoning for why it still exists:

1. The Black Pill and Incels with a ton of time on their hands have not found this forum yet. While these guys have often overrun other communities with their psychotic mindsets and run them to the ground like the locusts they are, this one has stayed under the radar and mods have thankfully cracked down hard and fast.

2. No central figure runs this forum, it is a collective forum for getting laid. You look at a forum like Roosh's where everything that happened was sort just dependent on where he was in life and the place went from "where can I get laid easiest in the world" to "I love Jesus". This forum does not center around a figure or person, it centers around an idea.

3. This was never really a pickup forum or a PUA forum so whatever impacted PUA did not impact this place as much. It remained about getting good with women no matter what was the ideal school of thought at the time.

4. It has kind of been a revolving door of users instead of needing users to keep it afloat. Good Looking Loser's forum relied on a handful of slayers to do well to keep the forum going. Once those guys left and Chris left, the forum died. This forum has always been a revolving door of users who come and go for the most part.

5. Moderation here is done almost perfectly. Mods ban stupidity and toxic content but they allow healthy debates to happen. In other forums, someone can simply make an accusation about someone and run that person out of the forum or silence them. Here, mods crack down on that sort of nonsense so people can freely speak their minds and contribute entertaining content.
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
14,579
Reaction score
15,689
I wonder that myself as someone who used to browse this place back in the day. I mean the RSD Forums are gone and most other forums have gone by the wayside. Here is my reasoning for why it still exists:

1. The Black Pill and Incels with a ton of time on their hands have not found this forum yet. While these guys have often overrun other communities with their psychotic mindsets and run them to the ground like the locusts they are, this one has stayed under the radar and mods have thankfully cracked down hard and fast.

2. No central figure runs this forum, it is a collective forum for getting laid. You look at a forum like Roosh's where everything that happened was sort just dependent on where he was in life and the place went from "where can I get laid easiest in the world" to "I love Jesus". This forum does not center around a figure or person, it centers around an idea.

3. This was never really a pickup forum or a PUA forum so whatever impacted PUA did not impact this place as much. It remained about getting good with women no matter what was the ideal school of thought at the time.

4. It has kind of been a revolving door of users instead of needing users to keep it afloat. Good Looking Loser's forum relied on a handful of slayers to do well to keep the forum going. Once those guys left and Chris left, the forum died. This forum has always been a revolving door of users who come and go for the most part.

5. Moderation here is done almost perfectly. Mods ban stupidity and toxic content but they allow healthy debates to happen. In other forums, someone can simply make an accusation about someone and run that person out of the forum or silence them. Here, mods crack down on that sort of nonsense so people can freely speak their minds and contribute entertaining content.
Oh, I don't know about that...we have several black pill incel posters who are very active and spend lots of time talking about how life isn't fair and how they can't get laid and how it's impossible these days.

Funny how if they took some of that time and energy and channel it into REAL(key concept...REAL not FAKE) self-improvement they would probably start seeing much better results but it's far easier to cry and complain than do any real work on themselves and take a look in the mirror.
 

SW15

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 31, 2020
Messages
13,302
Reaction score
11,271
2. No central figure runs this forum, it is a collective forum for getting laid. You look at a forum like Roosh's where everything that happened was sort just dependent on where he was in life and the place went from "where can I get laid easiest in the world" to "I love Jesus". This forum does not center around a figure or person, it centers around an idea.
Roosh's Forum was solid when it was a seducer's forum.

3. This was never really a pickup forum or a PUA forum so whatever impacted PUA did not impact this place as much. It remained about getting good with women no matter what was the ideal school of thought at the time.

4. It has kind of been a revolving door of users instead of needing users to keep it afloat. This forum has always been a revolving door of users who come and go for the most part..
Rollo Tomassi is a perfect example of Point 3. He made a name for himself on SoSuave. I read "The Rational Male". "The Rational Male" is not a pickup guide, though attraction and seduction are discussed in it. "Mystery Method" is a pickup guide.

Multiple users need to keep a place afloat.
 

Murk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 17, 2017
Messages
4,400
Reaction score
3,342
Age
35
Location
London
1. It makes the owner money due to traffic/book sales affiliation
2. Mods aren't too harsh so you can say pretty much what you like and not feel censored
3. Mods ban/time out trolls/bad behaviour and lock threads to keep toxicity down
4. Every man regardless of how skilled/handsome is going to have issues with women or at the very least seek some advice on a situation, so constant new members
5. The purpose of the forum will never change, the issues with women will always be there

I'm really not sure why this forum would ever close or why that would surprise you?
 

BadWatermelon

Don Juan
Joined
May 21, 2021
Messages
172
Reaction score
122
Age
41
I started out on the TRP subreddit, but right before it got quarantined, the content really started going downhill and it got overrun with black pill content. (I think this is before black pill was a word.)

This forum seems to be a smaller, more tight-knit bunch.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
11,295
Reaction score
4,664
Eh, I think old timers like Captain Kirk & I hang around for the same reasons that old farts at the hip neighborhood bar do - it's convenient, familiar, and everyone knows you.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
11,295
Reaction score
4,664
I started out on the TRP subreddit, but right before it got quarantined, the content really started going downhill and it got overrun with black pill content. (I think this is before black pill was a word.)

This forum seems to be a smaller, more tight-knit bunch.
I think it's because there is a certain website where the black pillers that have thrown in the towel can go, leaving those of us that still have hope.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
11,295
Reaction score
4,664
I wonder that myself as someone who used to browse this place back in the day. I mean the RSD Forums are gone and most other forums have gone by the wayside. Here is my reasoning for why it still exists:

1. The Black Pill and Incels with a ton of time on their hands have not found this forum yet. While these guys have often overrun other communities with their psychotic mindsets and run them to the ground like the locusts they are, this one has stayed under the radar and mods have thankfully cracked down hard and fast.
Oh, I think they had found this place, but once they had figured out that Game is only a multiplier and that x * 0 = 0, they moved on. Also, the development of live sextertainment like Chaturbate made it easier to make the decision.
 

MatureDJ

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 30, 2006
Messages
11,295
Reaction score
4,664
It exists because of posts like this that make getting laid seem like it's some unconquerable mountain to climb when it's never been easier.

We have the guys crying they can't get laid and the guys who use these tips and tools to get laid more than ever. Pick what side you want to be on.

And yes, 95% of the time it's a choice.

Even if you are not great looking, you can still get laid. You'll just have to accept it will be with someone likely in your "looks range". Women do have much lower thresholds on looks than most guys believe but let not be delusional and think a guy who is a 2 is going to get a woman who is an 8. Likely not happening. If a guy is saying he can't get laid because he is unwilling to bang 4s and 5s then there isn't much we can do to help. People have to be realistic, game can only help poor looks so much.
So what you're saying is that a PUA needs to go for a looksmatch in which he can slay at a high rate. I hate to break it to you, but that looksmatch point for most men is women in the triple digits of kg. :mad: Who the h3ll can feel good about porking a porker?
 
Top