How is it possible for gay guys to find a man extremely attractive, yet the ladies largely view him as invisible?

[Hamurabimbi]

This thread went on a lot longer than it should.


How is it possible for gay guys to find a man extremely attractive, yet the ladies largely view him as invisible?

Neither of these two are connected the way you think they are. A man can be attractive to men and women. He can also be attractive to neither. There is no link here, so the discussion can't lead anywhere except to the obvious about gay intentions.

Having both women and men (straight & gay) compliment my looks. I must assume there is some overlap.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Having both women and men (straight & gay) compliment my looks. I must assume there is some overlap.

The overlap stops at the fact of the orientation of the person. You can't compare a gay person's measurement of attraction to a non-gay person. Nor is a gay man and a woman comparable. Different brains, different genders.

It is like saying why do gay men like certain ice creams compared to the general female's taste in the same ice cream flavor. There's literally no connection of comparison.