How is it looking like for Indian guys these days?

[Listen_to_Olly]

A piece of advice to Indian and all Asian guys in general who want white girls, go for the ones who are not Anglo or a part of the basic b1tch American girl culture. French girls melt at handsome dudes from those backgrounds, one of my good looking Korean friends outgamed a handsome white guy with Ryan Gosling looks and took a hot French girl home over him. Scandinavian women are pretty open as well as long as you aren't Arabic or anything (think Northern Indian guys might struggle due to some of them looking Arab, lose the beard!).

Go for more foreign white women who aren't Anglo, your race won't be as big of an issue. You will get rejected a lot due to race alone if you go for the post grad sorority basic chick or the white girl who wants to be a part of the "in crowd", it is a waste of time.

I have an Asian friend who used to chase these types of women because he wanted to be a part of "American culture", got rejected and humiliated a lot, and switched over to chasing more foreign white girls. Right now he is dating this Russian blonde with model looks that a lot of guys eye-rape when they see with him.

 

[Trainwreck]

A black-only dj forum would probably have topics like : "why white guy have success on blackwoman etc"

Funny, how succesful "black,asian,arab,white,latino" etc.. never talk about their skin color in the dating game. They dont need to cause they above it

Heck, I am white living in Canada.. I heard so many times girls say: "I only date black, asian, latino, within my religion, within my race etc..."

When I was young... it destabilized me when I heard that... but at university level and work level... Heck no and I saw more Mix.

Beside there is only 1 race, the human race.

If inter-racial/color was so rare and hard.. why its now 25% of all dating/marriage... and only going up.

Your skin is not helping you? Do something about it... move to where it doesnt matter.

You said you were black and in your location its hard.... maybe because you live in a ghetto culture...What's the ghetto culture? Its black americans saying that "success" is white.... it's like in my country where the "french speakers" said "success is english".

You need to leave that ghetto culture.

Maybe move to Africa... but I guarantee you that in Africa...your skin color is the less you'l worry about in terms of rejection factor (they will look into your blood, your location, your country, your family name, your height, your language, your religion)

Dear lord, I live in the richest part if my state so the exact opposite of the ghetto. This motivational bro logic gorilla mindset talk is outdated and annoying.

 

[Von]

Dear lord, I live in the richest part if my state so the exact opposite of the ghetto. This motivational bro logic gorilla mindset talk is outdated and annoying.

Bro the gorillas are black and almost extinct.

Respect nature and your elders.

Just saying complaining will do no goood.

 

[Plums]

I have heard Aziz Ansari has addressed this sort of thing on his Masters of None show and Hasan Minhaj even talked about it in some radio interviews. It does seem like brown guys are getting somewhat of a voice in American media and we all know how women in general are suckers for media representation.

It does seem like the whole Indian guy dating value across the US seems to vary a good amount. I met a couple of Indian players in Texas who were doing well with women of all races, even white women who everyone swears Indian guys can't get.

With some slightly cool representation in media as well as Indian men assimilating into American culture more, I want to know how things are like for Indian guys these days.

Indian guys are usually really attractive and should have no problems getting women. There was a stigma around accents and also the third world label that doesn't apply at all in many cases. As far as looks go Indian men are top of the field and shouldn't feel held back at all.

 

[SmooveMooves]

@SmooveMooves might seem like he has an axe to grind against Indian guys but I am in the same region as him (Northeast, NYC area).

No axe to grind here bro. I'm just speaking from experience. I don't live in NYC. I live in western NY state. So that may be why our experiences differ. Here, indian men get treated very badly by anyone that's not Indian. Its a known thing in this area that they are not well viewed.

 

[SmooveMooves]

I’m not convinced


You would need extreme social proof / value but it’s definitely possible because I’ve seen it done


My barber is Turkish /Asian and is about to marry a white British girl


But Perhaps in the states the views are different

Oh shít my bad bro. I didn't know you didn't live in the states.

 

[Listen_to_Olly]

No axe to grind here bro. I'm just speaking from experience. I don't live in NYC. I live in western NY state. So that may be why our experiences differ. Here, indian men get treated very badly by anyone that's not Indian. Its a known thing in this area that they are not well viewed.

That makes sense then, not too familiar with that part of the area but it is still tough to imagine the animosity would be that strong.

As for NYC, it is different. In recent years a lot of Indian and Asian guys are starting to be see as high value and cool by all sorts of women in the area, especially in Brooklyn and Manhattan.

I mean just look at this here for proof

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...ni-doctor-needs-room-New-York-gains-fans.html