Once you start to feel sorry for yourself it doesn't matter where you're from or what you look like. You come off as someone with low confidence, lack of attraction and no respect for yourself at all. AND THAT’s the biggest reason that you're not where you want to be.
Second, looks mean nothing to women. They'll take confidence, money, and power any day over looks.
Oh well, it's not that easy. Looks means a lot to women, but looks is way more then what you think. Way, way, more.
Imagine a average, even below average, guy - when it comes to his "raw" physical appearance. I'm that guy - the average guy. Take a picture of me without cool clothes or charisma, and nobody would consider me as hot. I'd probably be rated as a 5/10.
Dress me up in a pair of cool, well-fitting jeans. Add nice shoes, a belt, a outstanding shirt and a jacket. Add a hat, bandana or cap, or something attention gaining to my head. Maybe even a pair of sunglasses on my head. Add a silver ring, watch and necklace. Well-matching colors and clothes that really fits my body.
I'm now at least 6/10, believe me. Add a smile and sparkling eyes - charisma - and I’m a 7, maybe even 8.
"Raw" physical appearance + Style + charisma = looks.
To improve those - work out, find out what 'style' and dressing good really means, and work on your charisma. I won't write about that here. There are good posts about it already.
When it comes to money you’re right. Money IS attractive, but it’s the MONEY itself that’s attractive. And, also, the fact that rich people often are successful. Women like success. Everyone likes successful people. They have qualities.
When you meet a girl she’ll decide really quick weather you have a value (and qualities)or not. Probably within the first 5- 10 minutes - if you hold a conversation with her. It’s her first impression.
Do you think that has ANYTHING to do with MONEY?
Yeah, it does – but only if she’s a prostitute.
Questions?