how important is her physical attraction to you in a LTR?

[captain55]

Im sure almost ALL of us have banged women, or dated women who are not extremely physically attracted to us initially and we became more attractive to them over time through other means. (sense of humor, confidence, game, great in bed, etc) in fact I would say that is almost always the case, because you don't need any game with a woman who is totally into you. And we ALL have gotten women with our game, that's why we are HERE.

Obviously these women wouldn't be with us or had sex with us if they thought we were Unattractive or ugly.... they probably found us decent looking enough to give us a shot, and we won them over.


Lets say you do get in a LTR with one, the fact is that there are going to be men who she is STRONGLY physically attracted to and that is something you never had with her. Is cheating inevitable? How do you learn to accept this?

Of course I can take the weak way out- and only go for women who are extremely attracted to me and I know for a fact like me. but if i do that what do I need this board for? You gotta be an idiot to not get laid by a chick who's drooling over you.

 

[Fireballs]

In my opinion, no matter what you look like there will always be guys that your girlfriend is more physically attracted to than you. But as long as you are better than him in her eyes (higher alpha) then it doesn't benefit her at all to cheat.

 

[captain55]

In my opinion, no matter what you look like there will always be guys that your girlfriend is more physically attracted to than you. But as long as you are better than him in her eyes (higher alpha) then it doesn't benefit her at all to cheat.

Ok so you have more money than that guy and gave your girl a couple orgasms and got her attached to you. so what... Why wouldn't she cheat with a guy she is more physically attracted to if she could get away with it?

I'm starting to come to the conclusion that The only way to not get cheated on is to date down...

 

[djthiago1]

If she liked the guy that gave her better orgasms she would be with him not you. You conquer the HEAD and the BODY will follow. It's all in the brains. If she's in love with you, you'll always be the tallest, strongest and with the biggest d1ck. Sex don't matter. Hot body doesn't matter. But it's a nice bonus, so always do your best.

 

[Skyline]

Im sure almost ALL of us have banged women, or dated women who are not extremely physically attracted to us initially and we became more attractive to them over time through other means. (sense of humor, confidence, game, great in bed, etc) in fact I would say that is almost always the case, because you don't need any game with a woman who is totally into you. And we ALL have gotten women with our game, that's why we are HERE.

Obviously these women wouldn't be with us or had sex with us if they thought we were Unattractive or ugly.... they probably found us decent looking enough to give us a shot, and we won them over.


Lets say you do get in a LTR with one, the fact is that there are going to be men who she is STRONGLY physically attracted to and that is something you never had with her. Is cheating inevitable? How do you learn to accept this?

Of course I can take the weak way out- and only go for women who are extremely attracted to me and I know for a fact like me. but if i do that what do I need this board for? You gotta be an idiot to not get laid by a chick who's drooling over you.

I'm sure you have heard women say: "It's more about personality than it is about looks..!" The translation to that is: "I found him at least SOMEWHAT attractive to BEGIN with and the only reason why he won me over the guy that I found drop dead gorgeous is because he happened to have more confidence and a decent amount of game so now I like him even MORE because of the EMOTIONAL connection." This is also the basis for one night stands by the way.

If she finds you at least somewhat attractive and depending if she's feeling lonely then the smallest of interest expressed can go a long way. If she's not feeling lonely but finds you attractive then having confidence, knowing kino, banter and teasing her, will go an even longer way. So the point is: Express interest and you will probably win especially if you have some confidence and or game. But who do you express that interest in? Not everyone. Only the ones who find you physically attractive. How do you do that? Indicators of interest! Read her boy language/actions!

So for one night stands, it can be pretty much 100% looks. If you want MORE than that then that's when confidence and GAME comes into play. In order to keep a girl wanting you day by day you need to be able to basically seduce her week by week. If you're naturally a romantic person then this isn't that difficult but just be sure not to overdue because women do get tired of it. It's really all about balance when it comes to interest an relationships.

So to answer your original question: She will find other guys attractive but as long as you're maintaining her interest then you will be fine, unless she's a slvt but those type of women void the rules so to speak.

 

[.Bing.]

She needs a man who she is physically attracted to for long term. Women cheat on rebound guys who are just there to fill the time for someone better looking.

 

[stevo]

You have asked the million dollar question.

A relationship fails. It's the man's fault.

You know why? HE chose. We choose the women regardless of their action through inaction to make us choose them, ultimately WE choose. Especially who we date and who we marry.

Now, most break ups are initiated from the girl, indirectly through change in attitude or bluntly vomiting the words.


Men however have continuously done the same mistake, (myself included before DJ was born). The mistake of upgrading a girl that do not like you as anything more than a plate.


Now keep in mind, a girl could do everything right even if she does not like you. Also keep in mind, you could love someone and not like them.


Seks could be abso-fcuking-lutely amazing but that's not enough qualification to hold on to her.




So to answer your question, the higher her attraction the better, that doesnt guarantee fidelity (regardless if its 100% attraction to you) because there'd always be someone finer,richer,taller, blah the blah than you. However her attraction would serve as a magnetic force that keeps her wanting you over and over.

As to fidelity, it comes down to her belief and conscience. There are dimes with not so good looking men that would not cheat (sometimes regardless of who with) because they have "no need" to or do not accept/desire infidelity.

For your own benefit, make sure you're doing everything within your power to continuously 1. Improve yourself. 2. Fcuk the sheet outta the kitty kat.