How has 2024 been for you with women ?

[Gamisch]

Slow year. Last year finally separated from my ex after being on and off with her for like almost ten years. Not gonna lie it kinda hurts. Took me a few months to get my head clear and sometimes I still miss how we were in our prime.

Got a few lays from the apps but didn't continue because my mind wasn't there..stopped using apps after that.

Ran into a new old girl and slept with her now and then, but she ran when I started to pursue her too hard..lesson learnt right there! Couple months ago a woman at my job was going for me but she was batsh1t crazy.

4 lays isn't that much so this year so I HAVE to be more bold. Year flew by. Might reinstall the apps but definitely will put myself out there even more.

 

[corrector]

4 lays isn't that much so this year so I HAVE to be more bold.

These same ladies you met through the app probably have 4 lays in a week or more.

 

[Gamisch]

These same ladies you met through the app probably have 4 lays in a week or more.

Nah ,that's quite a stretch bro. They were with me for longer periods so thats one. Some of them had longer dryspells than I did at the time.

Secondly, that doesn't matter. You gotta get put of this negative way of thinking first if you want to recover and get out of your predicament.

Not all women are wh0res. Be more positive.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

You did mention you had incel friends in real life, right @Hamurabimbi? That should come as no shock.

True.
But it id still a bit unsettling.

 

[corrector]

True.
But it id still a bit unsettling.

How was 2024 for your incel friends? You hang out with them allot?

 

[corrector]

Nah ,that's quite a stretch bro. They were with me for longer periods so thats one. Some of them had longer dryspells than I did at the time.

Secondly, that doesn't matter. You gotta get put of this negative way of thinking first if you want to recover and get out of your predicament.

Not all women are wh0res. Be more positive.

You mentioned you met them from a dating app (ie Tinder). My impression of Tinder it is a modern version "Adult FriendFinder", in that allot of women you meet from Tinder/Dating apps are loose cannons. Are you now saying that Tinder is just a regular dating site rather than a hook-up site? In the past, I did see a number of profiles from women, who put their pics up on dating sites, also put a profile up on the Adult FriendFinder site back when I tried that out in 2006.

I would never say all women or even most women are nasty.

 

[Gamisch]

You mentioned you met them from a dating app (ie Tinder). My impression of Tinder it is a modern version "Adult FriendFinder", in that allot of women you meet from Tinder/Dating apps are loose cannons. Are you now saying that Tinder is just a regular dating site rather than a hook-up site? In the past, I did see a number of profiles from women, who put their pics up on dating sites, also put a profile up on the Adult FriendFinder site back when I tried that out in 2006.

I would never say all women or even most women are nasty.

Depends. Lotta women are there in a similar predicament as we men are. They simply want some'. Some attention, love and affection.

I met these women on Bumble by the way but that doesn't matter I think .I don't say these are normal dating sites. What I DO say however is that you gottaake sure the best version of yourself is.your representative at all time.

Are you religiously hitting the gym yet???? 8 days a week including cardio???

 

[Hamurabimbi]

How was 2024 for your incel friends? You hang out with them allot?

AFAIK, nothing changed for them in ‘24.
I see them about once a month.
I have very little free time.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Other than a couple of plates, been spending more time on my career and exploits. Getting ready to progress to the next level, so I spent less time on women. But because my value and notoriety is growing, naturally I am gaining more attention from women. I'm not really pushing for anything intimate and just keeping them there for the future.

As I tell guys everytime, just keep your business going and the women will come on their own. I can always fap or go to a plate if I am needing sexual release, but women are not my priority.

 

[crowolf]

I'd say 2024 was my most successful year in terms of game.

I took massive action on going out and doing cold approaches - mostly day game and gutter game. Learned a lot about that whole process.

Had some dates, most of which ended up very near my place, 2 of which ended up inside, 1 of which became a short-term girlfriend. Could have done better in terms of numbers that "convert", but I'm too picky and my aim is quality, not quantity.

A year and a half ago I was basically living like a monk, so this is some peak progress for me. To be honest, I crushed a long drought in the most like-a-boss way possible - through cold approach street hustle same night lay kind-of a thing. This gave me some deep confidence.

I also improved a lot in my text game. And solidified my knowledge on the basic principles of game with experience: At this point I feel like I know what is happening in the set or interaction, I read the energy, the interest levels, I calibrate.. I express myself more authentically, have fun..

Grateful but not fully satisfied of course. Still looking forward to better experiences. Let's see what 2025 is cooking.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

You mentioned you met them from a dating app (ie Tinder). My impression of Tinder it is a modern version "Adult FriendFinder", in that allot of women you meet from Tinder/Dating apps are loose cannons. Are you now saying that Tinder is just a regular dating site rather than a hook-up site? In the past, I did see a number of profiles from women, who put their pics up on dating sites, also put a profile up on the Adult FriendFinder site back when I tried that out in 2006.

I would never say all women or even most women are nasty.

I would say Tinder is both. At least when I used it just before Covid.
I got hookups and LTRs out of Tinder.

 

[Aurora Demon]

It was okay, but this year will be even better.