im in college and displayed some interest in this girl (known her for like 5 weeks), but when she started giving me the LJBF vibe, i started not caring as much and invested a lot less energy in her. 3 weeks later, i think i have been getting some IOIs..though not obvious ones...it's a hunch. accidental push/pull here?
would it be accurate to say that you question things she does when she interacts with you and think whether or not she does that with her normal friends. if it seems as though she went out of her way (let's say she randomly called one night and asked if i wanted a snack that she can bring over to my place)...its an IOI? she has called me up to play tennis and for random visits at my place. i dont call her anymore.
anyway, i think im gonna ask her out to lunch at school next week and then do some kino. should i ask her on a date then or should i push her a little more and ask her out later that week (pull).
would it be accurate to say that you question things she does when she interacts with you and think whether or not she does that with her normal friends. if it seems as though she went out of her way (let's say she randomly called one night and asked if i wanted a snack that she can bring over to my place)...its an IOI? she has called me up to play tennis and for random visits at my place. i dont call her anymore.
anyway, i think im gonna ask her out to lunch at school next week and then do some kino. should i ask her on a date then or should i push her a little more and ask her out later that week (pull).
