How effective is it to use reverse psychology on a female?

[El Payaso]

When she gives you a sh!t test or a loaded question, how effective is it to reverse the situation or question back to her?

For example, I finished having sex with this girl last night and she asked me "So how many other girls are you sleeping with?" I was taken aback but I just said calmly "I can't believe you would call me a wh0re". She started apologizing saying "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to...blah...blah...blah" and that she trusts me.

Obviously I'm sleeping with other girls but I'm not going to tell her that. I'm just curious if reversing the situation was a good idea or was there something else I could have said?

 

[TheCWord]

This is a little too much overthink, El Payaso. You did fine. A lot of times there's not a right away but there's definitely a wrong way. As long as you're being cool (not getting worked up over the question, replying with something light & clever), then you're doing it the right way. Doesn't matter if it's reverse psychology, sarcasm, or some other form of teasing.

For what it's worth, whenever I get asked this question I always reply, "You're my first." They laugh and drop the subject.

 

[GotED?]

When she gives you a sh!t test or a loaded question, how effective is it to reverse the situation or question back to her?

For example, I finished having sex with this girl last night and she asked me "So how many other girls are you sleeping with?" I was taken aback but I just said calmly "I can't believe you would call me a wh0re". She started apologizing saying "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to...blah...blah...blah" and that she trusts me.

Obviously I'm sleeping with other girls but I'm not going to tell her that. I'm just curious if reversing the situation was a good idea or was there something else I could have said?

I would say if she had to ask you that question, she's in high interest playground with you. A woman doesn't care about it unless she's jealous and territorial about her man. Same as when a guy asks a woman the same question, though pointless is the process.

Exodus

 

[[S]alvatore]

Agree and amplify: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/relationship-game-week-agree-and-amplify/

 

[skinnyguy]

You're trying way too hard. Just stop worrying about what they say.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

Your answer was good and I say similar things, but usually more like "you don't trust me?"

Reverse psychology seems like one of the first things I learned in game.
The classic example of acting like you aren't interested in a girl she ends up wanting you, etc.

"reverse game: hit her with a cold line, told her I don't want her pvssy and it really fvcked her mind. I learned that from a cold mack, how to make 'em run back." - 100s

 

[JoeMarron]

Agree and amplify: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/relationship-game-week-agree-and-amplify/

This. Her: "How many other girls are you sleeping with?" You: "All of them"

 

[Cremasta]

Haha! This can by dangerous ground.

Trying reverse psychology on women is like playing a contact sport. If you only do it half-arsed, you're going to get hurt. Women have been playing these games since they could first talk.
So whether you're just having fun, or being serious, commit to it or you'll come out second best.

Good luck!

 

[El Payaso]

You're trying way too hard. Just stop worrying about what they say.

Well, that's that whole point of the thread and why I asked, isn't it? Since what I said was "trying too hard", tell me what I could have said for future reference.

 

[El Payaso]

Agree and amplify: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/relationship-game-week-agree-and-amplify/

So something to the effect of "I have a log book in my drawer where I keep track of the number of women I'm currently having sex with"?

 

[Dgwizdal]

Your response: tonight?

 

[SmooveMooves]

Yo. Somebody please make a "Common **** Test" thread with funny responses. It'd be hilarious

 

[skinnyguy]

the ironic thing is that the wh0re you slept with last night is probably doing the same thing with 15 other guys...

 

[rascal99v]

Reverse Psychology doesn't always work and you end up failing more by using it than succeeding. Guys who try to use Reverse Psychology are usually back peddling and are put on the spot by the chick. You don't want to come off as defensive or being insecure when talking to these chicks. Always be secure and get straight to the point without being defensive.

You gave a very defensive answer to her comment. That shows you can crack under her questions or sh1t tests.

It's none of her business how many chicks you have fvcked. She isn't your girlfriend and even your girlfriend shouldn't be privy to that information.

It shouldn't matter to you anyway. The only way you want to be cool about it is if you haven't fvcked her yet. You already fvcked her, so if she doesn't like the response you give, then who cares. You already got what you wanted out of it, right?

After you have fvcked her, and if she asked you something like that, then just look at her and tell her "Only the girls who are worth it."

Which is true statement for me, because I'm not going to bang any whale or sh1tty looking chick. The chicks I bang have to be worth something in quality.

I said that to one chick one time and she replied, "So, I am worth it?" I just tapped her on the nose and gave her a kiss. That ended it right there and she had some built up fantasy in her head that she was better than anybody else. That's what you need to do with these chicks, play off their inflated egos. Don't let them try to get to you, or let them throw you off your game. If they see a chink in the armor, then they know they can get you riled up over a simple question or test.

If you haven't banged her yet, then you can say "Well I haven't exactly been the monk of the month or anything like that." That conveys to her it's none of her business but you do have other options.

Once you bang her, it shouldn't matter to you. If you can bang her again, then great. Don't make a big thing out of it and don't get defensive over simple questions like that.

 

[El Payaso]

Reverse Psychology doesn't always work and you end up failing more by using it than succeeding. Guys who try to use Reverse Psychology are usually back peddling and are put on the spot by the chick. You don't want to come off as defensive or being insecure when talking to these chicks. Always be secure and get straight to the point without being defensive.

You gave a very defensive answer to her comment. That shows you can crack under her questions or sh1t tests.

It's none of her business how many chicks you have fvcked. She isn't your girlfriend and even your girlfriend shouldn't be privy to that information.

It shouldn't matter to you anyway. The only way you want to be cool about it is if you haven't fvcked her yet. You already fvcked her, so if she doesn't like the response you give, then who cares. You already got what you wanted out of it, right?

After you have fvcked her, and if she asked you something like that, then just look at her and tell her "Only the girls who are worth it."

Which is true statement for me, because I'm not going to bang any whale or sh1tty looking chick. The chicks I bang have to be worth something in quality.

I said that to one chick one time and she replied, "So, I am worth it?" I just tapped her on the nose and gave her a kiss. That ended it right there and she had some built up fantasy in her head that she was better than anybody else. That's what you need to do with these chicks, play off their inflated egos. Don't let them try to get to you, or let them throw you off your game. If they see a chink in the armor, then they know they can get you riled up over a simple question or test.

If you haven't banged her yet, then you can say "Well I haven't exactly been the monk of the month or anything like that." That conveys to her it's none of her business but you do have other options.

Once you bang her, it shouldn't matter to you. If you can bang her again, then great. Don't make a big thing out of it and don't get defensive over simple questions like that.

Great post, Rascal. Very good tips. I just have to say though that I was definitely not trying to get defensive with her. I was only saying it in jest to make her feel bad but I'm sure it looks defensive which was the point if that makes sense. I do like the "worth it" comeback though. That one comes across much better.

 

[iamnobody]

OP, I think your "I can't believe you just called me a wh0re" is gold. Combined with a sh1t eating grin it is gold.

 

[Sofomore]

I got this a couple days ago as well. I just said "Between 1 and 100" and smirked.

Then I changed the subject. "Nice shoes, where'd you get them"