How drunk does a chick have to be for you to turn down sex? I had my limits tested last night and probably lost my shot forever because of it, but oh well....
So I'm out of town for a convention, and it just so happens that I know a couple of 30ish females (city girls....you know the type) that live a few miles from where I am staying.
Caught up with them late last night at a bar. They had been to a concert and had been drinking all evening, so they were pretty lit when I got there close to midnite.
I get to the bar and the two chicks have three dudes hitting on them.
The chick I have known for the longest, Katie, was happy so see me, but her friend Megan who I have known for less time was REALLY excited when I got there. She was hanging on me, lots of kino going on, the body language was tight, and eventually the three dudes cut their losses and split.
Hung out with the two of them for awhile, then all of the sudden Katie says her goodbyes, apologizes for being a dud, and leaves me with the drunker of the two, Megan.
By now I realized it was a setup. Megan didn't even have a ride.
Had one more drink. The chick standing on the other side of me hands me a shot of tequila some dude bought for her and I dropped it right before my last vodka tonic. Megan orders another beer, and we finish our drinks while chatting with the chick who gave me the tequila.
She kept apologizing for being so drunk, for being "that girl", that I had to "take care of her", etc. It got pretty late so eventually I grabbed her hand and told her "lets get out of here", and take her to my car.
I drive her to her place which is only a few minutes from my hotel. I drive an "interesting" vehicle, and I won't go into details, but it ends up we are in the parking lot of her condo complex and when she gets out I have her posing for pictures with my car at 2am, haha.
Long story short, a little huggy/kissy, and I let her go up to her place while I went back to my hotel.
It was a total setup. I could have banged the hell outa her. She was telling me earlier in the night how she had talked to another mutual friend of ours a few days prior and told her how excited she was about me coming to visit. This other friend/ex co-worker of hers is a chick I dated briefly who left me to marry a guy she went to high school with. This is the same chick that made it known (on numerous occasions) to our entire circle of friends that the sex we had was out-of-this-world. This chick actually told her friends a couple of times (with me sitting there) that they should "try me out". I knew that little referral might pay off one day, hehe.
So if I wanted it, I could have had it. There was zero risk of her calling foul later, so that wasn't a factor, but I know how sloppy it would have been, so I hauled ass.
So the question is, if you know the chick and there is little to no risk of getting accused of "date rape" or any bullsh!t feminist promoted crap like that, how drunk is too drunk?
My only regret is that it probably closed the window for a future hookup. You know how women are- if they feel even the slightest bit rejected they clam up and the window of opportunity is lost forever.
She did text me when I was driving home. I hit her up when I got to the hotel and she again apologized for being so sloppy, so who knows....maybe when we get together tonight I might be able to pull one out of the hat if she actually did realize that she was a little too far gone.
So how far do you go if there is no risk of repercussions? This chick wasn't throwing up in my car but she was obviously inebriated. You know, like to the point where every once in awhile she takes a little mis-step and you're afraid she's gonna bust her ass (but she miraculously never does).
I say it's an individual call. You gotta weigh out the possibility that if you DON'T seal the deal the opportunity will be gone forever with the knowledge that it's going to be bad. Probably really bad.
What do you think?
So I'm out of town for a convention, and it just so happens that I know a couple of 30ish females (city girls....you know the type) that live a few miles from where I am staying.
Caught up with them late last night at a bar. They had been to a concert and had been drinking all evening, so they were pretty lit when I got there close to midnite.
I get to the bar and the two chicks have three dudes hitting on them.
The chick I have known for the longest, Katie, was happy so see me, but her friend Megan who I have known for less time was REALLY excited when I got there. She was hanging on me, lots of kino going on, the body language was tight, and eventually the three dudes cut their losses and split.
Hung out with the two of them for awhile, then all of the sudden Katie says her goodbyes, apologizes for being a dud, and leaves me with the drunker of the two, Megan.
By now I realized it was a setup. Megan didn't even have a ride.
Had one more drink. The chick standing on the other side of me hands me a shot of tequila some dude bought for her and I dropped it right before my last vodka tonic. Megan orders another beer, and we finish our drinks while chatting with the chick who gave me the tequila.
She kept apologizing for being so drunk, for being "that girl", that I had to "take care of her", etc. It got pretty late so eventually I grabbed her hand and told her "lets get out of here", and take her to my car.
I drive her to her place which is only a few minutes from my hotel. I drive an "interesting" vehicle, and I won't go into details, but it ends up we are in the parking lot of her condo complex and when she gets out I have her posing for pictures with my car at 2am, haha.
Long story short, a little huggy/kissy, and I let her go up to her place while I went back to my hotel.
It was a total setup. I could have banged the hell outa her. She was telling me earlier in the night how she had talked to another mutual friend of ours a few days prior and told her how excited she was about me coming to visit. This other friend/ex co-worker of hers is a chick I dated briefly who left me to marry a guy she went to high school with. This is the same chick that made it known (on numerous occasions) to our entire circle of friends that the sex we had was out-of-this-world. This chick actually told her friends a couple of times (with me sitting there) that they should "try me out". I knew that little referral might pay off one day, hehe.
So if I wanted it, I could have had it. There was zero risk of her calling foul later, so that wasn't a factor, but I know how sloppy it would have been, so I hauled ass.
So the question is, if you know the chick and there is little to no risk of getting accused of "date rape" or any bullsh!t feminist promoted crap like that, how drunk is too drunk?
My only regret is that it probably closed the window for a future hookup. You know how women are- if they feel even the slightest bit rejected they clam up and the window of opportunity is lost forever.
She did text me when I was driving home. I hit her up when I got to the hotel and she again apologized for being so sloppy, so who knows....maybe when we get together tonight I might be able to pull one out of the hat if she actually did realize that she was a little too far gone.
So how far do you go if there is no risk of repercussions? This chick wasn't throwing up in my car but she was obviously inebriated. You know, like to the point where every once in awhile she takes a little mis-step and you're afraid she's gonna bust her ass (but she miraculously never does).
I say it's an individual call. You gotta weigh out the possibility that if you DON'T seal the deal the opportunity will be gone forever with the knowledge that it's going to be bad. Probably really bad.
What do you think?
