I'm 20 and i recently met a 23-year-old graduate psychology student who recently came here from Asia. Needless to say, she's damn intelligent. And while i do appreciate that, her knowledge of psychology, eagerness to dig into my mind and somewhat lacking knowledge of english makes for some 'interesting' conversations.
So why am i writing about this here? Well basically, at times i feel like she's using my own tricks against me. Generally speaking, i usually let women do most of the talking and while i sit back and listen to them basically tell me how to seduce them. I basically try to remain a mystery to them while getting them to tell me everything about themselves.
And that's exactly what i think she's doing. But she's different, and i like that. I'll take the challenge and pursue this. But how do i handle her? How much should i tell her and how do i dodge the questions i don't want to answer? And most importantly, what do i ask her? Her asking the tough questions gives me the 'right' to ask absolutely anything! Here are some examples of what she's asked me:
- asked me what i think about her face. I told her it was beautiful. I'm not big on complimenting, but she left me no choice.
- showed me a pic of a girl and asked if i find her attractive. I said i don't and she seemed extremely satisfied. Turned out she showed it to four other guys and they all said they do. She hates the girl on that pic.
- asked me what i would do if i was having sex and the phone rang. I laughed and said i'd throw it out of the window followed by the fax machine.
- asked if i would kiss and/or grope my girlfriend on the train. I said i would if we both wanted to, and i wouldn't let strangers stop me from doing something i want to do. Said she finds that 'disturbing'.
- asked me what i would do if i saw girl i've been previously introduced to. Wanted to know whether i'd approach. I said i'd approach a girl that interested me whether i knew her or not.
So why am i writing about this here? Well basically, at times i feel like she's using my own tricks against me. Generally speaking, i usually let women do most of the talking and while i sit back and listen to them basically tell me how to seduce them. I basically try to remain a mystery to them while getting them to tell me everything about themselves.
And that's exactly what i think she's doing. But she's different, and i like that. I'll take the challenge and pursue this. But how do i handle her? How much should i tell her and how do i dodge the questions i don't want to answer? And most importantly, what do i ask her? Her asking the tough questions gives me the 'right' to ask absolutely anything! Here are some examples of what she's asked me:
- asked me what i think about her face. I told her it was beautiful. I'm not big on complimenting, but she left me no choice.
- showed me a pic of a girl and asked if i find her attractive. I said i don't and she seemed extremely satisfied. Turned out she showed it to four other guys and they all said they do. She hates the girl on that pic.
- asked me what i would do if i was having sex and the phone rang. I laughed and said i'd throw it out of the window followed by the fax machine.
- asked if i would kiss and/or grope my girlfriend on the train. I said i would if we both wanted to, and i wouldn't let strangers stop me from doing something i want to do. Said she finds that 'disturbing'.
- asked me what i would do if i saw girl i've been previously introduced to. Wanted to know whether i'd approach. I said i'd approach a girl that interested me whether i knew her or not.
