Well it common DJ knowledge that as soon as a woman knows she has a guy (in the early stages) her interest level generally takes a significant 180. So my question is how does the woman know...is it particular behaviour or is a six sense thing. What are some of the things guys can do to prevent it from happening. I know the general response is "to spin more plates". Personally I think that this is an immature solution as it doesn't fix the problem inside a man. A man should be able to have enough emotional maturity to date a single woman without the woman owning him. I think this is what women want. Basically a man who wants and desires them but doesn't need them. You can superfically create this effect by spinning plates (much like gaining confidence through alcohol) but I think this is not going to help the guy over the long term.