How do you use texts?

[teddy]

Honestly, it's just easier for me to cut the bull**** and use texting simply as invites for dates. Nothing clever or allowing myself to be dragged into ultimately futile conversations.

There are a lot of people who put way more effort into their texts; trying to be sexual, clever, and witty. But honestly, back when I was a full-blown AFC, I ALWAYS tried to be clever in texting (and would text "just to keep in touch" with women I wasn't even dating).

So now I invest far less and just text to meet. Don't care if I come across as boring because I feel like when I'm in person, that's when the magic happens. Not through text.

 

[PlayHer Man]

The only thing you need to know as a man is --> Pandering is for faggots.

Women don't care how funny or witty you are.. they care about what you can do for them.

They get a good laugh watching men jump through unnecessary hoops to impress them with sh!t they really don't care about anyway outside of entertainment value. Most men are dancing clowns for women. Like clowns hundreds of years ago that kings would bring into their castles to entertain them when they are bored. This is what most men have stooped down to because they are so pathetically desperate :crackup:

When you pander to women you ARE --> The dancing clown.

The woman should be the LOWER VALUE person in the relationship. Like your dog or cat. Would you try to impress your dog or cat? NO. Why not? --> Because they need you MORE than you need them. As it should be.

This is why I try to teach men the right mindset instead of teaching lines, gimmicks and manipulation. The PUA's teach you gimmicks which really don't help you in the long run because you still think like a faggot.

Once you stop thinking like a faggot.. everything else falls into place.

So how do you use texts? You use them to get a FACE TO FACE meeting ASAP. Not to "chat" or "impress" or "tell jokes". The purpose is FACE TIME.

 

[Night-hawk]

So now I invest far less and just text to meet. Don't care if I come across as boring because I feel like when I'm in person, that's when the magic happens. Not through text.

"Every move is magic." (with the right attitude)

 

[lover4721]

I feel like there is enough evidence that calling is much more better for setting up a date. Like, I can't find a post that doesn't say calling impressed women.

Even though I don't use texting just for this (I use it for communicating and yes, it does kill many of women's interest), I think it should be used for just 'stopping by' so then she see's that you are interested. Text just a slight slight amount. It worked for this girl I met!
She gave me her number saying text message me then and I messaged her, and I asked simple questions, and even made her laugh.
I asked if she liked her family, and she said "Yes I do! Do you?" I said "Like your family? I haven't even met them! We didn't even go to Applebees yet. Not so fast!" She said "You have an AMAZING sense of humor."

So then after that, talking about my Dad's hard of hearing and deafness. She said "Is it strange that I'm oddly intrigued by you?"

Then I asked "Yes, very strange! Oddly?! You make it seem like you shouldn't be intrigued." She said she will keep quiet. I said "Full name get back here right now!"

And I didn't even know I guessed her middle name until I looked at her Facebook! She said "We should chill one day!" I'm thinking because I guessed her middle name correctly. And it goes from there.

So I got her interest, so now I am going to CALL her one night (she doesn't work anymore [last job, she worked at a gas station that I installed cameras for], or go to school) and ask if she wants to do something.

So I feel like it's a short messaging device, and it doesn't come on too strong like randomly calling and getting to know her then. See, I want to get to know her just a slight bit before anything. She is from a bad city.

It seems like it worked, and always does for me. The next part would be calling, and it goes further and further.

Although, she seemed to get REALLY boring. She is also bisexual and she is looking more a girl than a guy. So I am going to place this on the back burner for a day, and work on the car, and if she comes around - she gets lucky!

So text messaging is one of those things that she can get to whenever she wants, get to know her just for a few messages, and go further. Then, she sense's some movement in the relationship. Rather than calling and saying "Meet me here, bye." Hell, she doesn't even have any interest beyond acquaintances.

This worked for me and I feel like I have mastered a method lol.

 

[teddy]

The only thing you need to know as a man is --> Pandering is for faggots.

Women don't care how funny or witty you are.. they care about what you can do for them.

They get a good laugh watching men jump through unnecessary hoops to impress them with sh!t they really don't care about anyway outside of entertainment value. Most men are dancing clowns for women. Like clowns hundreds of years ago that kings would bring into their castles to entertain them when they are bored. This is what most men have stooped down to because they are so pathetically desperate :crackup:

When you pander to women you ARE --> The dancing clown.

The woman should be the LOWER VALUE person in the relationship. Like your dog or cat. Would you try to impress your dog or cat? NO. Why not? --> Because they need you MORE than you need them. As it should be.

This is why I try to teach men the right mindset instead of teaching lines, gimmicks and manipulation. The PUA's teach you gimmicks which really don't help you in the long run because you still think like a faggot.

Once you stop thinking like a faggot.. everything else falls into place.

So how do you use texts? You use them to get a FACE TO FACE meeting ASAP. Not to "chat" or "impress" or "tell jokes". The purpose is FACE TIME.

You know, this is what I'm really realizing. The fact that this whole thing is a mindset, rather than a collection of lines. I used to think back to women I made mistakes with and think "I should've said this/that, it would've changed their mind."

But now I realize that's not the fact that the line I said was wrong or that I didn't stand up straighter or whatever. The bigger issue was that my mindset was wrong. Correcting that mindset naturally leads to resolution of those "mistakes".

 

[lover4721]

I can't agree anymore!

I posted on someone's thread about the same thing. It truly is your mindset. I can't believe how much I have changed into a man, just correcting the mindset that I had. Nothing will ever be able to explain it. :/

 

[dasein]

I use texts once we are having regular sex to get her juiced up and anticipating during the day, makes the sex much better when they have their first orgasm in just a minute or so. Nothing else though, and never for asking out or communicating with new women. Overuse of texts is one of the greatest mistakes of men trying to get women. It dissipates your masculine mystery and makes you just another chatty cathy like the rest.

 

[skinnyguy]

The only thing you need to know as a man is --> Pandering is for faggots.

Women don't care how funny or witty you are.. they care about what you can do for them.

Well. Bad boys have nothing to offer to women other than penis and yet they are getting laid 500% more than most guys. They certainly don't take them out or pay for stuff.

 

[Night-hawk]

Well. Bad boys have nothing to offer to women other than penis and yet they are getting laid 500% more than most guys. They certainly don't take them out or pay for stuff.

The kind of access you have to women matters. There are many chumps with girls getting laid more than some 'bad boys' for the simple reason of access.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Well. Bad boys have nothing to offer to women other than penis and yet they are getting laid 500% more than most guys. They certainly don't take them out or pay for stuff.

They offer more than you think. Sometimes its:

-Good genes (looks)
-Status (bad boy)
-Hot Sex (yes women like sex too)
-Adventure
-Novelty
-Experience

Not sure why you are so determined to prove the teachings of this site wrong or why you refuse to think outside the box.

My assumption about you is that you simply WANT to be a beta and live in Disney world. It's what you're used to and you don't want to change. Fair enough.

I've said before that if being a beta fag makes a man happy then he should be a beta fag. Just don't expect to get the same respect, sexual opportunities, or admiration that an alpha/DJ gets. YOU WON'T GET IT.

Its always your choice.

 

[Igetit!]

You know, this is what I'm really realizing. The fact that this whole thing is a mindset, rather than a collection of lines. I used to think back to women I made mistakes with and think "I should've said this/that, it would've changed their mind."

But now I realize that's not the fact that the line I said was wrong or that I didn't stand up straighter or whatever. The bigger issue was that my mindset was wrong. Correcting that mindset naturally leads to resolution of those "mistakes".

Looks like that "red pill" is starting to kick in....


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