How do you truly be the better man?

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
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The focus should always be on you. It's not possible to put the focus on a woman and be a better man. you will become nothing more than silly putty.

First thing's first, you have to figure out exactly who in the hell YOU are.

One of the reasons I have been gone for so long, is I came to the realization that although I do have some stuff I like doing, it's one thing to say I know who I am, but that's just lip service.. I really did not know who I was exactly. What type of person am I? What type of character defects do I have? Can I change them and if so how? What are my habits? you'd be suprised.

The only thing you have to be able to do is look in the mirror when you go to sleep and like who you see. nothing more, nothing less. All the money in the world won't make you happy if you hate who you are as a person. Power in the hands of a disgrunted person is a recipe for madness if not all out anarchy in one's life.

you can look like brad pitt, but if you don't KNOW you look like brad pitt, what does it matter?

It's like in AA... all you need to worry about is the step you are on, today. Worry about Finding out exactly who you are. get out a pen and paper and get alone, and start thinking, writing, who in the hell are you exactly?
 
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