How do you tell a girl that you only wanna be fvck buddies?

[Krassus]

Say a girl is showing interest in you, but you don't want a serious relationship, nor want to cheat on her. So if i wanted to be straight like that, what would happen? How would this have to be said, and most importantly, when? Before or after?

 

[MDgood]

This is what I did a few months ago with some 19 year old chick I know. I was online with her, and I already knew that she was "uninhibited". I turned the conversation to her sex life, and my sex life, and then I just said, hey, you just wanna do it, with no strings attached? She said, yeah, sure, gave me directions to her house, and I banged the snot out of her.

The whole process was really rather straightforward. Occassionally I'll see her online and say something like, so when we gonna do it again, we didn't do as well as we could have, etc., and she reassures me by saying that once she breaks up with her boyfriend we can be fukk buddies again. Beats me why she says that now, she was seeing some guy when I banged her.

One item of warning: If the girl is 19 and still lives with her parents, and you're a guy in your 30s, make certain to leave the house before they got back home.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Why not just invite the girl to your place

I'm older, unless I'm bangin young chicks they all wanna get married.

 

[( . )( . )]

Originally posted by Krassus
Say a girl is showing interest in you, but you don't want a serious relationship, nor want to cheat on her. So if i wanted to be straight like that, what would happen? How would this have to be said, and most importantly, when? Before or after?

my 2 cents
firstly we banged a few times, then i think on the 2nd or 3rd night we had been laying in my bed talking about sh!t and sure enough she springs the "where is this heading" crap on me.
at the time i was ALL about me, my confidence was sky high, and i honestly didnt care if any chicks i met walked away because i had lots more numbers. (that was my state of mind at the time,)
thats how you have to be, and she will pick up on that aswell.

anyway i knew it was coming so i basically laid it all out for her:
Look i just came out of a 6 year relationship, the last thing i want or need is to get serious again, I enjoy sex , you and i have alot of fun dont we?, lets keep it light.

thats how it worked for me, i dont pretend to know anything about gaining alot of fbuddys because she was the only one i said that to, i dont even know if it would work with other chicks, but it did with her. (although her clingy chick instincts would kick in now and then)

i could write a whole lot of other stuff, but im not sure what bits would be relevant or not to you.

BUT if i was to try it again this is how i would do it:
1. get that mindset again. (very hard for me of late)
2. keep convos light around her, and fun ( if she wants fb she doesnt want to hear your problems)
3. bang her (properly of course, she can get any old shag off anyone with a d!ck, thats why that first one i would be trying like a motherfvcker, bringing out the big guns, totally disregarding my pleasure until shes well and truly done off)
4. bring her a juice in the morning, show her sex to you is fun and not some stupid touchy feely bollocks where you both wake up feeling awkward.
offer her breakfast and shower, have new toothbrush and all the hair stuff for her, spotless bathroom, ( try and make her feel very relaxed in other words, it can get weird the morning after)
5. DO NOT sit around for hours lounging around, she should know your busy " OK i have to head out , can i give you lift on the way or are you right ?"
quick kiss on the lips then tell her "i'l give you a call".

 

[MrMaN]

Originally posted by MDgood
This is what I did a few months ago with some 19 year old chick I know. I was online with her, and I already knew that she was "uninhibited". I turned the conversation to her sex life, and my sex life, and then I just said, hey, you just wanna do it, with no strings attached? She said, yeah, sure, gave me directions to her house, and I banged the snot out of her.

The whole process was really rather straightforward. Occassionally I'll see her online and say something like, so when we gonna do it again, we didn't do as well as we could have, etc., and she reassures me by saying that once she breaks up with her boyfriend we can be fukk buddies again. Beats me why she says that now, she was seeing some guy when I banged her.

One item of warning: If the girl is 19 and still lives with her parents, and you're a guy in your 30s, make certain to leave the house before they got back home.

thats definately one way to do it

 

[WatchMeWalk]

Originally posted by MDgood

The whole process was really rather straightforward.

Goes to show how seduction is not rocket science when there is a mutual attraction. It's all about letting her know that it is OK to **** you!
Good job

 

[ShortyBrown]

Re: Re: How do you tell a girl that you only wanna be fvck buddies?

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
my 2 cents
firstly we banged a few times, then i think on the 2nd or 3rd night we had been laying in my bed talking about sh!t and sure enough she springs the "where is this heading" crap on me.
at the time i was ALL about me, my confidence was sky high, and i honestly didnt care if any chicks i met walked away because i had lots more numbers. (that was my state of mind at the time,)
thats how you have to be, and she will pick up on that aswell.

anyway i knew it was coming so i basically laid it all out for her:
Look i just came out of a 6 year relationship, the last thing i want or need is to get serious again, I enjoy sex , you and i have alot of fun dont we?, lets keep it light.



BUT if i was to try it again this is how i would do it:
1. get that mindset again. (very hard for me of late)
2. keep convos light around her, and fun ( if she wants fb she doesnt want to hear your problems)
3. bang her (properly of course, she can get any old shag off anyone with a d!ck, thats why that first one i would be trying like a motherfvcker, bringing out the big guns, totally disregarding my pleasure until shes well and truly done off)
4. bring her a juice in the morning, show her sex to you is fun and not some stupid touchy feely bollocks where you both wake up feeling awkward.
offer her breakfast and shower, have new toothbrush and all the hair stuff for her, spotless bathroom, ( try and make her feel very relaxed in other words, it can get weird the morning after)
5. DO NOT sit around for hours lounging around, she should know your busy " OK i have to head out , can i give you lift on the way or are you right ?"
quick kiss on the lips then tell her "i'l give you a call".

If I give you my d**khead ex boyfriend's number, will you call him up and give him a few pointers?

lol

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by MDgood: This is what I did a few months ago with some 19 year old chick I know. I was online with her, and I already knew that she was "uninhibited". I turned the conversation to her sex life, and my sex life, and then I just said, hey, you just wanna do it, with no strings attached? She said, yeah, sure, gave me directions to her house, and I banged the snot out of her.

WoW!

Technology has provided many pleasantries to mankind...

Honesty is the straight line to sex, no inhibition is the bridge and seduction is the curve.

 

[tiburon]

lol

This is great man some good **** posted in this website i agree with these boys...

Me personally i just dont even say we are fvck buddies i just bang and then when she asks me what do i see us going with this(If she asks, many get the point.) i explain just like (.)(.) but with alot lets explaining....it makes me see how much they like what i am doing to them...But (.)(.) knows what he is talking about ..you have to treat them right after so they feel comfortable, and then become busy in your life..excellent POINT!!

MDgood that was a great story i am usually very blunt but i guess you beat that time...but now you can bet i will do as soon as i fell it...


Iam Out Tiburon

 

[Krassus]

Originally posted by MDgood
This is what I did a few months ago with some 19 year old chick I know. I was online with her, and I already knew that she was "uninhibited". I turned the conversation to her sex life, and my sex life, and then I just said, hey, you just wanna do it, with no strings attached? She said, yeah, sure, gave me directions to her house, and I banged the snot out of her.

The whole process was really rather straightforward. Occassionally I'll see her online and say something like, so when we gonna do it again, we didn't do as well as we could have, etc., and she reassures me by saying that once she breaks up with her boyfriend we can be fukk buddies again. Beats me why she says that now, she was seeing some guy when I banged her.

One item of warning: If the girl is 19 and still lives with her parents, and you're a guy in your 30s, make certain to leave the house before they got back home.

Alright, i did nearly the exact same thing with two separate girls and it worked on both of them. I haven't gotten around to ****ing them yet, because they live a few hours away, but both said they would if we met.

 

[T.T. Boy]

Seduce her, then shut her down when she asks, "What are we?"

 

[DJ_Dork]

Watch out here people.. **** buddies is a dangerous area that even veteran DJs can't predict. Proceed with caution..

 

[myfriendblu]

You don't tell them jack squat. Just bang them and don't worry about it. As long as you don't mention the relationship word, there all just fuc k buddies.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by Krassus
How do you tell a girl that you only wanna be fvck buddies?

Only invite her over after 11:00 pm and never let her stay past 1:00 am.