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How do you stop a girl in her path

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Today, this HB9 walked right past me in an isolated path.

I smiled and said "hey what's up" and slowing down like I wanted to talk to her. But she just walked by and smiled and put her head down.

What are some tactics to stop girls in their paths?
 

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excellent post

that's happened to me a few times in the last couple of days, they smile and put their head down and just walk. I really don't know what to say about it.

i'm curious as well
 

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Most girls simply won't give a fcuk about you unless you're incredibly attractive. Read my post in your other thread for some tips.
 

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An ISOLATED path? You mean that it was away from other people and buildings? :eek:

You forget that we girls have been told since age 2 that talking to strangers is dangerous, being some where alone is dangerous. Talking to a stranger on an isolated path is pretty much committing suicide.

But on the other hand...any chick that would walk past an obvious stud-muffin like you is blind, stupid and not worthy of your valuable company.:D
 
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Static Clling, I listed this a few times here already....

I'm going to give you the ultimate cold approach that is infallible, unless she is just not interested at all.

You can thank me later once you used it at least 5 times!!

Here it is..........................

If you see a girl walking by you can say...

I will regret it later if I let you walk by me and I did not acknowledge your presence - I most likely will not see you again - would it be terribly impolite to ask for your name and phone number?

If she doesnt want to give you her phone number then just dismiss yourself politely by saying...

"Have a pleasant day and excuse my abrupt behavior but God designed us guys to do some crazy things" and then smile politely and walk away with your head high feeling like a man and proud that u have done your duty.

If she say yes i will give u my number (don't act startled - u deserved it) - then tell her "let me accomodate you with the means of transcription:...(pen :))

Then go through your pockets smoothly and not excitedly searching for the pen - dont find it too easily then it seems as though this was all planned and plotted as if u do it all the time and as if it was not an impromtu act - take a few seconds - and then have her write her number herself on a receipt or other paper that is not blank.

Again u dont want to make this looked planned - do not give her a lttle black book with other numbers in it - dont be arrogant be polite - then ask her "what would be the best time to reach you? " Wait 3 days before u call - dont seem too eager.

Dismiss yourself with pleasantries - "have a pleasant day"

p.s. - dont forget to give her your name after she gives you hers.
Also - if she is not walking by you then obviously u would have to use a different opening - such as, "I will regret it later if I left this place without acknowledging your presence...

I hope this helps - let me know if it works for you - and of course make adjustments as you see fit and for what the situation allows. Use lwords you are comfortable with.

Good skill!!


There is a thread called, "Daily Journal of Cold Approaches" by dj jwhite17 – check it out…Daily Journal of Cold Approaches
 
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that's really good, and it would probably work. but that is too much effort. unless you're desperate to get a girlfriend or a lay. not my style. all that just to get with a girl? hell no.

but that was a really good pick up situation :)
 
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This will take you less than 30 seconds to say - this is for an abrupt situation. You just have to have the balls to say it!!!

You can also substitute this "I never saw you before and I'll probably never see you again, would it be impolite to ask you for your phone number?"
 

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i have the balls. i use to do things like that all day everyday just for fun.

i think it's crap. if you're looking for a girlfriend. just let god make the path to find your girls. it happens all the time. go out, do your job, go to school, live your life... girls will come unexpectedly without even approaching. something like in the movies: you bump into a girl and you start talking. not making it happen.

rather than stopping a girl just get her number. i hate that style.
 
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Heads or Tails,

You use this approach exactly when you are living your everyday life going about your daily business!

This should only be done on rare occasions where you see her as an 8.5 or above. I don't believe in fate - there are many men who are with their mates because they unexpectedly and actively pursued the woman on his own accord and did not wait to be properly introduced!! I never been properly introduced to anyone in my entire life (very rarely, once or twice maybe, but not properly 'set up').

Don't rely on others or on circumstances. Why should I wait to meet that girl at a library when I now have the opportunity to do it, and will never get the chance again - I never saw a girl who I liked, twice in my lifetime - it is either now or never!!
 

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i've had many girls without doing that crap. and i was even shy back then. i never made moves. it just happened. i would go to a library and sit on the internet there or read a book then all of a sudden someone asks me where this is or how to use the computer... take it from there. it all depends on who you are i guess and if you can be bothered chatting them up with all your first moves.

i've made millions of first moves and alot go bad alot go good, but it's annoying me now. i can't keep it up. i just think of it as a crap load of effort for a number and sometimes you don't even get the girl.

sometimes i don't even know what to do anyomore. not so long ago at school (uni/tafe/college, whatever you wanna call it) all i did was say hello to almost every girl, it was rather fun too. i enjoy seeing the reaction i get. even this new girl in class, i tried to chat her up, i introduced myself, told her what she had missed out... at lunch, i approached her and asked if i could sit with her to get to know each other. we did.

she didn't seem so interested though, maybe it was because of the people i hang with, which are very loud and immature most times. screaming and yelling, whistling at girls. could be that the reason and she thinks i am the same. sometimes i am like them, but hell, its fun and it's not THAT immature is it? all we're doing is messing around and some girls like the attention. but the people she hangs with are more quiet and "mature" if that's what you wanna call it, heh.

wow, im getting a little carried away here aren't i? :p

i've been that way for many years. i think i just got sick of trying to chat up girls? i don't know. not that it always went wrong, i did get lots of numbers and stuff. i just think i hate chatting girls up all the time. i want them to chat me up for once, fuk... it DOES get annoying.

sorry if i have been typing too much here, just felt the need to get it out my chest.
 

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A well-executed clothesline should bring her to a screeching halt.

Just claim you were "fixing your hair" or "stretching"...great conversation opener.

:D
:eek:
 

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A well executed backheel should bring her to a screeching halt.

:D



I just had to say that :D



If it's campus, I prefer to use the casual-stalker approach. Find out where she's going, what class she's taking, what dorm she lives, what girls she hangs out with.

Infiltrate her circle of friends, and with a given time she'll introduce herself to you.

;)
 

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Depends on the situation...

I know "ignoring"..."Hot Chicks" aggravates the hell out of them. They don't understand why...Like a mystery...

Then when you ignore them all night long and slip them your number going out the door...You tend to get responses...

IMO

JNA
 

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Just a nice compliment followed up with something funny or a simple bs about how you might never see her again then a fast convo and nr.
 
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