How do you show you have options?

[joverby]

Can I even try to sleep with her just once?

"... then when i tried to make a move she was adamant it's only tea and kept me at an arms length. "

"... wouldn't sleep with me coz she has a smear test for cancer coming up..."

Sure you could try, again. But this really doesn't sound like a chick that wants to have sex with you dude.... Also any chick that REALLY liked me that was on her rag or something would give me a BJ. When her interest went down, she did not.

 

[big weezy]

Sure you could try, again. But this really doesn't sound like a chick that wants to have sex with you dude.... Also any chick that REALLY liked me that was on her rag or something would give me a BJ. When her interest went down, she did not.

She didn't wanna give me head cos she's worried I have STDs cos she thinks i sleep around..

She wanted to, we were dry humping in bed but every time i went down for the panties she'd lose her temper and kick me off her cos i'm not listening to her when she said no.

What I mean is, should I meet her for dinner this weekend given the time constraints and also fact she'll have free place?

It's annoying cos i have to deal with this now before another guy comes in but I'll look desperate if i suggest dinner. Ahh.. i dont know. I'm probably gona do it anyway, I'll just focus on sleeping with her.

I'm not sure if all the talking and explaining to her how me and her are so compatible will influence her decision, it got her into bed last time so maybe it'll work then again she ended with me the next day! lol

 

[housedejacques]

I've been asked a few times if I'm a player. I'm not. I'm learning to be one, but I'm not yet there. But every once in a while, I'm on fire, and I interact with women in a cool, relaxed way. I tease them, I make fun of 'em, I say what's on my mind. I do not honestly have options, but I'm so cool and relaxed and confident that they think there's something up with me.

You need to work on your inner game. Start working on feeling good being yourself. And that means accepting that you'll get nervous and you'll feel uneasy every once in a while. When you get that down, you'll master your fear. You'll lead it course through your veins and act in spite of it. And then girls will start asking you if you're a player, even if there's nobody in your life. Trust me. Girls are not used (anymore) to men who're confident.

 

[perseverance]

How do you show you have options?

You don't.

I'm a private person and my private life is strictly private. If on a date a girl starts firing questions at me, she'll get vague answers. It isn't a game I play, I just genuinely do not like people knowing too much about me. When on a date I concentrate on enjoying myself, I am relaxed because I am not there to show her how great I am, I am not there to mess with her head, I am not there to game her, or to make her jealous. I am there to enjoy some casual dating, enjoy someone's company and just chill. If things work out then fantastic, if they don't then it doesn't matter because I am not outcome dependent.