How Do You Remain Positive in the Face of Dating Hurdles?

Harry Wilmington

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Hey all:

Just did a podcast about how a negative attitude towards dating can affect your success. I have found that a lot of people on these boards are constantly bagging on women, or calling them slvts or saying how manipulative they can be... personally, I've experienced all these things, but I've still managed to keep my outlook on dating (and women in general) upbeat and positive.

But I'm curious: for those of you who have been through dating hard times, how have you been able to keep a positive viewpoint of women, dating, and relationships? Inquiring minds wanna know!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'm curious as how others do it, as well. I just try to remain neutral, or don't even bother at all.
 

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Harry Wilmington said:
Hey all:

Just did a podcast about how a negative attitude towards dating can affect your success. I have found that a lot of people on these boards are constantly bagging on women, or calling them slvts or saying how manipulative they can be... personally, I've experienced all these things, but I've still managed to keep my outlook on dating (and women in general) upbeat and positive.

But I'm curious: for those of you who have been through dating hard times, how have you been able to keep a positive viewpoint of women, dating, and relationships? Inquiring minds wanna know!
I focus on fun and not caring to much whether she stays or goes. because negativity branches off into other aspects of your life. just having a carefree fun attitude just seems to do it for me and if I did manage to some how have a bad day or something I dont go out that night.
 

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I have learned to guard my heart. Never have them first in your life no matter what, or even top 5 imo.

Like others said, don't stress the things you can't control i.E (women)

Don't chase em replace em mindset
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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