How do you politely tell other dudes to f-ck off when running game or with a girl?

[Jesse Pinkman]

I feel like I struggle with this sometimes when I am with a girl. Sometimes a dude would come up and try to make small talk with us, whether me or the girl, and we all really know what guys are trying to do in most cases here. It's one thing dealing with dudes when you are cold approaching at a club and they happen to ****block, especially if they are with a chick.

However, when you are with a girl like on a date or waiting for an Uber with her and other stuff, how do you politely tell a dude that has approached you two to f-ck off?

Like what is a socially acceptable way?

 

[SW15]

You're asking a good question. I remember I was in the middle of a good approach once and some autistic guy cocckblocked me. I ended up ejecting from the approach. I got enough information about her to find her social media pages and she did have a boyfriend on her social media. It wasn't the end of the world because I likely would have gotten some phony excuse when I asked her out.

That was not the only instance in my lifetime where I had an approach cocckblocked by another guy but its the first one I remembered.

However, when you are with a girl like on a date or waiting for an Uber with her and other stuff, how do you politely tell a dude that has approached you two to f-ck off?

Like what is a socially acceptable way?

Outside of the approach scenario, I think you just have to tell him directly that you are on a date and to get lost.

 

[Dr.Suave]

"Hey man! Im trying to get my d1ck wet over here! Would you kindly stop c0ckbloking me and f0ck off?"

Edit: Sorry, Im sleepy and not thinking. Gonna go take a nap.

 

[ManFromTartarus]

A man walking up to you when you are spending time with a woman is a sign of disrespect. I've always used "Excuse me I'm busy", worked every time, they tend to freeze up, not know what to reply, and fade back into the crowd.

As for chatting up your woman...

The only time I've ever had any man walk up and start talking to my date was when it was someone she already knew, and the few times it happened, it was also a display of disrespect from some goons that wish they had her and wanted to salt shake.

It has never happened to me, but a total stranger walking up to my date and making conversation is the ultimate of disrespect and IMO should never be tolerated. I think the only times any guy has even came close to doing anything like that I've responded with "can I help you?" and a stern look, like my other reply they tend to freeze up and back off. So far it has always given me a tool for immediate cokbloker dismissal.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Position yourself a bit toward him to isolate her and also keep her at your side letting her and him know that you're together for the night. And then just be unbothered by it. Both he and her can smell desperation if you show it. Unfortunately this only comes naturally if you have the right mindset. I didn't know I was doing it until someone brought it up in a video. In the end, if the woman wants you, she'll do all of that for you.

 

[Serenity]

If it's a date I would definitely be direct like "would you mind giving us some space, we're on a date here?". Polite, clear and makes him the rude one for not respecting that.

If it's a less clear date situation what you really should be watching is the woman, not the other guy. If she seems uncomfortable with his presence then you can basically just tell him off without worrying so much about being polite, she wants him gone and you have to make it happen because she doesn't want to confront him. If she's no stranger to telling guys off and clearly more interested in you than him, then she might just tell him off herself. If she seems more interested in the other guy, walk away I guess, low interest...

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I feel like I struggle with this sometimes when I am with a girl. Sometimes a dude would come up and try to make small talk with us, whether me or the girl, and we all really know what guys are trying to do in most cases here. It's one thing dealing with dudes when you are cold approaching at a club and they happen to ****block, especially if they are with a chick.

However, when you are with a girl like on a date or waiting for an Uber with her and other stuff, how do you politely tell a dude that has approached you two to f-ck off?

Like what is a socially acceptable way?

I'm sorry dude we're planning a bank heist and need to get our deets straight. We can't just let randos in on this. Another time, man.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Depending on the venue, go direct as others have said. “How can I help you?” It helps if you’re jacked and affect crazy eyes. The woman needs to see that you’re cool as ice around other men and know how to handle disrespect. If it devolves into aggression you’re in the wrong venues to begin with. Age and intoxication levels play a role as well. Look like a Ranger back from an op that’s ready to tear his throat out - it usually resolves itself quickly.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Some guys don't get the verbal hints so limit his space.

You can use your body to position yourself and box the guy out like in the NBA. Just slowly move in front of the guy so he's talking to and looking at your back. It's worked for me.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

I believe that the attraction she feels toward you decides which action is better.

I once had a guy coming to the girl I was dancing with and telling her that she was hot and that I was not.

She was a long term f-boddy so I knew I could pull a move like dancing with her and grabbing her ass while ironically winking to him.

Clearly you cant do something like that on a first date, in such case I would suggest something humor related where you make fun of him but without being openly hostile.

In any case the outcome is strongly connected to the attraction between you and the girl, most of the times she will just tell him to piss off herself.

 

[threeforfree]

'Look man, like I told you before, I'm not interested. I'm straight!"

 

[AureliusMaximus]

I feel like I struggle with this sometimes when I am with a girl. Sometimes a dude would come up and try to make small talk with us, whether me or the girl, and we all really know what guys are trying to do in most cases here. It's one thing dealing with dudes when you are cold approaching at a club and they happen to ****block, especially if they are with a chick.

However, when you are with a girl like on a date or waiting for an Uber with her and other stuff, how do you politely tell a dude that has approached you two to f-ck off?

Like what is a socially acceptable way?

I recognize this situation too.
I use my body language to block them if possible or outright tell them to piss off, (Depending on the situation).

In any case the outcome is strongly connected to the attraction between you and the girl, most of the times she will just tell him to piss off herself.

Ye, that has happened several times for me too where she told the invading dude to just evaporate and never come back.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

'Look man, like I told you before, I'm not interested. I'm straight!"

lol good one..

 

[Murk]

If she's entertaining the other guy, maybe take them all back to your place for some good old mmf

 

[CornbreadFed]

I feel like I struggle with this sometimes when I am with a girl. Sometimes a dude would come up and try to make small talk with us, whether me or the girl, and we all really know what guys are trying to do in most cases here. It's one thing dealing with dudes when you are cold approaching at a club and they happen to ****block, especially if they are with a chick.

However, when you are with a girl like on a date or waiting for an Uber with her and other stuff, how do you politely tell a dude that has approached you two to f-ck off?

Like what is a socially acceptable way?

politely but firmly tell him to leave

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

"Hey man! Im trying to get my d1ck wet over here! Would you kindly stop c0ckbloking me and f0ck off?"

Edit: Sorry, Im sleepy and not thinking. Gonna go take a nap.

Actually, great advice.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Actually, great advice.

Yeah but if you truly want to go direct, you scream in his face like a rabid animal.